GLBT Fantasies

[Luna_Wolf72]

Before starting this thread, I went on a search to see if i could find anything else like what i propose to discuss. Mayhap, I am blind but i just could not find anything. So, here is my topic of choice.

I know that most of my friends' and i all have active fantasy lives (with and without our partners) Fantasies play a big part of my relationships, period.

My questions for all of you are: What types of things do you like to think about before or during intimate moments with your S/O? Do you believe by being the way we are, that our fantasy lives are more or less varied then the average hetro couple? What are some of your favorite types of fantasies to set the mood?

The main reason i am interested in this is just to see if my girl and i (along with our friends) are a little strange compared to others actvely involved in GLBT lifestyle.

Thank You
pet

(oh if by some chance i missed the thread please feel free to supply a link!!!)

 

[ExistentialLuv]

When I am with PJ the only thing I am thinking of is bring her extreme pleasure. We are trying to bring are fantasies to life. Such as body paints, role playing, letting her dominate me, plastic with baby oil, food, sex in the public, and what ever else she desires. We have not done most of this but are working on it. Seeing as we both live in the fantasy world instead of the reality, I do not think you are to strange myself.

Plus it is hard for me to fantasize about anything when she is causing me such pleasures when we are making love. No fantasy needed when I am with her. She is my fantasy.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Thanks for answering.

With me, the *fantasy* is a big part of my sex life. I do not get to see my girl as often as i would like (not nearly enough by far!!) So, thinking and planning for our next get together is very important to me.

Role playing is an integral part of our relationship as well as talking to one another about the things we want to experience together. Normally, i am the *top* which means i am more of the do-er per se and not the do-ee. I find that thinking about JUST what it is i am doing to and for her brings me off without her ever having to touch me.

As for my favorite types of fantasies...well i am a masochistic switch with a fetish for all things oral....so you can kinda figure it out from there, i guess.

So come on ya'll i want answers!!!

kiss
PET

 

[BlueSugar]

I enjoy fantasy alot too... I love love roleplay, and toys and pretending the toys are people, being taken, bdsm is at large in my sex life. Being with other women, being with other men (or both), serving people like being the serving wench with a little outfit on and no panties and having my SO sit and allow other hands to wonder my body etc... while I give appetizer-dessert out. "rape" fantasies... teacher-student, biting and other marks of passion , oral fixation... the list is endless...

 

[pop_54]

yeppers

Fantasies are fun, realities are even better fun, but nothing strange about fantasising, and sharing fantasies with one you love, or even with one you have a casual relationship if you both need it.

Wife and I have had so many wild and weird fantasies over the years, a lot we've eventually acted out into realities, a lot we still play at alone together.

None of us are odd, the odd one's are the people who surpress their fantasies to the extent of snapping one evil day. Or spending their whole life fighting off the fun times.

We have had some wild thoughts and some wild events, could get locked up for some of our fantasies, hehe!!

pops..........

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Thanks to everyone who responded to my thread. I appreciate any and all input has been provided. Thanks again.
Pet

 

[Queersetti]

I don't fantasize about particular scenarios during sex, I am more in the moment and enjoying the sensations. I do enjoy a bit of roleplaying. I am not much for "bdsm" per se, but I am primarily a bottom, and men who can play with that aspect of my personality really push my buttons.

 

[Tom Bishop]

The reasone I am writing these post is part of our fantasey
Boss Wants me to express what I feel
I have a wife That is one part of my life
I meet women that I have fun with thats another
The part I have with boss Is totaly different from these
In the above parts I am the boss at work the provider at home the masquline Ironworker with the women I meet .
With Boss Cock I am the sissie cum slut
His little BJ
I only see him once and a while We always set up play times two or three days in advance . that is part of the excitemen.
He keeps me excited by telling what to wear . If I have to buy something new I have to save the recipe He pays me back when we meet He Tells me a man whore shouldn't have to pay for his clothes for work He keeps me In my place with humiliation no pain just words that mess with my mind and ego
I think you could call it role play but it is my role in this thing I have with him
We can go out as two friends just having a beer or two I even have stuck up for him and kicked a guys ass who picked on him for being small .
Two Hours later I was on my knees kissing his balls with him telling me to lick his ass
Excuss the spelling I am sorry
Bishop

 

[Queersetti]

The reasone I am writing these post is part of our fantasey
Boss Wants me to express what I feel
I have a wife That is one part of my life
I meet women that I have fun with thats another
The part I have with boss Is totaly different from these
In the above parts I am the boss at work the provider at home the masquline Ironworker with the women I meet .
With Boss Cock I am the sissie cum slut
His little BJ
I only see him once and a while We always set up play times two or three days in advance . that is part of the excitemen.
He keeps me excited by telling what to wear . If I have to buy something new I have to save the recipe He pays me back when we meet He Tells me a man whore shouldn't have to pay for his clothes for work He keeps me In my place with humiliation no pain just words that mess with my mind and ego
I think you could call it role play but it is my role in this thing I have with him
We can go out as two friends just having a beer or two I even have stuck up for him and kicked a guys ass who picked on him for being small .
Two Hours later I was on my knees kissing his balls with him telling me to lick his ass
Excuss the spelling I am sorry
Bishop

No need to apologize, Tom.
Welcome to Lit.

 

[Cigan]

I can't give you any feedback based on current activities since I have been single and celibate for an embarasing period of time. But the last time I did have a significant other we did quite a bit of fantasy play. I think it's a big thing for me because the face I show in public and how I act when I get aroused have little to nothing to do with each other. I guess I hold onto a lot of social inhibitions in every day life, but really enjoy an opportunity to let them all go for a while. I don't know if this is unusually homosexually oriented. I guess in a way it would make sense because every gay person has that one setting be it work school, or whatever where they have to act "normal" whatever the hell that is. So I guess we end up inhibiting more in public than most, but that's not true of the whole community so who knows. I'll stop rambling now.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Thanks to those who took the time to respond to my poor lil thread. The main thing i wanted to see has been answered...my friends and i are not the least bit weird!! (At least when it comes to fantasies and such)
Guess for the nonce we can let this thread die now...

pet

 

[Queersetti]

Thanks to those who took the time to respond to my poor lil thread. The main thing i wanted to see has been answered...my friends and i are not the least bit weird!! (At least when it comes to fantasies and such)
Guess for the nonce we can let this thread die now...

pet

I hope not!

Come on, people, don't be shy!

 

[perks]

I am much more extreme than my SO, so I often fantasize, but when I'm out playing, I really don't have to.

 

[thickspear]

There is a certain transport in a deeply passionate sexual moment...for myself an intense sense of primal eternity. When two people achieve that transport together an strong bond of intimacy is formed...it is an achievement to be admired, protected and nourished.

Fantasies are one way to elevate the ordinary to the extrordinary. How sad that some bind and sacrifice their fantasies and passions on an altar of convention.

Grace Slick sang the words "Your mothers ghost stands at your shoulders, eyes like ice, a little bit colder, saying to you "you cannot do that, it breaks all the rules".

 

[funkingroovin67]

ive had some different fantasies for a long while

ive always wanted to experience a shemale and or transexxual.

ive very much wanted to experience a submissive efiminate bottom of small stature

and ive always wanted to be tied up and used by several large men with large cocks

the whole idea of a rape scenario excites me as well. although i would never dream of raping someone.

 

[TUCSON RED]

definately dream of finding a guy to spend the night exploring each other. I would find all kind of ways to make him excited. I want to suck his toes then work way up to his ears. Love to give full body massages to both men and women, but a guy would be great to play with.