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I know there was a thread here some time ago on this very subject, and I remember reading it with interest, but I didn't comment in the thread, largely because I've never believed in them. However, I really feel someone, or something, was watching over my eldest daughter today.

We were all round my parents' house, as was my brother and his wife, and their three children. We were having a belated birthday party for my little nephew. We'd all finished tea, and I was still in the dining room, talking to my sister-in-law. The children had gone out into the back garden, with my Mum and Dad. My hubby and brother were in the living room.

Chloe, my eldest (who is nine), was walking back up into the house, to get a drink. My parents have got a multi-level garden, with many steps and decking. She'd walked up the wooden steps to the balcony, which comes off the back of the living room, from the french doors. When she got to the top of the steps, she banged her elbow. Nothing odd, or major in that, but the way she reacted was. She turned to my Mum and said, "I've hurt my elbow." My Mum answered her and began walking towards her, but as she did so, Chloe fainted, very suddenly, out cold. She fell forwards, all the way down the steps (eight steps - about an eight to ten feet drop), and landed head-first on the concrete at the bottom. I heard my Mum yell, "Chloe's fainted," and I legged it outside.

When I got out there, everyone was stood at the bottom of the steps, and Chloe was sprawled, face down, still out cold. Everyone was frightened to move her, because of the way she was bent up the wrong way. I have never been so horrified or frightened in my life. But then she began convulsing, so my hubby instinctively pulled her up and held her. I joined them and hugged her, then she spoke and said, "Did I fall?" Little sweetheart. It was brilliant to hear her speak. I looked at my youngest daughter, Georgina (who is seven), and tears were streaming down her face, and my Mum grabbed hold of her.

Before I waffle on too much longer, and to cut a long story short, Chloe is ok. We took her down to the hospital to get checked out. She vomited a few times, and has a bad headache, as well as many bumps and bruises, but aside from a little concussion, she is fine. In a day or two she'll be as right as rain.

It shook us all up somewhat, especially my parents, because they actually saw it happen, and both initially feared the worst, and my little G (that's what I call Georgina, btw), is very worried it will happen again, but I told her the doctor has told Chloe what to do in the future: if she bangs or knocks herself, she is to immediately sit down and take a few deep breaths (Chloe has passed out before, from knocking herself, but both times it's happened before, she was in our carpeted living room, and didn't have far to fall). Apparently, some people are susceptible to this happening; it's all to do with the nervous system. The convulsions are due to her panicking when she comes around, and her confused brain trying to kick in and make sense of it all. Has anyone else ever known this to happen to anyone they know?

Anyway, all is fine (although I'm am checking on her every hour, at least, tonight), and I swear she has a guardian angel.

It's quite scary and worrying, to say the least, and I am concerned this could happen again. But, she definitely knows what to do now, and I know she'll remember it.

For my angels: :heart: :heart:

Lou
 
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Wow. They can thrill you one second, and scare the living crap out of you the next. I am really glad she's okay. And I suspect Mom's heart rate will return to normal in a few days too.
 
Lou - I'm so glad she's all right!

:rose: for your little angels, and if the guardian kind does exist, roses for them, too.

Hug your kids for me. The first thing I did after reading this was hug mine. :rose:
 
I am so happy your daughter is ok, Lou. My brother was in a bad car accident in University ... we got the phone call, thought he would die, broke his neck and all, he was miraculously walking in three days ... he told me later, and believe me he was quite the atheist: "someone was there, watching over me - I cant explain it, and told me not to move." I had a similar experience.

I often wonder though ... is it a guardian - or the power of our own minds, so limited and unknown ... that will some things?

Yeah, I know how mysterious this is ... but :) Still happy she is good. You have had a rough week, love. :kiss:
 
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rgraham666 said:
I'm so happy things turned out well for you and your family, Lou.

*HUGS*

Thanks, Rob. :kiss:


neonlyte said:
Phew - I know that feeling!

Kisses and hugs for all of you.

Yes, horrible feeling isn't it!? But all part of being a parent, I suppose. Thanks, Neon. :kiss:


Ted-E-Bare said:
Wow. They can thrill you one second, and scare the living crap out of you the next. I am really glad she's okay. And I suspect Mom's heart rate will return to normal in a few days too.

That's so very true. Thanks, Ted. :kiss: Yep, I'm sure it will. Luckily they are on their summer hols, and we never had much planned for this week anyway; just chilling and relaxing.

sweetsubsarahh said:
Lou - I'm so glad she's all right!

:rose: for your little angels, and if the guardian kind does exist, roses for them, too.

Hug your kids for me. The first thing I did after reading this was hug mine. :rose:

Thank you, Sarah. :kiss: I just went in and checked on her in bed. She's fast asleep, but I stroked her head and she moaned a little and turned over, so I know she's not in a very deep sleep.
 
I'm glad she was ok, Lou :rose:

I definitely believe in the guardian angel thing. I've had my skin saved lots of times by unexpected events. About six weeks ago I pulled out of a plan that would have seen me on holiday in Sharm-al-sheikh this weekend. I've also missed motorway pile-ups by minutes after having to answer sudden calls of nature. Too good to be put down to coincidence.
 
