Guys who appreciate sluts

davenjenn

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When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.
 
I'm one of those guys. I love when my woman wants to be my "personal porn star" and just surrender herself to her desires and pleasure. There isn't any "humiliation" or anything like that. I love the pure sexual energy when I'm with a true "slut" that does not hide her desire. My job is to keep her safe and enjoy the ride, both literally and metaphorically.
 
I’ve never liked the slut label with its derogatory connotations. I recognize that some women find freedom and excitement and possibly a form of empowerment from being called/calling themselves sluts, whores etc. Labeling such is not my personal cup of tea, however, I love open minded women who know what they want/like and enthusiastically pursue their own pleasure…always have, always will. Their wanton sexual confidence and enthusiasm is a tremendous aphrodisiac. Being the focus of that unleashed passion is definitely a gift. I’m a big fan but I’d never call you a slut…unless you asked me nicely, ha.
 
When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.
For me it started with dating guys who had fantasies about me being with other guys and expressing those fantasies to me, which got me thinking about it too. A few of my boyfriends even back then went one step further and wanted me to make out with guys they knew while I watched. This always got me wet, but I never actually fucked these guys until I was well past 18. Still "cheating" like this must have been in my soul, because I came the first time
 
When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.
though it was my sister who jump started my UNRELENTING drive to seek out sexual pleasures, it was the girls.., my fellow employees, that ultimately drove me in the direction of actively seeking out girls that were determined to be 'the sluts'.
It could also be--, why I always got into physical confrontations with assholes who derived pleasure from hurting girls and women.
 
My first wife was a slut. I knew she had fucked a lot of guys before we married. I think that was part of what attracted me to her. My mistake was in assuming she would stop fucking around, which she wasn't prepared to do. I finally walked in on her fucking one of our neighbors which led to our divorce. Looking back, it was immature of me to expect her to change. especially since I was also sucking another neighbors cock regularly. I should have encouraged her to become a hotwife.
 
When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.
Ive always loved the sluts as far back as i can remember. I school the ones who dressed sexier, shorter skirts etc. caught my eye. married to my slut for 24 years now. Had a lot of fun together and with others.
 
My wife and I picked each other up at a party and it didn’t take long for us to go for a walk outside so we could fuck. We tried to have a traditional relationship but we realized we got off watching each other enjoy others. It has been a wild ride but so much fun.
 
When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.
I am not sure if it is really being slutty as much as being a woman with a high sex drive. I definitely appreciate a woman who is sexual and not inhibited about enjoying sex. And we need to understand that a woman like this is not going to be satisfied with just one man. If you are lucky enough to get a woman like this, just give them their head and enjoy. Yes they will be enjoying other men but usually a woman like this will make sure her partner gets his share too.
 
I love sluts. When I was single, sluts were a godsend. Women who wanted sex, and didn't need to be in a relationship with me to enjoy it. Who wouldn't love that? Some were very attractive, but others were just average or even below average. Didn't matter, they had a sex drive and weren't afraid to use it. I was thankful they decided to use it on me. I seemed to have a talent for sniffing them out. Of course, some women are quite obvious about it, but others are more discreet. I appreciated them all
And after I was married, sluts were there to save my sanity when I craved variety. Some married, some single, there's nothing better than a woman who is eager to fuck and wants nothing more than a good time. God I love these women.
 
I always embraced being a slut, took on the label and wore it proudly. And it's never been an act. It's who I am as well as what I am. But... I've come to understand a lot of that was a defense mechanism for me. Or rather, is a defense mechanism for me. But knowing that doesn't chang how I feel, what I want... and need.

And I knew a lot of guys who were very excited by me being me. But I married the guy who wasn't into me because I was slutty, the one who saw a lot more, all the stuff I tried to hide about myself. And while I am his slut now (and man, it used to make him cringe when I said that) and have only ever cheated on him once (that did end up with us breaking up for a year and a half, but that was back before we were married), I battle myself on an almost continuous basis to understand and mitigate many of my impulses to be, for lack of a better term, slutty. I can channel it fairly well (especially after Hubby and I came to an understanding about me having a girlfriend), and Hubby does appreciate what I bring to the bedroom (and elsewhere) by being a slut, but he doesn't really understand what it really means to me, not deep inside.

Sorry... Got a bit off topic. Carry on with guys who appreciate sluts.
 
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I always embraced being a slut, took on the label and wore it proudly. And it's never been an act. It's who I am as well as what I am. But... I've come to understand a lot of that was a defense mechanism for me. Or rather, is a defense mechanism for me. But knowing that doesn't chang how I feel, what I want... and need.

And I knew a lot of guys who were very excited by me being me. But I married the guy who wasn't into me because I was slutty, the one who saw a lot more, all the stuff I tried to hide about myself. And while I am his slut now (and man, it used to make him cringe when I said that) and have only ever cheated on him once (that did end up with us breaking up for a year and a half, but that was back before we were married), I battle myself on an almost continuous basis to understand and mitigate many of my impulses to be, for lack of a better term, slutty. I can channel it fairly well (especially after Hubby and I came to an understanding about me having a girlfriend), and Hubby does appreciate what I bring to the bedroom (and elsewhere) by being a slut, but he doesn't really understand what it really means to me, not deep inside.

Sorry... Got a bit of topic. Carry on with guys who appreciate sluts.
That was deep, thanks for sharing insight into what it's like from the woman's view.
 
No I was sincere, since an early age I have always been into what makes a woman tick. Sometimes it hard for them to open up, especially to a man, thank you.
Sorry... I can be bad at taking compliments. Self-deprecating humor is my go to. Again, sorry, and this time just a simple thank you.

And I would caution about basing what makes other women tick on me... I tend to tock where most tick, if you know what I mean.
 
Sorry... I can be bad at taking compliments. Self-deprecating humor is my go to. Again, sorry, and this time just a simple thank you.

And I would caution about basing what makes other women tick on me... I tend to tock where most tick, if you know what I mean.
Everyone is different, that's what makes it interesting. No problem I don't judge people.
 
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