Men’s swimwear question for both sexes

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Inspired by America finally catching up a bit with Europe vis-a-vis losing the asses on their bathing suits, I began buying my wife cheeky bikinis in the summer of 2022. This year, we both lost a lot of weight and are back to wedding weight. This lead me to realize how sexy and sexual it is to wear bathing suits that feel silky and highlight my dick,which is a nice size. I’ve bout many tight fitting swim trunks, many with enhancing pouches, some even a bit see through when wet. My other go-to is buying medium unlined board shorts (I’m a large - bout some smalls - which are four inches too tight but my big nuts look like a tumor - medium is perfect) in solid light colors and dressing to the right. These both really highlight my significant bulge and I’ve become very popular in Asbury Park. They have a masculine look, their board shorts or square cut form fitting trunks, not briefs and not thongs - my legs and cock are hot, my ass needs a bit more curve! And my wife is turned on by the bulge with the more masculine cuts as opposed to briefs with skimpy front coverage that look a bit more like a woman’s bikini. I caught a lot of guys staring at my cock in Asbury.

I keep mentioning Asbury, I’m lucky to live near there because there is a beach that is mostly gay and tons of cocks are rocked. I also recently went to Provincetown, another predominantly gay beach and was very comfortable. So here is what I want to hear from the board:

Do other straight/mostly straight guys highlight their cock at the beach (or want to)?
tell me, man or woman, are you turned on by it?
Do you think it’s fair that women can totally rock their asses anywhere now but men still would find discomfort at many beaches highlighting their assets?
Lastly, do you think more straight guys will be wearing flattering pouch/bulge swimwear as we make a move. Albeit slight to a less puritanical society here in the us?
 
I’ve been wearing Speedos and less since I was in my 20s. Go for it! Why should women get all the attention. I never worried as being thought of as guy. I just like to show off. Plus, I’m short so I think I look better in minimal swimwear.
 
I feel like I should have an opinion, but don't really. I think it's because I just haven't seen much in the way of revealing men's beach wear. Haven't been to the beach in a long time. I'm not sure how it works.
 
Inspired by America finally catching up a bit with Europe vis-a-vis losing the asses on their bathing suits, I began buying my wife cheeky bikinis in the summer of 2022. This year, we both lost a lot of weight and are back to wedding weight. This lead me to realize how sexy and sexual it is to wear bathing suits that feel silky and highlight my dick,which is a nice size. I’ve bout many tight fitting swim trunks, many with enhancing pouches, some even a bit see through when wet. My other go-to is buying medium unlined board shorts (I’m a large - bout some smalls - which are four inches too tight but my big nuts look like a tumor - medium is perfect) in solid light colors and dressing to the right. These both really highlight my significant bulge and I’ve become very popular in Asbury Park. They have a masculine look, their board shorts or square cut form fitting trunks, not briefs and not thongs - my legs and cock are hot, my ass needs a bit more curve! And my wife is turned on by the bulge with the more masculine cuts as opposed to briefs with skimpy front coverage that look a bit more like a woman’s bikini. I caught a lot of guys staring at my cock in Asbury.

I keep mentioning Asbury, I’m lucky to live near there because there is a beach that is mostly gay and tons of cocks are rocked. I also recently went to Provincetown, another predominantly gay beach and was very comfortable. So here is what I want to hear from the board:

Do other straight/mostly straight guys highlight their cock at the beach (or want to)?
tell me, man or woman, are you turned on by it?
Do you think it’s fair that women can totally rock their asses anywhere now but men still would find discomfort at many beaches highlighting their assets?
Lastly, do you think more straight guys will be wearing flattering pouch/bulge swimwear as we make a move. Albeit slight to a less puritanical society here in the uswim
Maybe these?

https://www.andrewchristian.com/collections/swim
 
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Thought about this on and off all through dinner.

I quite like watching male ballet dancers to see if I can detect their penises. They wear "dance belts," and the penis is guided straight up the abdomen. Usually you can't see anything, but sometimes you can.

