Grudge fucks.

Freya

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Or revenge fucks, or ego-boost sex - ever do them? Thinking "Fuck you, I'll show you what you're missing"? Or just to prove to yourself that you're desirable. Or getting someone worked up, and then walking away - letting them know what they've lost out on?
 
Freya2 said:
Yes.


At least that's what people tell me. ;)

Interesting.

I know a choice individual or two I could use it on...

But some part of me would rather tie them up and make them watch me with a willing partner instead.

That way they see what they miss, but never get it.
 
Oscuridad said:
Interesting.

I know a choice individual or two I could use it on...

But some part of me would rather tie them up and make them watch me with a willing partner instead.

That way they see what they miss, but never get it.

That's an interesting ploy too. Never thought of that one.
 
I have to wonder... who's better at grudge fucks? Men or women? Do women really care if a man moves on quickly after a break up? I know as a man, it has got to be the most painful thing to see your ex move on quickly to a new dude, especially if you know she's just fucking him to show you that she can. But I don't know many guys that can just go fuck some chick to show they can, besides a few avowed "players". If anything, I definitely think the grudge fuck is much easier to do for women.

PBW
 
P. B. Walker said:
I have to wonder... who's better at grudge fucks? Men or women? Do women really care if a man moves on quickly after a break up? I know as a man, it has got to be the most painful thing to see your ex move on quickly to a new dude, especially if you know she's just fucking him to show you that she can. But I don't know many guys that can just go fuck some chick to show they can, besides a few avowed "players". If anything, I definitely think the grudge fuck is much easier to do for women.

PBW

I have to agree.

Somehow I can't see inspiring the same sort of vast jelousy that has been at one point visited upon me.
 
Freya2 said:
Or revenge fucks, or ego-boost sex - ever do them? Thinking "Fuck you, I'll show you what you're missing"? Or just to prove to yourself that you're desirable. Or getting someone worked up, and then walking away - letting them know what they've lost out on?

No, but it's not a bad idea to make sure that after an unhappy breakup that the ex or one of his/her friends sees you with someone much better looking ASAP.
 
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Lancecastor said:
No, but it's not a bad idea to make sure that after an unhappy breakup that the ex or one of his/her friends sees you with someone much better looking ASAP.

So true, and preferably younger as well.
 
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Lancecastor said:
No, but it's not a bad idea to make sure that after an unhappy breakup that the ex or one of his/her friends sees you with someone much better looking ASAP.


Yes, I think we all strive to do that. And let's not mention that we could give two shits about the new person and that we are just seeing them to get over the ex. I wonder how many people actually pull this off. Or are even in a place where they give two shits about how they appear to the outside world. I have to laugh when I think about my last unhappy break up. I thought women were eeeevvvilll... I didn't want to be within two feet of one. As you can see, I got over that quickly. :)

PBW
 
i always found that the best way to "get back" at an ex after a break up is just being happy about it.

although i did seduce an ex~boyfriends best friend at a christmas party.

but it was more for fun.
 
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Freya2 said:
So true, and preferably younger as well.

Of course... that goes without saying.

A better car, job, nicer clothes, slimmer, better looking, nicer teeth, better smile...whatever it takes.

One time a grrlfriend broke up with me to hook up with an old flame she'd run into.

I met a much prettier grrl soon afterwards who had a better job, nicer hair, better wardrobe, more education....the works. Total babe.

2.0 and I were having margaritas on the patio there at Second City on Blue Jay Way one fine day, and who happens by but grrlfriend 1.0....she was knocking on my door the next nite, looking for ex-sex.

Saying "No." and closing the door was wonderful....she was knocking on me for months afterwards. A fine turning of the tables.
 
And what actually changes when you go up less than whole numbers? (2.0 to 2.1 or 2.2).

LOL

PBW
 
It's easier for a woman to engage in a grudge fuck for the simple reason guys don't turn down sex.
 
Oscuridad said:
You version number your girlfriends?

wow.

Ones of a similar type that follow in succession, yes.

It avoids confusion when talking with your friends and allows for upgrades...Grrlfriend 3.0 can become 3.1 if she breaks up over not agreeing to anal sex, then comes back and reconsiders, for example.
 
Lancecastor said:
Ones of a similar type that follow in succession, yes.

It avoids confusion when talking with your friends and allows for upgrades...Grrlfriend 3.0 can become 3.1 if she breaks up over not agreeing to anal sex, then comes back and reconsiders, for example.

Oh. I see.

I was wondering how that worked.

*still chuckling*
 
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