Giving action, not getting.

[MagicMan420]

Hey guys and gals. I am a pretty good-looking guy in college and have been with a fair amount of women. However, it seems that I am the guy usually giving not receiving the pleasure with most of these women. Is there anything I can do to possible help initate more action for myself or are these just bad women in general? Feedback would be much appreciated.

 

[xeros_girl]

Sounds like uninformed women. Have you brought it up with any of the women? Do they know that they are leaving you unsatisfied, cuz I know that I would be kind of embarassed and would jump to please a guy if he felt like he wasn't getting any in return. Especially if was really pleasing me.

Also, not to offend, maybe you aren't giving as much pleasure as you think you are. Even if you are great brushing up on your technique and learning a few new things never hurts.

Maybe you need someone older, younger girls tend to be selfish (I really shoudln't be talking). From past similar expiriences I have found that older men have been more attentative to me than guys my age.

 

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[MagicMan420]

In Response...

Thanks for the helpful answers, its not related to sex, and it is not their lack of experience in most instances.
It jus seems I get a girl off and I am expecting them to do the same for me and it never really happens.
Asking seems kind of awkward, but I don't know of anything else to do, which is why I decided to ask here.

xeros_girl: Technique is something almost anyone can work on, I also try and communicate with them as to what feels good and what doesn't.

raventale: It was your very first example that you stated, and I am starting to wonder the same thing. However, it seems like it happens with almost every girl I have been with, even long term.

I feel like I am missing something and I cannot figure out what it is...

 

[DirkPryde]

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[MagicMan420]

DirkPryde: makes good sense, I will have to try your tip.

Thanks to the people who have taken time to post so far!!!

 

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[MagicMan420]

Well I think these girls are experienced and know what they are doing for the most part, but I still have a hard time iniating things for my own pleasure with them.

 

[PrincessHoney]

get the girls really wet.. then show them how horny turning them on makes you.... show them you;re throbbing cock....
would work for me!

 

[SweetErika]

A lot of women have felt "used" when they get a guy off and don't get anything in return. If you're getting these women off first, they are probably figuring they're turning the tables. You might also be giving the impression that you get off on seeing them enjoy themselves and don't need additional attention from them. Is it possible they think you've already come?