Getting over something different.

[Sexy Frosh]

Hello everybody, question about dealing with new things.

A couple hours ago I had my first orgasm from oral sex, and my girlfriend swallowed. Now we've been having sex for a year, but oral sex doesn't really do it for me and none of my previous girlfriends could make me orgasm from oral sex.

Now ordinarily this would be a GREAT thing, it still is, I've got a sexy girlfriend that is rather open sexually, but earlier in the relationship she said she wouldn't want to swallow, then she does, and I'm cumming and worried about doing it into her mouth and then she just takes it. I've been thrown for a loop.

I enjoyed it, but it was unexpected, thought it WASN'T going to happen.

So the question is: How do you get over something like this? Enjoyable, but you didn't know it would/should happen.



Side note: Thanks to many of the authors for somehow planting this in her head, especially christo whose story was read a short time before the incident at hand.

 

[peachykeen]

I don't really understand what it is you feel you need to 'get over'. What's the big deal? She probably didn't think she'd want to do it but then she decided to give it a try. So what? You should be out buying her flowers mate, not hanging out on the computer whinging at a bunch of strangers, methinks.

 

[SexyChele]

I don't really understand what it is you feel you need to 'get over'. What's the big deal? She probably didn't think she'd want to do it but then she decided to give it a try. So what? You should be out buying her flowers mate, not hanging out on the computer whinging at a bunch of strangers, methinks.

Yeah, what she said.

 

[WynEternal]

Ask her if she enjoyed it. Try to find out what she felt about doing it and if it was something she may want to try/do again.

 

[christo]

So, your girlfriend read one of my stories and that inspired her to give you a blowjob AND swallow your semen? Now, this means I get to go to heaven, right? This should cancel out a lot of the bad stuff I've done, I can go to St. Peter and say, "Hey, sorry about the repeated bank fraud and those library books I stole, but I got Sexy Frosh's girlfriend to suck him off and swallow."

"Go on in, you dog!" St. Peter will chuckle, giving me a slap on the back.

I think at the very least I should get a complimentary BJ. If your girlfriend agrees, tell her to e-mail me, and I will meet her anyplace, anytime.

 

[sheath]

Yeah, what she said.

Yeah, I third the motion.

If that's possible.

S.

 

[Sexy Frosh]

I posted the question because I liked it, but I'm not sure about it.

It's kinda like taking another step in the relationship but without warning. Hence my concern, I'm somewhat rattled.



Yes she did like it, but she wouldn't like flowers. Maybe cheesecake, but she has one in her fridge right now. As for why I posted this, there is a wealth on knowledge here, and while I'm better known on a different message board, it's about Transformers, a distinctly different kind of toy.

The feeling is a lot like my first time having sex, only I knew that was going to happen for a while beforehand.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

So, your girlfriend read one of my stories and that inspired her to give you a blowjob AND swallow your semen? Now, this means I get to go to heaven, right?

Yea, what he and she said!!

Enjoy and don't get too deep about it S.F. So she happened to enjoy something she didn't think she would? Its called growth, my friend! We all go thru it, and we all come {or if you will...cum} out of it better. So.... simply enjoy what you have been given. OK?


-kym- looking to cum more! Sir???!

 

[Annvalery]

So, your girlfriend read one of my stories and that inspired her to give you a blowjob AND swallow your semen? Now, this means I get to go to heaven, right? This should cancel out a lot of the bad stuff I've done, I can go to St. Peter and say, "Hey, sorry about the repeated bank fraud and those library books I stole, but I got Sexy Frosh's girlfriend to suck him off and swallow."

"Go on in, you dog!" St. Peter will chuckle, giving me a slap on the back.

I think at the very least I should get a complimentary BJ. If your girlfriend agrees, tell her to e-mail me, and I will meet her anyplace, anytime.

Way to go christo! This must be VERY flattering...

 

[tigerjen]

Ask her if she enjoyed it. Try to find out what she felt about doing it and if it was something she may want to try/do again.

what they said above

 

[peachykeen]

yeah, what they said. Oh, wait, I already said what I said.

 

[sheath]

It's kinda like taking another step in the relationship but without warning. Hence my concern, I'm somewhat rattled.


The feeling is a lot like my first time having sex, only I knew that was going to happen for a while beforehand.

Okay...NOW I get it.

It's almost like the morning after feeling? Like...whoa. I liked that. But was it a good thing?

If she was cool with it, then obviously it was a good thing for her. But you might need to ask yourself...do you feel rattled about it because that was a part of you that you did NOT want to give to her? And if so, why?

I've been through something like this. No man had ever been able to make me cum through giving me oral. Then...BOOM. Out of the blue, absolutely incredible orgasm. But...I felt strange after that. No other man had done it. What was it about HIM? Was I more comfortable? What did that mean about my emotions toward him? Why had the other men not been able to do it? I found my answers with time, of course. And you will, too.

I hope this helps. Ask yourself all those questions. And in the meantime...enjoy it.

S.