my husband loves it! particularly when i'm giving him head or a hand job.
he even went so far as to get a strap on for me so i could fuck him one night. for some reason he never brought it out again but still likes the fingers.
Go for it! My boyfriend loves it when I finger him, especially right as he is about to come. And I like to watch when he does it to himself. It puts a whole new spin on the orgasm.
An old girlfriend of mine loved to finger fuck my asshole while she sucked my cock. I never came so hard before when she did me that way the first time.
I read somewhere that there are more nurves in the anus than in the pussy. Now who did that research, I don't know but my best experiences have been with a probing digit both ways.
I love anal play soo much now I've got into using vibrators and other objects with my g/f and she loves playing with her ass too. Although I'm not gay I can so see why guys like getting fucked so much !
It's so much more intense and makes me cum so much more
I think it's great! My wife does it frequently, especially because she likes to penetrate men. I'm not sure if that's her latent lesbianism or some sort of power thing, she seems to have both attractions in her.
I've always fingered my lovers and encouraged them to do the same to me. I also like getting done with a dildo attached to her with a pelvic harness. In addition to the feeling, it is sort of a nice role reversal for a little variety too. Also, it only seems fair play since I wouldn't feel right askiing to use her anus if I weren't man enough to take it myself.
Something I haven't tried yet, but will as soon as I find the right one, is a double dildo. We've been doing things fact to face for a long time, it might be nice to do something butt to butt for a change.