Good hurt Vs. Bad hurt

NCShin

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excuse me if this is a lame question, just kinda something i've been wondering about...

This is for the ladies and has to do with size issues ;)

What is the threshold for what is a good hurt and bad hurt when it comes to vaginal sex and how large the man is?

As far as thickness, is that a better hurt than if he is long?

If he is long is that a bad hurt?

Is it a good hurt to feel it after the fact, just kind of as a reminder that he was there? Or is that still bad?

If your man was hurting you what if anything could he do to minimize the bad hurting and if it's possible to make it a better hurt?

Would you ever complain about something like that just to bump up your man's ego?
 
A vagina can accomodate quite a bit.

A large girthed or long penis leaves my jaws more sore than anywhere else.

And yea, I lie to men all the time to stroke their egos.
 
I think when they are pounding my cervix endlessly, it's a bad hurt. Of course, I have someone who is 9" and the average vagina length is about 6-8".

Do I lie? Absolutely not. (I bet you wonder if that's a lie)
 
For me...

I find that girth is better than length. Too much length strikes against the cervix, and that to me is "bad pain". A man who is longer can adjust his strokes, or his position, to lessen that effect. Oddly, internal organs seem to shift around just in the day to day of an average life enough that one day, my Master's cock is perfect and another, he's way too long, and beats the hell out of my cervix.

Conversely, length is more tolerable anally, (naturally!)

And ADR is right- we can stretch to accomodate a lot- probably a whole lot more than most people expect. Vaginally, I've known mothers who gave completely natural childbirth to kids up to 10 lbs, and that's a big baby! (Picture an infant: We're talking about a small watermelon here- albeit, a very flexable, compressable one.)

Also, it should be noted that with just a little bit of internal exercize, (as in kegal contractions,) we can accomodate that surprising amount with relatively little after-effect. It is generally not stretching (with the exception of the childbirth extreme,) which leaves a woman's sex stretched, but rather a lack of tone proper aftercare, and exercize. Master fucks me daily, often several times, and has for many years, and I'm still sometimes so tight against him that it's like losing my virginity all over again!
 
tythisredheadup said:
Of course, I have someone who is 9" and the average vagina length is about 6-8".
Do I lie? Absolutely not. (I bet you wonder if that's a lie)

~Master-! Super-subbie Suzie says, her Master's got 9 inches! NINE inches! Imagine that!~

*LOL*

(Not so obscure ref. to the Stuff never to say to your Top thread. *S*)
 
Re: For me...

Technodivinitas said:
Master fucks me daily, often several times, and has for many years, and I'm still sometimes so tight against him that it's like losing my virginity all over again!

Bitch! I rarely get fucked more than once a week. :( So unfair!












(Btw, I wasn't seriously calling you a bitch. But it's still unfair!)
 
One lover I had was long (8-9"), another wasn't as long but very thick. I much preferred the thickness.....being stretched was very pleasurable compared to having my cervix hit!

Also my eyes have been opened to the pleasures of being spanked.....I always thought pain was a bad thing but some pain is definitely good.....:devil: :D
 
my bf is around 7.5 inches. most of the time if he's pounding away at me, it hits my cervix with a sort of bad pain, which can be quite good, because after a while i relax and it starts feeling really good. or sometimes the pain is just good. i have never felt sore afterwords.

however, he is also wider than average, so if i'm not fully aroused and he enters, it's a bit of a stretch, and i often do feel sore for a short time afterwords. the problem with that is that is also makes me feel frustratingly aroused for a while, even if i have orgasmed, and it gets very uncomfortable!

so in all, i cant really say which is worse.

i like pain.
 
to me, hurt is hurt, there is no good or bad. as to the thick vs. long issue, i am definitely more tolerant of a man with an abnormally thick cock than i am of a man with an abnormally long cock. as someone else mentioned, too long presses against the cervix (once actually had the lining of my cervix torn because of someone who was way too long). it also just feels like it's going to come thru my stomach and gives me a feeling like i have to puke...not really erotic.
 
I am an absolute size queen. The bigger the better for me, both in length and girth. Yes, being penetrated by something large does hurt...but it's all good hurt to me. I enjoy it.
 
Damn

I guess I am in the minority. I prefer small guys, period. I am not built average size vaginally (my doc told me I was less than 6 in. from entrance to cervix) so anyone larger than that causes intense vaginal pain. (And no matter how much pain sluttiness I have inside of me, that pain is NOT something I want or need)

With anal? I am usually the giver, not the receiver, so I have never really given it any thought.
 
Wideness is easier for me tolerate than length. Gtting hit hard in the cervix feels like getting punched in the stomach,so unless you're into roman showers, I don't recommend it.

As for making it easier, let the girl come once first. After an orgasm, you're more relaxed and usually pretty wet, so it's easier. I have a friend who swears that anal sex is easier after she's had an orgasm first too.

Just so no one jumps on me (again) only the first part of that is true for anal. You're more relaxed, but you still need the lube..
 
Size really doesn't make much difference to me at all.... I love that feeling of being stuffed so girth is actually preferable to width.

I can't remember that it ever hurt in a bad way....;)
 
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