guys, do you peek at other guys' dicks?

[rae121452]

say you're standing at a urinal with no partition.....do you sneak a peek at your neighbor's equipment. when you're in the locker room or shower do you check out the meat? i do so openly and proudly but then, i'm gay. do guys who identify as straight get a thrill looking at a stranger's dick?

 

[DavidKim]

Ha!

A good scale of honesty is the fact no one has answered...lol

 

[Sigmund7]

I generally do not. Not because I wouldn't like to, but because I think it would be an invasion of privacy. If someone offered I'd gladly trade looks.

 

[Nidan]

i do so openly and proudly but then, i'm gay. do guys who identify as straight get a thrill looking at a stranger's dick?

Is that you, Kevin Spacey?

Come on, fella. That's practically harassment.

And no, I don't have a problem with gay guys.

 

[Nidan]

I generally do not. Not because I wouldn't like to, but because I think it would be an invasion of privacy. If someone offered I'd gladly trade looks.

That's fair.

 

[crashD]

say you're standing at a urinal with no partition.....do you sneak a peek at your neighbor's equipment. when you're in the locker room or shower do you check out the meat? i do so openly and proudly but then, i'm gay. do guys who identify as straight get a thrill looking at a stranger's dick?

i might, just depends on how obvious it would be, etc.

i've certainly seen other guys looking

 

[JackOffer]

Like you, I look at them openly. I'm bi, so why hide my interest.

 

[coati]

As a bi man, I do check out other mens' cocks when it is generally acceptable to do so, like at a nude venue or at a trough-style urinal at a sex positive establishment. In those situations, I check out cocks as naturally as I would a man's face or musculature.

However, in situations with other straight men, I definitely honor their need for privacy. When a guy pulls up really close to his urinal or avoids any type of eye contact or wears a towel to and from the shower in a locker room, you know he is probably straight.

 

[whenagain]

I'm straight but sometimes curious-- still, the privacy invasion is a no go for me.

 

[dabbler]

Well, no not normally, but the biggest dick I ever saw was in fact on a friend I'd boozed with for years. A situation where you're talking guitars and what not for years on end, then one night you happen to be next to each other at the urinal and he lugs out this huge anaconda. He'd put most porno stars to shame, and he'd never mentioned it.

I bought him a drink afterward. Strangely, he wasn't a ladies' man. He only had one girlfriend in all the time I knew him, and she was trying to get off with me behind his back. I was astounded, I said what are you playing at man, that thing could make you a star. He wasn't bothered. Just wanted a quiet life.

 

[screwher]

Not intentionally. Sometimes it can't be helped like in the gym locker room. I feel it's poor etiquette to do what I've heard be called "meat gazing". Meaning checking out another guy just to see what he's got. I don't like that. I understand if you're gay or bi though.

Seeing another man fully naked helps with my fantasies about my wife though.

 

[blowit]

I don't make a habit of checking a guy out in the circumstances you mention but I have done it occasionally. Sometimes without thinking but other times quite deliberately.

 

[Locknuts]

I do.

 

[pdp68]

Yep

I do on occasion at the gym. If the guys attractive. Then I will make it a point to look him in the eye once I’ve had a good look at his cock so he knows that I was looking. My thought is, if he was showing it, he wanted someone to look at it.

 

[J1biboi]

I haven't had the chance to check out other guys since being in the shower in high school. But if I should get the opportunity I certainly would.

 

[coati]

Not intentionally. Sometimes it can't be helped like in the gym locker room. I feel it's poor etiquette to do what I've heard be called "meat gazing". Meaning checking out another guy just to see what he's got. I don't like that. I understand if you're gay or bi though.

In locker rooms, there are signals to help a perceptive man know when he can look and when he shouldn't. So, unless you have a disability that impairs your understanding social signals, trust your instincts.

Sometimes it is obvious, like if a guy checks you out first or if he engages you in a comfortable and extended conversation while he is naked. With shy but curious men, the signals are much more subtle, but they usually respond positively after you initiate a light conversation or two in the locker room. With straight guys who have no curiosity, the signals are obvious. Those guys are automatically given plenty of space-- I don't even have to think about it.

I think most men are actually interested in what other mens' cocks look like, and their naked bodies as well. I think that is programmed pretty deeply in our evolutionary development, probably having to do with competition for mating, but also with regard to sexual impulses.

 

[Naughtyboy31]

If you know he's married, it would be kinda hot to see the cock she's getting

 

[jehoram]

In social nudity situations (hot tubs, skinny dipping, gym showers, etc.), I'll check out dicks and let others check out mine. It's just natural curiosity, and nobody's making any effort to hide what they've got. I don't get turned on by the sight of a flaccid dick, but I'm not repelled by it, either. If a guy had an erection, I might get turned on, but I've never had the opportunity to test that.

But, like others have said, I think that checking out junk at urinals and such is an invasion of another's privacy, and I don't like to do stuff that makes other people uncomfortable.