Girlfriend is Sleeping with her Boss

[betamale30]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

 

[hex2112]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

My wife did that years ago. She started fucking him to have it easy at work. She always told me everyday that she had an easy day. It was fine with me. Happy wife happy life.

 

[betamale30]

My wife did that years ago. She started fucking him to have it easy at work. She always told me everyday that she had an easy day. It was fine with me. Happy wife happy life.

Did she know that you knew about It as well? Im trying to figure out how to bring this out in the open between us. Or even if i could find out things from him.

 

[twister947]

You are a cuckold; embrace it. Don't rock the boat if you don't want it to capsize.

 

[hex2112]

Did she know that you knew about It as well? Im trying to figure out how to bring this out in the open between us. Or even if i could find out things from him.

I knew about it. She told me he flirted and played grab ass with her. I said go for it and she did. It made our lives a lot easier.

 

[Muwarr90]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

Don't ask him. If this isn't just a casual fling, he could really use that against you with her.

How did you find out about them?

 

[waratah]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

If she's cheating, it probably means she cares less about you, than you do about her.

Include that in your thinking.

 

[betamale30]

Don't ask him. If this isn't just a casual fling, he could really use that against you with her.

How did you find out about them?

I had my suspicions after they had gone on a trip together.. I eventually was able to snoop on her cell phone and It was confirmed.. Since then I've been playing like detective and I've located her car at his house a bunch of times after shes lied to me about what shes doing.. Things like that

 

[Muwarr90]

I had my suspicions after they had gone on a trip together.. I eventually was able to snoop on her cell phone and It was confirmed.. Since then I've been playing like detective and I've located her car at his house a bunch of times after shes lied to me about what shes doing.. Things like that

How often are they getting together? Is she spending less time with you to spend more time with him?

 

[betamale30]

How often are they getting together? Is she spending less time with you to spend more time with him?

They work together so I'm not sure of how often its exactly going on.. I know thursday nights seem to be their set nights to hang out.. Her car is almost always at his house on thursdays.. I wish i could somehow get in the loop so i dont have to keep secretly trying to find all out things.. She haste spent less time with me since the whole beginning of this, and I'm not exactly afraid he will steal her from me because hes a much older man i dont think she would ever openly date him.

 

[davenjenn]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

Many women need more than one man in their life and some of us act on this. A relationship with a boss is a very natural one. Also, she is your girlfriend, not your wife, so she isn't exactly cheating just having fun. And it turns you on too .. . so

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

A few months ago i found out my gf was cheating on me with her Boss.. At first i had the jealous and angry feelings you would expect, but as more time passed I've found It really turning me on alot. I thought It would eventually cool down between them and It would stop so i never confronted her or anything about It . I just feel desperate to know more about whats going on between them. I have a fear of confronting her about It because i care about her alot and i dont want this to push a wedge between us. Part of me also thinks maybe part of the fun for her is the "cheating" part, so if thats the guess and she knows i know It would be ruined for her. Im friendly with her Boss so I've thought about asking him about It but dont want to cause her drama at work. Or should I just go on keep ignoring It pretending i dont know about It and see how It plays itself out. Would like any advice i could get, i cant talk about this with friends.

You're living up to your screen name.

 

[Justfantasies]

You're living up to your screen name.

He is. Looking for outside help is fine, but first he has to decide what he is really looking for here out of the relationship and whether it is really possible.