Girls, have you done your man with a strap-on?

neuken

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Yes, you know what I mean.

You do him in the butt with a strap-on. The closest thing you can do for him to have anal sex and not be (oh my god) GAY.

If you have done this, please tell me about it :heart:
 
Prostrate delight

Yes, the vibrator on the prostrate. What a thrill. Makes you cum so hard!

Glad you liked it ..........

Any ladies out there who have put things up their man's butt?

:cool:
 
actually I love to have toys in my butt. I think the whole gay perception kind of scares my wife off from helping although she has done it a few times. Usually I have to just please myself in that way.


patiently awaiting the day when the circumstances are right to try the real thing. just to try it not to change the lifestyle or anything
 
i think all men enjoy it. sorta like eating pussy used to be, where some men would just not admit to doing it.

think its sorta funny that wives get scared when you ask them they seem to think we are turning gay or something and now we ill not want them anymore. hell i know in my case i thought it would be fun to let her have the rains fr a bit and see what its like. none the less most men do this on there own and would never admit to it to anyone.

as for the hole gay thing im sure that there is a time and a place for exploration. just never seemed like a good idea to me though i would like to have my wife do it.
 
My ex and I used to do it all the time. She loved being fucked up her ass and she love riding her dildo while I fucked her pussy. Her wildest fantasy was being double fucked but we got to it as she couldn't decide on any of the males I suggested to her that were willing to join in. (who wouldn't).
We bought a range of dildos for both of us to use on each other including a couple of strap-ons she would use on me. One was a bit bigger than the other so she used that one when I was realy relaxed or when she wanted some revenge for something or another!
It's good to feel the same sensations as your partner so that you know what she's talking about when she says the pain was exquisite
 
My partner asked me if I would be willing to fuck him with a strap on. Uhh - YEA! We went shopping together, chose a lovely dildo and bought me a leather harness to wear said dildo. I was excited, but also nervous about hurting him in a way he would not enjoy. So with lots of love and lube, we went to it. Now I can say that I completely understand the male obssession with doggie style - slamming your lover's ass against your hips as he looks over his shoulder and moans at you...... makes me wet just remembering! And the change in power from receiving to giving..... I came without stimulation because my "cock" was getting him off in a big BIG way.
So I wholeheartedly suggest this particular piece of fun, having your man beg you to fuck him deeper is hotter than hot should be!
 
I haven't tried that yet with a strap-on but do use a dildo on my partner and he loves it. Actually I get very turned on by it as well and do plan on getting a strap-on so we can have some more fun together.
If you taking things very slowly you shouldn't hurt the person who is recieving the anal stimulation and lots of lube helps too.
 
I've tried to get her to do it...

I've asked my wife to do it to me a few different times. She did once a few years ago, and she seemed to like it, and I came without touching myself. But after that she wouldnt do it anymore. She just says its GROSS!! But once in awhile she'll sitick a couple of fingers up my ass while blowing me . Then its back to being gross. Any suggestions on how to get her to give it to me? I've even offered to go out and buy the strap on.
Gary
 
My wife is a submissive.but not with me. So she will not do mr with a strap-on because she thinks that would be domme. But what I don't understand is if she's not submissive with me what difference does it make. It's about giving your lover some enjoyment and God how i enjoy it!!!
 
Here is an idea

How to make your wife do it up your ass with a strap-on. Ah, now there is a challenge.

Uh........Go buy the strap-on, tie her to the bed with all fours spread out on her back, put the strap-on on her and ride it to cummmgasm.

Or........Buy the strap-on and wear it while making love to her. Put your dick in her pussy and the strap-on dildo in her ass and let her experience how gooood it feels. Then beg for her to do it to you.

Or perhaps............Tell her if she doesn't do it, you'll find a man who will.

I am open for suggestions. Help me out!
 
seriously

I started this thread to see how many of you guys have had the pleasure of this particular ass play with your lady. I am impressed that so many of us have. We are the lucky ones!

I remember the first time my girlfriend bent me over the bathtub and fucked me in the ass with our brand new strap-on dildo. I was begging her to go deeper and not pull it out. Now I know why she likes to buttfuck so much herself. And what a power rush it was for her!

I wonder if I will ever graduate to a real dick. It seems like the logical next step, doen't it.

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I will try anything at least once
 
logical progression?

neuken wrote:
I wonder if I will ever graduate to a real dick. It seems like the logical next step, doen't it.

That puts a big ol' grin on my face. If it seems like the next logical step for you, then go for it! I love the feel of a cock in my ass-- it's totally different than a dildo (although not better or worse, just different) and if the thought of a real dick turns you on, there's no reason to hesitate. I am of the mindset that getting fucked by a man will not automatically make you bi or gay as a result (as some men seem to fear), but will just open your mind to the potential range of your sexuality.

