getting the ladies to make the first initial step for sex.

[roniiy35]

why is it ladies always do not make the first move
so tht the men will respond.All the girls i have dated before n even my steady girlfriend always waited for me to seduce them b4 they r interested to have sex with me.

Any one have ideas as to make them always come back 4 more. is there an aprodisiac such as the renown spanish fly thaat caan work.

 

[lovechild27]

Maybe they dont want to have sex with you...

Or maybe it is because you are with girls and not women....

 

[Quimmy]

Maybe they dont want to have sex with you...

Or maybe it is because you are with girls and not women....

True. It's the "women" you're with. Most women I've been with enjoy being initiated on, and initiating. (with a small preference for the former)

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

Well, if it's that big of an issue, try talking to her/them (?) Be open about your expectations right off the bat. Just tell them ya aren't opposed to an aggressive woman

 

[Quimmy]

I love it when my gf comes from behind while I'm doing dishes or cooking and starts undoing my belt without a word. Then I get to play the tease and say "Hey hey, what are you doing there? None of that til after dinner."

 

[peachykeen]

Or maybe it is because you are with girls and not women....

BINGO

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Shadowann2]

I have found that communication is the key to getting what you want out of sex. Sit down and talk to her! Outside the bedroom of cource. And make sure you do it in a non acusing manor so she doesn't feel like you are criticising her. Good luck!