Ruined orgasms

[newengland07]

Any ladies into ruined orgasms or orgasm denial? What interests you? Just looking to see what you think?

 

[Aisline2007]

Well I'm very new to all of this, but from experience, denial is definitely not my cup of tea. I can't wrap my head around it. I am not passing judgement on those who love it, you do you boo! It's just something I struggle with personally and don't understand the appeal. However I will obey and be in denial as long as required for my Dom. Even if I don't enjoy it, He does and that's all that matters.

 

[SirSparky]

I love orgasm denial and so does my sub. She isnt allowed to cum amd must edge all day long. She is only allowed to cum when she has sex with her boyfriend and at no other time. She is constantly on edge and horny, pussy dripping wet all day.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

I am not the biggest fan or orgasm denial. It sometimes feels unnecessarily cruel, but I am writing a story where a woman goes through this, until she finds the freedom to let herself go.

Life is short. We have limited time. What use is it to deny pleasure, when you can overwhelm her with so many that she is reduced to a pleading mess.

 

[Aisline2007]

I am not the biggest fan or orgasm denial. It sometimes feels unnecessarily cruel, but I am writing a story where a woman goes through this, until she finds the freedom to let herself go.

Life is short. We have limited time. What use is it to deny pleasure, when you can overwhelm her with so many that she is reduced to a pleading mess.

This. Drawing it out and raising the build up? Yes please. Denying? Not so much

 

[calmlikeabomb]

This. Drawing it out and raising the build up? Yes please. Denying? Not so much

Delayed pleasures can be so satisfying. They can crash like an avalanche, or fall slowly like soft summer rain.
Denied pleasures are regrets and wasted opportunities. I have no sympathy for them.

 

[seela]

I like ruined orgasms. I’m very into denial and ruins play into it nicely. Ruins feel deliciously hollow and lacking. It messes with my head in wonderful ways if I think I’m going to get to have an orgasm and then it gets taken away and turned into a ruin.

A ruined orgasm also resets the pleasant foggy plateau of edging and denial for me and makes it more difficult again, so a ruin really drills home the fact that I’m giving up something and I’m definitely not the one in charge.

So close, so far.