CharleyH said:
I am so happy your daughter is ok, Lou. My brother was in a bad car accident in University ... we got the phone call, thought he would die, broke his neck and all, he was miraculously walking in three days ... he told me later, and believe me he was quite the atheist: "someone was there, watching over me - I cant explain it, and told me not to move." I had a similar experience.

I often wonder though ... is it a guardian - or the power of our own minds, so limited and unknown ... that will some things?

Yeah, I know how mysterious this is ... but :) Still happy she is good. You have had a rough week, love. :kiss:

Thanks, Charley. :kiss: Yes! I remember you saying about that before. As you know, I'm also a complete atheist, but it was something she said, in the hospital afterwards. She said that an angel broke her fall. Stuff of child fantasy, more than likely, but incredibly sweet. She can actually remember very little about what happened, but I swear the fact that she was still out cold when she hit the ground prevented her from injuring herself more seriously. She would have completely tensed up and probably freaked out if she came round as she was falling.

Yes, I'm inclined to agree, actually, about the power of our own minds willing things.

Thanks, babe. Yep, but we must have the rough times to fully appreciate the good and all we have, and believe me, I appreciate everything and feel so bloody lucky to have all I do, especially my family.

:rose:
 
scheherazade_79 said:
I'm glad she was ok, Lou :rose:

I definitely believe in the guardian angel thing. I've had my skin saved lots of times by unexpected events. About six weeks ago I pulled out of a plan that would have seen me on holiday in Sharm-al-sheikh this weekend. I've also missed motorway pile-ups by minutes after having to answer sudden calls of nature. Too good to be put down to coincidence.

Thanks, Scheh. :kiss:

Blimey, that is scary stuff. Yeah, I think I recall... was it you that started up the other thread I mentioned?
 
Tatelou said:
Thanks, Scheh. :kiss:

Blimey, that is scary stuff. Yeah, I think I recall... was it you that started up the other thread I mentioned?

Yup, that was me. I was right too, wasn't I? :cool: :rose:
 
When my daughter was three days old I decided to walk the two blocks, carrying her, to the shop on base. As I was walking I turned my ankle and fell. Hard. Mysteriously, I mangaed, Without thought, turn myself so I was underher adn her neck didn't jerk. I swear I don't know how it happened. I fell forward. I truly than k God for watching out for me. She could have died.
 
Dar~ said:
When my daughter was three days old I decided to walk the two blocks, carrying her, to the shop on base. As I was walking I turned my ankle and fell. Hard. Mysteriously, I mangaed, Without thought, turn myself so I was underher adn her neck didn't jerk. I swear I don't know how it happened. I fell forward. I truly than k God for watching out for me. She could have died.
1 part Guardian angel
10 parts maternal instinct.
 
Dar~ said:
When my daughter was three days old I decided to walk the two blocks, carrying her, to the shop on base. As I was walking I turned my ankle and fell. Hard. Mysteriously, I mangaed, Without thought, turn myself so I was underher adn her neck didn't jerk. I swear I don't know how it happened. I fell forward. I truly than k God for watching out for me. She could have died.


That one I can relate to. Several years ago, I stepped over the baby gate seperating the daycare we run in the back of our home from the actual living quarters. Two little girls were sitting on the steps just below the gate. I did this all the time, was second nature, but that time my foot caught on the very top edge of the gate and I fell forward atop the girls.

Somehow, I managed to shift myself midfall and twisted around to not only not land on them, but to totally miss even touching them. In fact, when I looked at my sore feet later, I'd managed to bruise the fatty tissue between the sole and the top of the foot--on both sides of the foot, the one I landed on as well as the other one.

It was kind of strange.
 
Tatelou said:
Thanks, Charley. :kiss: Yes! I remember you saying about that before. As you know, I'm also a complete atheist, but it was something she said, in the hospital afterwards. She said that an angel broke her fall. Stuff of child fantasy, more than likely, but incredibly sweet. She can actually remember very little about what happened, but I swear the fact that she was still out cold when she hit the ground prevented her from injuring herself more seriously. She would have completely tensed up and probably freaked out if she came round as she was falling.

Yes, I'm inclined to agree, actually, about the power of our own minds willing things.

Thanks, babe. Yep, but we must have the rough times to fully appreciate the good and all we have, and believe me, I appreciate everything and feel so bloody lucky to have all I do, especially my family.

:rose:


Every moment, good or ill ... makes us who we are. Without yesterday ... there is no now - no us. ;)
 
So relieved and happy that your Chloe is well. Sympathies for what must have been a horrible fright.

Shanglan
 
BlackShanglan said:
So relieved and happy that your Chloe is well. Sympathies for what must have been a horrible fright.

Shanglan

Thanks, Shang. :kiss: Yes, it was, very much so.

