Good Bye Everyone

[biggbear8]

THIS IS MY FINAL POST IN LIT SEEING SOMEONE DECIDED TO INTERFERE IN MY REALLIFE IT SADDENS ME TO SAY GOOD BYE TO
SOME VERY WONDERFUL FRIENDS IVE MADE HERE IN LIT.

I MAYBE BACK BUT I NEED SOMEIME TO STRAIGHEN OUT MY LIFE
TO REPAIR THIS SHATTERED HEART.

A COUPLE SPECIAL GOOD BYES

ROSY YOU ARE ONE VERY SEXY LADY IM GLAD WE BECAME FRIENDS AND IF ANYONE DOESNT SEE HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE THEY NEED TO BE EXAMINED!
DREAM LOVE YOU HUN HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT OK
1SEXYLADY UR SPECIAL

STUDDOG FIIRST THANK YOU FOR THE SIG IT WAS GREAT
ESPECIALLY COOKIE AND BEAR. SECOND WATCH OVER MY SWEETHEART SHE MEANS ALOT TO ME . THIRD THX YOU FOR BECOMING FRIENDS UVE BECOME SOMEONE SPECIAL TO ME HIGH5 STUDDOG VERY PROUD TO CALL YOU FRIEND!

CURIOUS THX YOU FOR THE WONDERFUL TIMES DANCING HEHEHEHEHEHEE THANK YOU MY SEXY FRIEND.


TO MY WONDERFUL ATTRACTIVE LADY ( SEE REMEMBERED)
COOKIE JAR HUGS AND KISSES ALWAYS I WILL ALWAYS BE HERE FOR YOU , I AM SO SORRY THAT SOEMONE TRYING TO HURT ME HURT MY FRIEND , YOU ARE VERY PRECIOUS TO ME



TO EVERYONE ELSE THOSE WHO I CALL MY FAMILY I SAY GOOD BYE FOR NOW IT WAS A PLEASURE GETTING TO KNOW YOU AND BECOMING FRIENDS .


EVERYONE HAVE A

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!


GOODBYE ALL

 

[cookiejar]

To my Bear.....

Life can be so cruel sometimes , I feel so much pain this morning. The person who decided to play in your real life has did so much damage to a sweet gentle man. You were always there for me , as well as all of your friends here. There were times you were so physically sick and you were still gracious , understanding and loving to me and others. Every moment we had together was precious to me.....you helped me through a difficult time in my life even as yours was falling apart.
I hope this person is proud of themself.....they tore a good and gentle man apart. I love you Bear and will always hold you close in my heart.....take care love.

Hunnybare

 

[STUDDOG]

Bear....My Friend

I will trully miss you Bear and your kindness and friendship.

Keep that light shining in your heart good buddy and all else will
work out....

This hangs above my desk...A good friend sent it to me when I was at a crossroads in my life


Life

Life is a journey, not a single destination,
We are all seaching for happiness.

It's ok to feel "lost" sometime, as it is in these lost times that we go inside ourselves and find more of our hidden potential.

The next time you feel life is going nowhere, Take sometime to
listen to the awesome power inside you.

It's there just waiting to come out.

your friend
STUDDOG

 

[CJS6]

Big Bear,

Time on this planet is precious and short lived! I will miss you greatly!

From the first day I met you I knew that I had met a very caring, generous, individual that I would soon call my friend. As our friendship grew so did my respect for you! I can recall the many hours that we laughed as if it was yesterday. You were always there for me when I needed you most. Your kind words of encouragement kept me from falling apart, even when you told me your famous words, "I told you so"!

My prayer were answered when you came into my life, I didnt expect such a hairy angel, but never the less I am grateful!

Now my prayer will be focus on you! For I wish you the best!

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.

I will never forget you! Ever! Big Bear!

 

[tonitits]

BigBear you will definitely be missed. I am so sorry that someone has caused you to feel that you must leave. Take care of yourself work out whatever it is you need to and take care of your health and when you feel you are ready, come back here to us....your family! Thanks I have only just met you but you seem like such a sweet man and do not deserve to be unhappy. You will be in my thoughts and prayers....hurry back Bear!

 

[Blue Dolphin]

bear my friend
we only spoke now and then my friend
but i have the greatest respect for you
I am so sorry to see what has happened
be wll my friend
be safe
BD

 

[rosylady]

I'm not so good with words, but Bear you know how I feel anyways.

I love you Bear and will miss talking with you everday.

You are the kindest person I know and you don't deserve this heartache.

Please hurry back to us.

 

[1sexylady]

BiggBear8......

We talked some and I am *proud* to call you my friend. Now if You want me to come out there and kick ass I will. You do what you have to do and come back to us soon. We will miss you like all hell. Well ok I will miss you like all hell...

Peace..
Patty...

 

[emerald_a]

from a new lit. member...

I've read the precious replies from your family here...and although I'm pretty new I want you to know that whatever you're going through....my heart and prayers are with you. To many people hurt others selfishly in their thoughtlessness. As someone very special...as your friends here have shown...I pray your heart heals fast so you my return to where you are loved and needed.

 

[rosylady]

bump

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

BigBear, I don't know you very well, but I do know you are a good guy. I will state what is on a lot of people's mind:

DON'T GO!!!!!


Since it is your real life, we understand that you have to do what you have to do. So the other thought on most people's minds is

Come back as quick as you can!!!!!