--Freya

Shameless plug for my own ass-fucking story:
http://www.angelfire.com/freak/stories/mynightie.html
 
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bMy husband had already developed the deep knee bend over a huge dildo strapped to a stool.. One of those necessity things if you want to experience it and no one to help you. Then we found each other, and I think its great. We need to find a good harness, and possibly a double dildo type harness. I've fucked him with a huge dildo as well, and he loves it...its great fun to watch him crawl up the wall when I fuck him with the dildo and suck him at the same time....what a rush for both of us! Any suggestions for a good harness???
 
The anal thrill

This is right up there with the good things in sex: being fucked by my wife with a strap on dildo. We have gone out together and puchased several. The last one is a mean seven inch monster. (Doing this dispells any myths about size matters let me tell you) It feels great and to be filled this way and stroked... talk about a distinct form of orgasm.

The gay thing is a societal conformity ruse. Guys, let me tell you: Why on earth would we miss out on something that feels this good.

Lots of lube and patience helps. Also the first time make sure your the one pushing BACK not her pushing in. It is uncomfortable for a moment but once its in OH MY GOD.

It is thrilling to get fucked among the many other ways we can find pleasure with our partners
 
Re: logical progression?

superlittlegirl said:
neuken wrote:


That puts a big ol' grin on my face. If it seems like the next logical step for you, then go for it!

Thanks Superlittlegirl,

You are right in my opinion. There is no need for homophobia. I don´t know why, but I have never been afraid of sex with men. I do not consider it in any way deminishing to my manhood. I kind of put sex in two boxes: In one box, I am the one who pleases. In the other box, I am being pleased. In either box the other can be a woman or a man. Ultimately, what really turns me on is the intimacy with another human being. I just think it is so great to be able to let go of our normal reservations and zone in to the feel good part of our being without discrimination or hang-ups. Makes me horny just thinking about it.

Bring it on!

:p
 
Good harness

colobicpl said:
Any suggestions for a good harness???

I purchased a harness that I really like. It is leather, has several straps around the waist and legs so that it is tight and alows you to have control. The dildo is situated up on the pelvic bone so that a woman can wear it and position the dildo where the man´s dick would be and a man can wear it above his dick so that he can do double penetration. Double penetration is great. Do you want the dildo up your ass and the dick in your pussy or the other way around. Mmmmmmmmmm choices choices choices..........

A good sex shop should have it.:devil:
 
strapon

Over the last , few months, I've been rediscovering the prostate,which I seem to have switched off since early gameswith candles and California girls 'craze for a finger in the boyfriend's ass to get a full load.I brought a strapon that my girlfriend has started using on me.It'sreally erogenizing and the orgasm seems very different{vagina/clitoris debte ?]it has taken over from being spanked/caned in fantasies,but this is maybe the enthusiasm of the new convert.It is also wonderful to feel the pleasure and excitement my girlfriend gets from wearing it.
 
I'm not into dudes, they do nothing for me. However, if a woman wanted to plug me up then by all means!
 
I'll do it sweetie, puts on cyber strap on, you just bend over. Seriously, though guys do like this in my experience. One note, I would suggest thoroughly cleaning the area. Having an accident in mid fuck is not very sexy unless its your thing.

Oh yeah, I think being gay has more to do with who you want to be with on a daily basis and not where you put what. So neuken go for it.
 
My Dom/Hubby and I were at a small intimate get together with a couple of friends, there were a couple of single guys there too. Anyway, my Dom/Hubby gave me permission to use a strap-on on one of the single guys because he really enjoyed the use of dildos and strap-ons in the anal area. It was FANTASTIC for both of us. it helped that it was a double ended strap-on with vibrators in both ends and dual controls for vibes.
He did it differently than I had expected it to be. He layed on his back, with his legs up in the air and over my shoulders so that I could penetrate that way. He was able then to play with my breasts as well as my clit and I dont know which of us had a more explosive cum...... him or me!
Try it that way ladies and I garantuee that you will like it and not consider your man to be gay.
sweets
 
feels awesome

I had played alot of times with my fingers in my ass when I was masturbating, and I really enjoyed the feeling. So I went out and bought a vibrator to use and did this several times when I was having phone sex with a woman, it really turned her on and me of course !
Then I met a woman who had a strap-on and wanted to use it on me, I thought I was in heaven, she laid me on my back and put my ankles on her shoulders as she lubed up my ass and the dildo and slowly pushed it into my tight ass, OH what a feeling. I stroked my cock as she pumped my ass, slow at first, then harder and faster until I shot the cum all over my stomach, chest and onto my face. She then pulled out and leaned down to lick all my cum off my body. It was an awesome feeling, I would love to do it again, I just need to find a woman that wants to do it with me !
 
Glad to see someone started another thread on this subject. I had started one earlier that also got a lot of responses. Needless to say this is my favorite thing to do. I just bought a new one a couple of weeks ago (The Julie Ashton Ultra Harness) and it is incredible.

If anyone is interested in stories about strap on fun, virtually every one of my stories has a strap on sequence.

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