Chloe is doing very well now, physically, but the full horror of it all finally hit her last night; she had a night terror. :( At about 10pm, I heard her screaming and crying upstairs. When I got up there, Georgie was on the landing, in tears herself (she's been so worried about her sister), and Chloe was walking/stumbling out of her bedroom. She was saying things like, "I don't feel safe." "I'm frightened." And other things like that. :( It took me ages to calm her down. Once she was back in bed, I sat cuddling her and Georgie for a while, and Chloe finally began to fully wake up (she used to have these night terror/sleepwalking episodes when she was younger, but hasn't had one for quite some time now). Once she was fully awake, she was smiling and chatting as usual, and couldn't even remember crying or being out on the landing. She's been fine today, and has been talking about what happened, and how she felt at the time (she doesn't remember the fall, but does remember coming to, once she was on the ground, and realising she'd fallen). She talks very matter-of-fact about it, when she's awake, but admitted she does worry it could happen again. I'll just see how she goes again tonight.
 
I am happy that you child is OK. However, it would seem that you need to train her to go to the ground as soon as she hits herself on something. If you are already on the ground and you black out, there is nowhere to fall.

JMHO.
 
R. Richard said:
I am happy that you child is OK. However, it would seem that you need to train her to go to the ground as soon as she hits herself on something. If you are already on the ground and you black out, there is nowhere to fall.

JMHO.

Thanks, RR. :kiss: Yep, that's exactly what the doc at A&E advised us (and what we realised ourselves). She knows to drop to the floor and take some deep breaths, if ever she knocks herself again. She knocked her knee on the doorpost earlier, very lightly, and sat on the floor immediately. Bless her heart. She's still concerned that she won't react quickly enough, though, but I've been telling her to try not to worry.
 
Glad your little girl is okay, Lou. That would be terrifying. Unfortunately, I don't have any personal experience with the condition you're talking about, but I wish you and your daughter all the luck with that. :rose:
 
lilredjammies said:
I'm glad to hear she's okay, Lou. :rose: s for you and your girls.

Thanks, lilred. :kiss:


AppleBiter said:
Glad your little girl is okay, Lou. That would be terrifying. Unfortunately, I don't have any personal experience with the condition you're talking about, but I wish you and your daughter all the luck with that. :rose:

Thank you, Apple! :kiss: It is a very odd condition. She's got an appointment to see our GP later in the week, and hopefully we'll be able to get it investigated a little further. The doc at casualty said it wasn't actually that uncommon, but admitted he'd seen very few cases. I want to find out more, for her sake, because it does seem to be distressing her quite a lot, no matter how much she tries to hide it. Besides which, fainting with very little warning, from a small bump on an elbow or thumb, just isn't "normal".
 
Tatelou said:
Yep, that's exactly what the doc at A&E advised us (and what we realised ourselves). She knows to drop to the floor and take some deep breaths, if ever she knocks herself again. She knocked her knee on the doorpost earlier, very lightly, and sat on the floor immediately. Bless her heart. She's still concerned that she won't react quickly enough, though, but I've been telling her to try not to worry.

Sounds like you're doing exactly the right thing, Lou. Chloe and Georgie are very lucky to have you as their mother :rose:

Can I make a suggestion for avoiding night terrors? I know you're unlikely to do it, but make sure other adults don't dramatise what happened. Kids learn their fears from adults.

I had measles when I was a kid, and I was really scared because on the way to to the doctor's she showed my rash to everyone she knew and they all acted with alarm. The rash itself didn't bother me in the slightest. I just picked up on the general vibes and freaked out with the rest of them.

Also it might be worth pointing out that although it might happen again, it's already happened once and she got through it, so it's not really such a big deal - especially as she knows what to do next time. Otherwise she might start treating herself like bone china and not getting involved in the usual kid stuff.

I'm probably not telling you anything you don't already know and aren't already doing, but I hope it helps. :kiss:
 
scheherazade_79 said:
Sounds like you're doing exactly the right thing, Lou. Chloe and Georgie are very lucky to have you as their mother :rose:

Can I make a suggestion for avoiding night terrors? I know you're unlikely to do it, but make sure other adults don't dramatise what happened. Kids learn their fears from adults.

I had measles when I was a kid, and I was really scared because on the way to to the doctor's she showed my rash to everyone she knew and they all acted with alarm. The rash itself didn't bother me in the slightest. I just picked up on the general vibes and freaked out with the rest of them.

Also it might be worth pointing out that although it might happen again, it's already happened once and she got through it, so it's not really such a big deal - especially as she knows what to do next time. Otherwise she might start treating herself like bone china and not getting involved in the usual kid stuff.

I'm probably not telling you anything you don't already know and aren't already doing, but I hope it helps. :kiss:


Thanks, Scheh, I *really* appreciate your input. :kiss: :rose:

You are so right, kids do pick up on the fears and reactions of us grown ups. I know we were all pretty shaken up by what happened (particularly my Dad, who'd not only seen it happen, but also felt guilty - completely irrantionally so - because he'd built the steps and balcony himself). BUT, we've all been making a concerted effort to just send Chloe positive vibes. She's a sensible girl, and very strong in character, so I can't see any long-term ill-effects. She slept very well last night, btw. :)

Thanks, again.

Lou :kiss:
 
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