Grabbed in public

[Pafireman]

Any ladies like strangers to grope you in public tell us your stories and your reactions or your fantasies

 

[desertslave]

Fuck no! Not cool and will either get the grabber injured or arrested (or both).

 

[MeekMe]

No, I don't like to be touched inappropriately and non-consensually by strangers. That's called sexual battery and it's illegal.

My reaction if this were to happen would depend on where I was. Most likely I'd either defend myself or look for a safe place before reporting them to the authorities.

 

[Penuche]

Any ladies like strangers to grope you in public

No - what I'll tolerate or even enjoy being done by somebody I know is nothing like the same as I'd accept from somebody I don't know and have had no previous interaction with.

I suspect the idea of women enjoying being groped in public by strangers is mostly a male fantasy, and more to do with power than sex.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

Groped in public by a stranger? No, no, no.

Groped in public by my guy? Not especially as that would involve the non-consenting public and he wouldn't do that, either. We would dart into a secluded place.

 

[twister947]

I have been groped a couple of times, and it was a rush; but I'm a guy, and that's an entirely different dynamic. Keep your hands to yourself, dude.

 

[Athalia]

It would induce full panic attack in me. PTSD to the max. Not cool at all.

Wouldn't mind it if it was a guy I knew well, and he signaled it enough in advance for me to refuse it if I wasn't in the mood for it. But a random grope from a stranger? No way.

 

[RISsey]

I think that "stranger" is a broad term, very open to interpretation. Someone I had made some eye contact with, started a subtle flirtation between strangers, where he came up and rubbed against me or cupped my ass... I could deal with this in the right circumstances. I might even find it exciting. There are other circumstances I may not enjoy as much.

 

[Penuche]

I'm probably not the only woman who's been groped, dry humped, or rubbed up against by some surplus nomark of a knobhead who didn't even try to work out first whether I'd welcome it.

Don't assume that it's the lack of romance which is the worst bit. I can and do enjoy rough sex (as well as more gentle lovemaking), with the right person, but I still loathe this.

When commuting or using public transport during the rush hour, you seldom have the luxury or moving away, hardly the space to stamp one foot and know that it would hurt the right person, no room to raise your arm even enough to elbow them hard.

It might not be rape, but it's sexual assault, bloody unpleasant, intrusive, and happens far too often. Don't believe me? Check websites like everyday sexism.

 

[the captians wench]

I've had strangers ask, but that's always at the burlesque shows and usually after half of the dancers have groped and/or motorboated me.

But I dress to provoke it in order to draw attention to the stuff I sell there.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I remember one occasion where this went horribly wrong. Somebody was groping my ass in a very close crowd at a show. I turned around and shouted at the guy behind me.. Knock it the fuck off, asshole! No expression change from him. It happened again a couple minutes later, and I again turned around and started yelling at him, at which point he got very pissed off. Seeing I was standing on the edge of a mosh pit, it might have gone even worse. As it was he just pushed me around a bit, called me some choice names and I scampered. Not a fun memory. I have no clue as to who actually was guilty.

So... no thanks!
And thank you so much for resurfacing these painful memories!

 

[desertslave]

I suspect the idea of women enjoying being groped in public by strangers is mostly a male fantasy, and more to do with power than sex.

Very, very this!!!

 

[BiBunny]

I think men who legit do this have no idea just how easy fingers are to break.

I'm just sayin'.

 

[midwestyankee]

Any ladies like strangers to grope you in public tell us your stories and your reactions or your fantasies

You stopped growing up at 12, didn't you? Must be tough living life this way. But at least if you can do your own laundry no one else has to see the Star Wars undies.

 

[thelaughingcat]

Um, no. And I have a serious thing for non-con. (Don't ask how my brain works, it'll make yours hurt.)

But the random grope by a stranger thing? Ewwww. And it is in local paper every day with a grainy CCTV image of the latest delinquent who thought it was just fine and dandy to give it a go.

Sleazy dude, rat slick sleazy.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Ahlam]

Hmmm...I was groped in a crowded subway once. My elbow connected with my assailant's nose and then he lost interest. Creeps are so fickle.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

This is a definite no.

 

[Que]

Unless the OP is actually a pain-slut and wants to be beaten into blissful ecstasy, this nonsense does not belong on the BDSM board. There is nothing dominant about being a sneaky, creepy groper, and there is nothing submissive about being sexually assaulted against your will.

This belongs over in Fet, where along with a few interesting people and their kinks and a sea of socially retarded, developmentally challenged, perpetual adolescents reside.

 

[MichaelinChina]

Oh come on. The OP used the word fantasy twice.
None of you have ever fantasised about this?

Suspend the wrongness of it all. Tell us your fantasies.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[MichaelinChina]

I fantasise that people who try and grope get electric shocks. Really, really nasty ones, that drop them to the ground. Or a stain on them so that everyone knows they are nasty gropers.

How's that?

You obviously missed my angle. I certainly don't approve of strange men groping women not known to them in public.

But surely some women do have the fantasy.

Have you never honestly seen a handsome stranger (he/she certainly would not be ugly in your fantasy) and thought hmmmm "what if he/she were to grope me?"
Wouldn't that be a turn on?

It would probably (hopefully) never happen but the fantasies surely exist among (some) women. Including, I am sure, many of the ones who are vehemently opposed to the idea in this thread.

 

[Penuche]

None of you have ever fantasised about this?

No

Suspend the wrongness of it all. Tell us your fantasies.

Dude, are you on short rations? Even if you're not yet, your delightful way of telling grown women that they don't know what they want is one step away from ensuring that you get none without renting it this side of the next century.

*breathes* I have fantasies and some of them would be way too dark for you, little boy. None of them involve being grabbed in public by a complete stranger who refuses to let up or accept any signs of refusal.

 

[MichaelinChina]

No


Dude, are you on short rations? Even if you're not yet, your delightful way of telling grown women that they don't know what they want is one step away from ensuring that you get none without renting it this side of the next century.

*breathes* I have fantasies and some of them would be way too dark for you, little boy. None of them involve being grabbed in public by a complete stranger who refuses to let up or accept any signs of refusal.

wasn't asking nor expecting you to contribute. You also missed my point. Now run along and find a 'nice thread' where you can.

 

[Penuche]

wasn't asking nor expecting you to contribute. You also missed my point. Now run along and find a 'nice thread' where you can.

IP that you'll run first.

I didn't miss the point, you edited and added in anohter couple of lines.