Guys vs. Dicks

yes and have been caught many times with a linger stair while in the locker room and show
i don't think I have been caught in a side glance, but I have looked many a time, there are some damn fine cocks in the gym I go to, but so far I am very careful not to get caught, I think. No one has mentioned anything or behaved in anyway that they knew what I was doing.
 
There have been occasions when the man is totally a jerk, but he has such an addictive cock that it's impossible to stay cool around him. He know it, and exploits you. But you aren't strong enough to resist. And you end up on your knees with his big cock throbbing in your mouth... even as you're hating yourself for doing it....
Look, I don't know about all that but it's not just guys that have cocks. Some walls do. I'm not kidding you, there are these places called ABSs and their walls grow cocks. Hard cocks.
 
Looking at a guy doesn't make me horny.
Looking at a nice, cut dick does.

Anyone else?
For the most part i agree. But a nice smooth guy with a tight muscular body that i can rub all over and kiss and lick really gets me going too. Turns me onto a big ol sissy.
 
It used to be that way for me, I was only interested in a guy for his cock. Over the years that has changed for me, I have found myself looking at a guy and thinking “I’d like to see him naked” or thinking about if he is good in bed.
 
Can seem to get my usual image host to work and post in this thread 😡
 
It's dicks.

Which is funny because I don't find masculinity attractive at all. A guy would have an extremely high bar to clear before I'm interested in anything except his dick.

I much prefer women, CDs and trans women. I guess I'm a bit of a lesbian that way.

You can try, boys. But you better bring your a++ game
 
... And above all, I hope this beautiful cock and balls are attached to a man with a good heart who wants to make love to me and not just be eye candy. I met a man like once and had a a five month affair with him that broke my heart. Maybe I should just keep looking at dicks and forget the rest.
Why would you want to change your heartfelt outlook on men? Your early stories in Lit (...River...) were not j/o material, but rather a much more potent nature -- pulling on one's heart strings.

On your first post you stated:

"... So while I understand you men who are interested mainly, or only, in a man's dick, give me the whole package, please!..."

I don't understand at all. Sure I confess that I was very wild in my day (I'm only a little over 2 years younger than you.), but it was because something was missing. It wasn't religious guilt about m2m sex, nor was it about cheating on someone as I was single. Rather, such frustration of the hours wasted on meaningless sex -- a life that was being wasted.

When I had repeated sex with the same person over time I either felt a pull away as there was nothing I had in common beyond the sex OR I struggled to not want to put my heart into the equation. I was never craving cock -- I did crave ass. Still ANY body part is NOT enough for me -- it NEVER was! Orgasm was never the completion for me. I wanted all the comradery, friendship, etc that comes before as well as after good sex. If it wasn't there, then my orgasm didn't satisfy my hunger.

In my life I am pretty much a loner and an observer of others, yet I had this very natural desire to have someone to go HOME to -- home being that sanctuary of the heart with someone special.

(Note: Today is Labor Day. We met in person on Labor Day, and while Labor Day moves around on the calendar, this year is exactly the same day that we met 22 years ago. It isn't a happy day today, as our last dog is dying. He may last a few more days or he could go today. No one has control over that stuff. We will get through this together...)

Back on topic, I have my piece of happiness, so I really don't have any investment in others attitudes -- except for thinking about some other man out there looking for something special who doesn't understand the shallowness of this pervasive love-cock-not-men attitude that is expressed so frequently on this forum. Such a guy needs to know that he should never give up on his dreams of finding something more substantial with another guy.

While it took many years to find a man such as my partner; to be quite honest, I never experienced so many love-cock-not-men in real life. Maybe it is the impersonal nature of online interactions that make it more natural to profess such shallowness. I never carried an engagement ring on my person that insisted on commitment before sex. Nor did I ever asked a married man to leave his wife and children. I knew the limits in a particular man's life and obligations. There were numerous reasons while prior relationships didn't last -- none were just that it was only about my cock.
 
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Why would you want to change your heartfelt outlook on men? Your early stories in Lit (...River...) were not j/o material, but rather a much more potent nature -- pulling on one's heart strings.

On your first post you stated:

"... So while I understand you men who are interested mainly, or only, in a man's dick, give me the whole package, please!..."

I don't understand at all. Sure I confess that I was very wild in my day (I'm only a little over 2 years younger than you.), but it was because something was missing. It wasn't religious guilt about m2m sex, nor was it about cheating on someone as I was single. Rather, such frustration of the hours wasted on meaningless sex -- a life that was being wasted.

When I had repeated sex with the same person over time I either felt a pull away as there was nothing I had in common beyond the sex OR I struggled to not want to put my heart into the equation. I was never craving cock -- I did crave ass. Still ANY body part is NOT enough for me -- it NEVER was! Orgasm was never the completion for me. I wanted all the comradery, friendship, etc that comes before as well as after good sex. If it wasn't there, then my orgasm didn't satisfy my hunger.

In my life I am pretty much a loner and an observer of others, yet I had this very natural desire to have someone to go HOME to -- home being that sanctuary of the heart with someone special.

(Note: Today is Labor Day. We met in person on Labor Day, and while Labor Day moves around on the calendar, this year is exactly the same day that we met 22 years ago. It isn't a happy day today, as our last dog is dying. He may last a few more days or he could go today. No one has control over that stuff. We will get through this together...)

Back on topic, I have my piece of happiness, so I really don't have any investment in others attitudes -- except for thinking about some other man out there looking for something special who doesn't understand the shallowness of this pervasive love-cock-not-men attitude that is expressed so frequently on this forum. Such a guy needs to know that he should never give up on his dreams of finding something more substantial with another guy.

While it took many years to find a man such as my partner; to be quite honest, I never experienced so many love-cock-not-men in real life. Maybe it is the impersonal nature of online interactions that make it more natural to profess such shallowness. I never carried an engagement ring on my person that insisted on commitment before sex. Nor did I ever asked a married man to leave his wife and children. I knew the limits in a particular man's life and obligations. There were numerous reasons while prior relationships didn't last -- none were just that it was only about my cock.
Thanks for the wake-up call. I'm glad you got the point of River. My story Alex and Me is really about that five-month affair. That story was written long before River on another site and was revised and migrated to Lit. I think River (which is pure fiction) was an attempt to exorcise the ghosts of that affair.

My comment about maybe just looking at dicks and forgetting the rest is just a recognition that where I am in life, as an older married man who is not going to change his life situation, the "hole in my heart" that can be filled only by another man, the missing piece I referred to in Alex, is going to remain for the rest of my life. I've finally accepted that. So, for me, sex with men is going to be only sex. Hence, the comment above.

Now, when it comes to sex, I want more than a nice dick. I like balls, butt, chest, fur, legs, arms, smile, eyes, in short, the whole man. And I hope he's a great kisser. And if he has a nice personality, can carry on a conversation, can actually put a sentence together, even better. But I'm guarding my heart. Never again will I fall for another man . . . I hope.
 
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