Guys, You are at a bar, and your other sends you their latest artwork. your feelings?

[Fancie217]

I have been doing erotic art for a bit, when I am really proud of something (basically improvement) I will often send it to my hubby. I make sure it is an "appropriate" time I.E. While he isn't at work. The last few times he was at a bar with his friends, he gets embarrassed to open the message and will send me messages via. Facebook instead.

Here is my questions, If you where at a bar and your wife sent you porn type pictures, how would you feel?

If you are at a bar and the person you overlook a picture of such stuff on someone else's phone, how would you feel.

I don't see it as a big of deal as he seems to sometimes, but I am unsure if it is because he is overly sensitive, or if it is because I am overly desensitized.

Anyway, Thanks for your opinion.

 

[ItalianStyle]

I have been doing erotic art for a bit, when I am really proud of something (basically improvement) I will often send it to my hubby. I make sure it is an "appropriate" time I.E. While he isn't at work. The last few times he was at a bar with his friends, he gets embarrassed to open the message and will send me messages via. Facebook instead.

Here is my questions, If you where at a bar and your wife sent you porn type pictures, how would you feel?

If you are at a bar and the person you overlook a picture of such stuff on someone else's phone, how would you feel.

I don't see it as a big of deal as he seems to sometimes, but I am unsure if it is because he is overly sensitive, or if it is because I am overly desensitized.

This is the last picture I sent. http://up0.xhcdn.com/000/107/380/352_1000.jpg .

Anyway, Thanks for your opinion.

I would see it as she's sending me something she is thinking of doing (new position)... or what she's in the mood for at that moment.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

If it bothers him, why would you continue to push?

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Ugh. New account, posting links. Fuck off, spammer.

 

[doctor_insanus]

If it bothers him, why would you continue to push?

Yeah.

Ugh. New account, posting links. Fuck off, spammer.

Yeah!

 

[SuprSalor]

If he doesn't like you sending him drawings, maybe you should send him pics of you blowing a BBC..

 

[Noor]

He should open his messages in private, spammer.

Hey sailor

 

[Lancecastor]

I think you should take more drawing lessons before you publish.

I have been doing erotic art for a bit, when I am really proud of something (basically improvement) I will often send it to my hubby. I make sure it is an "appropriate" time I.E. While he isn't at work. The last few times he was at a bar with his friends, he gets embarrassed to open the message and will send me messages via. Facebook instead.

Here is my questions, If you where at a bar and your wife sent you porn type pictures, how would you feel?

If you are at a bar and the person you overlook a picture of such stuff on someone else's phone, how would you feel.

I don't see it as a big of deal as he seems to sometimes, but I am unsure if it is because he is overly sensitive, or if it is because I am overly desensitized.

This is the last picture I sent. http://up0.xhcdn.com/000/107/380/352_1000.jpg .

Anyway, Thanks for your opinion.

 

[Fancie217]

If it bothers him, why would you continue to push?

Just trying to get him to be more open mostly, try new things and such. I am trying to learn this new art thing because people (and color) has always been a challenge for me, and I want to send him stuff like that, similar to sexting I guess. I know naked pictures and stuff is a no go with either me or him, and ya, it isn't the best, but it takes time to learn things, and I posted the link to see if maybe it was just terribly awful, (I know the guy kinda looks like a muppet, and is kinda not positioned exactly how I wish it would have came out, but the girl turned out well, and I was pretty proud of her) and maybe that was the embarrassing part and he was afraid to admit it. I figure, like noor said, people shouldn't be peeping over his shoulder or anything when I send such things to him, but I can't imagine anyone looking down on him for it if they happened to.

 

[Noor]

Just trying to get him to be more open mostly, try new things and such. I am trying to learn this new art thing because people (and color) has always been a challenge for me, and I want to send him stuff like that, similar to sexting I guess. I know naked pictures and stuff is a no go with either me or him, and ya, it isn't the best, but it takes time to learn things, and I posted the link to see if maybe it was just terribly awful, (I know the guy kinda looks like a muppet, and is kinda not positioned exactly how I wish it would have came out, but the girl turned out well, and I was pretty proud of her) and maybe that was the embarrassing part and he was afraid to admit it. I figure, like noor said, people shouldn't be peeping over his shoulder or anything when I send such things to him, but I can't imagine anyone looking down on him for it if they happened to.

Forcing people to do things they are not comfortable is counter productive.

 

[Lancecastor]

Why are naked selfies a no-go?

You could practice here, or send some to the email address in my profile... I can give you pointers either way.

 

[Fancie217]

Forcing people to do things they are not comfortable is counter productive.

For somethings I am sure that is true, and I am not trying to force anything, (in fact I told him to message me when I could send him the picture, so it wasn't just a surprise or anything) and it did get the results I wanted, I just wanted confirmation that it isn't a big deal. He had a rather prude upbringing and I had a rather chaotic one, so sometimes I am unsure if my perspective is the right one. My take is that no one would have thought much of it, and defiantly not looked down on him for it, and that is why I asked how others would feel.

He should open his messages in private

So where you saying then he was doing the "respectful" thing by using the other messenger?


Ok, I think I might understand better, thanks.