I think why I like that better than these swim suits is the confusion factor. I'm a clarity junky, and a strong piece of my reaction is, "how is the penis arranged? Is it bent? Is it curled? How much of that is testicles?" You get the idea...
 
I have seen men in thongs at Hampton beach in the 80s. It was not very common,but nobody made a big fuss about it. I used to belong to a nudist resort, but it got too expensive and when COVID happened, the came up with all kinds of foolish rules, so that took the fun out of it. I will wear the smallest thing I can get away with-usually a thong or g-string at the beach. I get the usual comments, but don't let it bother me.
My swimwear of choice is Skinz from Florida.I am mainly out in my back yard now.
 
I have seen men in thongs at Hampton beach in the 80s. It was not very common,but nobody made a big fuss about it. I used to belong to a nudist resort, but it got too expensive and when COVID happened, the came up with all kinds of foolish rules, so that took the fun out of it. I will wear the smallest thing I can get away with-usually a thong or g-string at the beach. I get the usual comments, but don't let it bother me.
My swimwear of choice is Skinz from Florida.I am mainly out in my back yard now.
I worked down in happy Hampton in the 80's and had to tell many women to put their tops on and talked to several men who were wearing suits that showed everything....parents complained. Whatever floats your boat
 
I definitely prefer the legitimate, mainstream designs as compared to the fetish swimwear. Love showing off a subtle bulge. Arena makes a good minimal swimsuit and I have a few of them. Check out European brands like the French maker Hom. Asian suits are sexy but the pouches can hurt being too tight. Also, one has to order a size or two up on Asian suits. I don’t care for Speedo these days. Quality isn’t the same.

One good way to extend the life of your swimwear is to avoid the water. Chlorine kills a swimsuit.
 
…..They wear "dance belts," and the penis is guided straight up the abdomen. Usually you can't see anything, but sometimes you can……
Dance belts were designed to conceal the male equipment. If you want to see what is under one, check out the nude pic of Rudolf Nureyev online!
 
Inspired by America finally catching up a bit with Europe vis-a-vis losing the asses on their bathing suits, I began buying my wife cheeky bikinis in the summer of 2022. This year, we both lost a lot of weight and are back to wedding weight. This lead me to realize how sexy and sexual it is to wear bathing suits that feel silky and highlight my dick,which is a nice size. I’ve bout many tight fitting swim trunks, many with enhancing pouches, some even a bit see through when wet. My other go-to is buying medium unlined board shorts (I’m a large - bout some smalls - which are four inches too tight but my big nuts look like a tumor - medium is perfect) in solid light colors and dressing to the right. These both really highlight my significant bulge and I’ve become very popular in Asbury Park. They have a masculine look, their board shorts or square cut form fitting trunks, not briefs and not thongs - my legs and cock are hot, my ass needs a bit more curve! And my wife is turned on by the bulge with the more masculine cuts as opposed to briefs with skimpy front coverage that look a bit more like a woman’s bikini. I caught a lot of guys staring at my cock in Asbury.

I keep mentioning Asbury, I’m lucky to live near there because there is a beach that is mostly gay and tons of cocks are rocked. I also recently went to Provincetown, another predominantly gay beach and was very comfortable. So here is what I want to hear from the board:

Do other straight/mostly straight guys highlight their cock at the beach (or want to)?
tell me, man or woman, are you turned on by it?
Do you think it’s fair that women can totally rock their asses anywhere now but men still would find discomfort at many beaches highlighting their assets?
Lastly, do you think more straight guys will be wearing flattering pouch/bulge swimwear as we make a move. Albeit slight to a less puritanical society here in the us?
I do believe we are maturing as a culture here in North America. Personally I would be happy to see more revealing men's suits. Nothing better than a banana in the hammock
 
I think people should feel free to wear what they like and what makes them feel comfortable and confident.

If I saw a man in one of these suits, or something that was drawing attention to his dick, I would 100% believe that he is attempting to attract men and not women.

If that’s what you’re going for, go for it. If it’s not, and you’re hoping to attract the attention of women, this ain’t it.
 
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