Getting turned on by stranger...

[miyuki_hime]

Hi, I'm a newbie here. I've been facing this problem for the past few months and I can't talk about it to my friends or family, that's why I decided to come here.

My problem is, I'm getting turned on by a stranger that I've met on the train a few months ago. The train is always packed after 5pm and there's this one particular day, I bumped into a guy. As I've said, it was very packed and I had to turn my body around so I'm facing the train's wall.

The guy that I bumped into starting getting horny and was rubbing his crotch into my back. I was embarassed and angry when it happened but I kept thinking about it when I reached home.

Now, everytime that guy sees me, he'll squeeze his way to me and start doing the crotch dance at me. I felt very guilty because instead of telling him off, I'm starting to really look forward to it.

Am I normal? I'm in my early twenties and I'm still a virgin - I'm too shy to find a boyfriend and I really really want to lose my virginity to someone I love and not some casual stranger.

- Miyuki

 

[LukkyKnight]

Am I normal? I'm in my early twenties and I'm still a virgin - I'm too shy to find a boyfriend and I really really want to lose my virginity to someone I love and not some casual stranger.

- Miyuki

Normal? Arousal is fairly normal in response to sexual overtures.

Regardless, you make the choice. Most people don't respond by having sex with every person that evokes a response. Arousal is fine, dealing with it's fine - but you make the choice about both how you deal with your arousal and who you'd choose to make love with.

 

[human_male]

What, you're considering having sex with the guy?

Well I guess it's kind of understandable that you like this attention, so don't feel guilty. But I also think it's a shame that a young woman's only sexual outlet is getting molested by a pervert on a train. If you think you can't get a boyfriend you're wrong. Any woman can get one. I think you should find a nice young man you trust and have him rub his crotch into you instead.