Good luck.

 

[ozme52]

Same here bud!

 

[Angelofsex]

One think I could never understand are the mean people out there. To make someone very sad and hurting, this person has to have evil in them. You are a kind and good hearted person.....Maybe this person is jealous of it I don't know what the reason is.......But BigBear please never change...that goodness shines from you...We haven't talk but I have read your posted. Your words have warmness in them any friend of yours to have you as a friend is very lucky.

I just wish I was lucky to get to know you.......maybe when you come back to us we will have that chance..........Just remember it is us who doesn't want you to go....but that one person is making you go because of how you feel........Heal and get strong and come back to us real soon.......Lit isn't the same without our bigbear.

 

[whspr]

My heart aches. Someone didn't just hurt you...they hurt alot of us. We are losing one of the sweetest guys on LiT. I'm angry!!
This isn't right!

I'll miss you friend. I'm sorry you are hurting. If you ever need to talk. I'm here.

Many hugs and kisses,
whspr

 

[Curious_Fem]

Bear, my dear friend

I am so sorry to see this thread. I do hope that you get everything worked out, and you know how to find me.

Please take care of yourself, and if you ever need me please know that I am right here.

Big hugs and kisses to you my sweet friend.

 

[cookiejar]

A Thank You

Bear has asked me to post to all of his friends.....he thanks you all and is touched by your concern for him. I hope after his heart heals he will join us again.....we love you Bear .

I want to post this beautiful poem he wrote for me.....its framed over my bed.......

As You Slept
Biggbear8

I watch you as you sleep
In the newest part of day
I have knelt beside your bed
Gently kissed you as you lay

I have watched you as you slept
And keeping the dark at bay
And as you cried out from your dreams
I gently brushed the tears away

I watch you as you are sleeping
As the night becomes the dawn
As the dew was kissing the tender rose
I softly touched your face and gone

I have loved you for a long time
I have wished you were mine
I have watched you as you slept
have you really never known..........

 

[Guest]

oh just barf

 

[Golden Eyes]

OMG BEAR!!!

Just when I started to post on your threads, along with ROsy, Cookie, Stud, you leave. I am so sorry that you are going through a hard time right now. ANd that someone has hurt you. I dont know if it was someone from here or in r/l. But know that you are cared for and loved by many here. Please come back soon to us here at lit. It just wouldnt be the same without you. But I know that we all sometimes need a break from here. Just know we will all be waiting for you with open arms

Love
GE

 

[tigerjen]

baby Bear!

I called you up late last nite from work on my cell and you
told me about what the scoop was.......very sad........for
someone as sweet as you are, someone else had to
hurt .....it makes me angry.......but I hope that things do
get resolved, and that you will be back to Lit....when you
are ready! I miss you, baby Bear!!

And thank you for all the cooking stories and recipes!


tigerjen

 

[MsAngel]

I haven't known you that long Bear but you have always treated me with respect and I appreciated that. For someone to screw with your r/l is wrong. Don't let them win though by chasing you away from your friends here. Take the time you need to, to straighten out your life then come back to your Lit Family. From the post I have just read you have made an impact on quiet a few lives and I am sure they will all miss you terribly. Though I may not know you as well as they it still saddens me to see evil destroying someone good!

((HUGS)) and on the cheek!
Angel

 

[biggbear8]

hello all

this saddens me and it hurts that someone hated me so much that they want to hurt me and in the long run hurt my friends to
ive been thinking all weekend and trying to get my gf to tell who is it was but she wont not yet anyway.

Well i wasnt going to come back to lit but after talking to a couple friends they are right if i leave they win, they got what they wanted to hurt and make someone leave, well if your out there and u read this i well find out who u are sooner or later.

i think its about time that we in lit start trying to figure out how does this and get them banned because if they did it to me then they well do it to you. what you do in lit is onething if they want to comment on that when fine but when they bring up rl things that point should be drawn shut , no on ehas a right tointerfere in someones real life ,

biggbear8

so im coming back but with a shattered heart because these people decided to play god with my life and ill find out who!

YOU WELL NOT AND DID NOT WIN JUST WATCH UR BACKS

 

[Golden Eyes]

BEAR

BRAVO CLAPPING, YOU GO BEAR !! AND WE ARE ALL BEIND YOU

SEE YOU IN CHAT SOON

GE

 

[whspr]

I'm so happy to see that you changed your mind. I know you
are still hurting though...so if you need a friend. You can always find me. Welcome back...Bear

whspr

 

[John Roberts]

Bear I am sorry I have not gotten to know you better, and I hope you do continue to post on Lit.

I certainly hope you stay here, real life is all a matter of perception. It is true, you cannot physically touch...but connecting with people is real, we are your family here...besides us bear types have to stick together...

 

[Georgia Girl]

Bear,

Some time ago there was another here who had an incident in her real life that hurt her and she too said she was shattered. In time she came to understand that by letting that person shatter her heart and injure her soul she gave them power.

In time she changed to merely referring to herself as bent but not broken. If you listen to county music there was a song some time back about being strong enough to bend without breaking.

Be strong my bear, don't let the bastards win.

The vicious little people in the world get their power and sense of gratification by causing pain to others. They don't have the guts to be real and true. They covet what you have.......heart, something that is missing in that persons life.

I say this with no knowledge of what has happened but with the realization that it hurt. Be well and strong dear one.

Dawn