Guys, how do you like it when...

[pink swirl]

I'm curious to get viewpoints about something that happened the other night with this guy I'm seeing.

We'd been fooling around for hours and had finally settled in to sleep when he placed one of my hands on his dick (soft by now ) and kinda held it there. I gently squeezed and stroked him him after he dropped my hand and we drifted off to sleep. I woke up some time later when the dog started barking at something, and I realized I was still holding his dick in my hand. It felt nice, so I just fell back asleep.

Now that my introspective self is awake and fully caffienated, I'm thinking about it and it seems like such a touchingly intimate thing, literally putting himself in my hands. Do other people do this? Does it feel intimate, comforting, or erotic for a guy to be held like that? Or is it just a nice touch following great sex?

 

[owterspace]

my 2 cents

I personally love it when my wife lust holds mine in her hands of gently cups my balls....... either after sex or not...... its just a sort of cuddle...... nice.

 

[spyro1123]

i think its a little like a guy waking up to find his hand cupping a womans breast... although maybe a little more intimate. I havent had a whole lot of experiance with it as i sleep on my tummy or side so it is a little hard to do but i still think it would be nice.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm obviously not a guy, but it does sound very intimate, and I hold my husband like that sometimes. I also love the closeness, trust, and comfort(?) of a partner's hand on my breast when we're cuddling or drifting off to sleep...it sends a loving, 'I want you for more than just sex' message I think, though it's hard to pinpoint.

 

[pink swirl]

I personally love it when my wife lust holds mine in her hands of gently cups my balls....... either after sex or not...... its just a sort of cuddle...... nice.

A cuddle...I like that.

 

[pink swirl]

I'm obviously not a guy, but it does sound very intimate, and I hold my husband like that sometimes. I also love the closeness, trust, and comfort(?) of a partner's hand on my breast when we're cuddling or drifting off to sleep...it sends a loving, 'I want you for more than just sex' message I think, though it's hard to pinpoint.

It really is hard to pinpoint! It has all those elements to it, and it definitely gave me a warm, fuzzy feeling.

It's amazing how much can be expressed by such a small, simple thing.

 

[pink swirl]

i think its a little like a guy waking up to find his hand cupping a womans breast... although maybe a little more intimate. I havent had a whole lot of experiance with it as i sleep on my tummy or side so it is a little hard to do but i still think it would be nice.

Mmm, now there's a thought. Next time, I'll have to put his hand on me and see how that feels...

 

[taolanes]

Oooh you are very lucky. It sounds like a great mix of sexuality and intimacy

 

[phoenix1224]

Does it feel intimate, comforting, or erotic for a guy to be held like that? Or is it just a nice touch following great sex?

I'd say that it's a little bit of all the things that you listed here.

 

[M's girl]

Does it feel intimate, comforting, or erotic for a guy to be held like that? Or is it just a nice touch following great sex?

I'm not a guy eighter but I do this all the time. I like touching my boyfriend, also when we're not having sex or intend to (although we may end up there because of it). I must say my boyfriend was not used to be touched like that before me because at first he always thought it ment I wanted sex when I touched his penis or balls. Not only the sex but also touching someone like that, in my opinion, is something you only share with the person you love. Holding him like that (or him holding my breasts or butt for that matter) feels VERY intimate to me and I love it. Like SweetErica said it's sending this message that you still long for the other one after sex and/or without the intention of having sex.

Sweet... is the word that comes to my mind. And the ultimate intimacy...... And comfort maybe, because I like to touch every part of his body... sometimes it's his stomach, sometimes his chest that my hand rests upon when going to sleep, but often enough my hand lays somewhere between his legs or on his penis. I don't even think about a difference.....

I'm taking it one step further I guess, come to think of it.... in my opinion only wanting to touch (or be touched) someone there is just being horny... wanting to touch someone there without the sex is love... or am I a hopeless romantic saying that?

 

[Moleculor]

Aw. How sweet. I think I'd like that sort of thing.

 

[flowerchilde]

Oh, not a guy either, but my SO loves me to do this. We have also fallen asleep with his hand cupped over my breast and I love the secure feeling it gives me. I guess it's the same for him, the feeling of closeness and intimacy, which is nice since we've been together for 8 years and we still have that kind of closeness.

 

[Ricwilly]

After sex I just want em to take their money and leave.

 

[pink swirl]

After sex I just want em to take their money and leave.

You're just not a cuddler, are you?


Thanks to everyone for sharing your experiences. It's so cool to see there's a lot of goodness out there.

 

[HollyHawkk]

Wow, I never thought to cuddle him in that way. I often fall asleep with my hand over his hip, but never over his privets. He often falls asleep cupping my breast, I do like that. I will have to give it a try.

 

[mrmgp]

I love to have my cock held as I'm sleeping with a woman. She doesn't have to stroke it or anything. Just hold it in her loving grasp.

Mmmmmm....

 

[Lust Engine]

You're just not a cuddler, are you?


Thanks to everyone for sharing your experiences. It's so cool to see there's a lot of goodness out there.

And thanks to you for bringing up such a wonderfully tender moment too!

 

[fgarvb1]

Huh.

I never had that happen to me.

I would guess the reason is I sleep on my back and can not go to sleep with anyone touching me.

Hell, if they even move I wake up.

 

[FloatingCircus]

What a way to wake up, too.

 

[pink swirl]

And thanks to you for bringing up such a wonderfully tender moment too!

Ah,well, I brought it up because I thought it was a sweet, intimate thing and wondered if guys thought that sort of thing too. I didn't want to make to much of it, or read more into than it really was. My guy's not so much a talker when it comes to his feelings, so I look at the things he does to try to understand what he might be thinking or feeling.