Guys - ever 'borrowed' your girlfirends vibrator?
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infinity706
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It depends on the girlfriend. Some would think its hot, some wouldn't care, and some would dump you.
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If my husband felt the need to do this, I'd prefer that he buy his own toys. We don't need condoms for BC, so buying them to use on my toys would be, IMO, a waste of money.
I wouldn't dump him over it, but I wouldn't be happy, either. *shrug*
ETA: If your GF says it's okay, then I don't really see the problem here.
I wouldn't dump him over it, but I wouldn't be happy, either. *shrug*
ETA: If your GF says it's okay, then I don't really see the problem here.
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I do it occasionally, sometimes she uses them on me.
Anytime we use a toy or have sex anally we use a condom...just because.
Anytime we use a toy or have sex anally we use a condom...just because.
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Absolutley. All the time. My wife's vibrating dildo feels amazing in my ass.
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I'll throw my two cents in... I'd suggest buying your own. Toys can be REALLY expensive and while it's not like you'd be throwing it against a wall or something, being the one to break it would suck lol If she has a few toys, try using the one that seems to be the most inexpensive (and best for anal) if possible. But if she's making comments about you rocking out her vibe, I say GO FOR IT. Toys are so fun for so many reasons - might I suggest you use the vibe together? 
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In my relationship, there would only be a problem if my partner used the toy improperly, or was sneaky/lied about it.
But I really view our toys as community property, and I'm enthusiastic about my husband using what we have, as long as he practices common sense with hygiene and such, and is honest about what he does and likes. We've designated certain toys for specific purposes to avoid cross-contamination, like he uses one Magic Wand attachment, plug and vibes, while I use the others. I'm also more than happy to help him purchase new toys that interest him; of course he could buy them himself, but I'm a better researcher and shopper for things like this.
Now if I have another partner, I'd expect them to provide their own insertables and absolutely ask before touching my toys. Again, that's more of an honesty/trust issue than anything else. Regardless of how clean or careful someone is, I don't want them getting into my stuff at all without my permission.
So, for anyone contemplating using a partner's toys as suggested in the OP, I totally agree permission needs to be obtained beforehand and/or that person needs to buy their own toys.
But I really view our toys as community property, and I'm enthusiastic about my husband using what we have, as long as he practices common sense with hygiene and such, and is honest about what he does and likes. We've designated certain toys for specific purposes to avoid cross-contamination, like he uses one Magic Wand attachment, plug and vibes, while I use the others. I'm also more than happy to help him purchase new toys that interest him; of course he could buy them himself, but I'm a better researcher and shopper for things like this.
Now if I have another partner, I'd expect them to provide their own insertables and absolutely ask before touching my toys. Again, that's more of an honesty/trust issue than anything else. Regardless of how clean or careful someone is, I don't want them getting into my stuff at all without my permission.
So, for anyone contemplating using a partner's toys as suggested in the OP, I totally agree permission needs to be obtained beforehand and/or that person needs to buy their own toys.
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Yup- I have never broken a vibrator- what the hell are you guys doing?
Maybe their bowels are made of steel from all the training they get. Haha! (No offense.) Personally, I tried anal play a couple of times with a toothbrush (not the brush end), and once with almost my whole hand, after using some common washing cream as lube. (I'm a guy btw.) I think my ass would break first. Hmm, I wonder what would happen if you broke the vibrator inside your ass? Ouch.
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That's what I was thinking- I think I'd hurt myself before I broke the toy- maybe we're both just fragile?
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Hmm. Not in my ass but I have borrowed it to see what the vibrations felt like. Girls, do you ever want to put your vibrator up your man's ass so he can find out what it feels like when he fucks you there, assuming you do that anyway?
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I think it's very wrong. Women can feel a special bond with their toy and to know that you snuck around her stuff and shoved her possession into your ass is invasive and disrespectful.
On the other hand if you two have an open relationship and have talked it over then it's ok, just don't do it unannounced.
On the other hand if you two have an open relationship and have talked it over then it's ok, just don't do it unannounced.
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Can't say I have but I have made the s/o work the underside of my cock with the Hattachi, mind blowing orgasms...
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Does me using one of mine on him count?
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I certainly wouldn't be concerned or upset if my partner was using my toys (in the open or in secret) as long as he was cleaning them appropriately and caring for them like the amazing little gems that they are!
Would you use one on your partner???? Just curious.
I certainly wouldn't be concerned or upset if my partner was using my toys (in the open or in secret) as long as he was cleaning them appropriately and caring for them like the amazing little gems that they are!
/\ what she said
I would *love* to use my toys on him but he has zero interest in letting me.
Just wanted to add
Be very carfull of which one of our toys you borrow. There are a few that will not stop if you insert them into your anus. We have a mutual couple whose husband did just that and he allowed it to slip. It's all funny now but at the time he was beyond mortified. The slap in the face in the end was how much he paid to have it extracted. So men use the proper toy and clean it.
Be very carfull of which one of our toys you borrow. There are a few that will not stop if you insert them into your anus. We have a mutual couple whose husband did just that and he allowed it to slip. It's all funny now but at the time he was beyond mortified. The slap in the face in the end was how much he paid to have it extracted. So men use the proper toy and clean it.
