getting a girl off - by whatever means

[Guest]

I have had a girlfriend for 6 months, and i never seem to be able to get her off. She always seems like she is about to come, but later she says she was nowhere near. Any tips to getting her to climax are appreciated. Fingering is the favorite method, so far.

 

[lickboxer]

To quote a song: you ain't seen nothing till you've been down on a muffin, should be true here. I've never experienced a woman that could not be thrilled this way. Take your time and she should get off, there's no rush, consentrate on her totally. This has always worked for me, but then I'm totally turned on by going down on a woman, can't hardly imagine having sex without this form of foreplay.

 

[lovetoread]

It takes alot of finger stimulation to get me to orgasm that way.

Why not get a vibrator and hold it to her clit while you finger fuck her?

It works wonders.

 

[cliffchuff]

Why are you only finding out afterwards? ask her while you are at it, Is this good, does this work, harder or softer? are you turned on?

If you are waiting untill afterwards there seems to be a lack of communication during the act, This would seem a logical first step.

Does she make herself come during masturbation? ask her if you vcan watch and PAY ATTENTION (shouldn't be too hard )
get her to help you.

Your post sounds to mechanical....

good luck

 

[lovechild27]

Ask her what she wants....what she wants you to do. She may not know her own body very well....that could be part of the problem.

 

[MsTerious]

I'm curious how old you are, would I assume correctly that you are young? She sounds like I did when I was younger. With me, I think it was psychological, that I wouldn't allow myself to let go. As long as he was happy. Often, when he would go clean up, I'd finger myself til I got off. He never knew that. (he being used in the plural sense) You need to communicate, and try going down on her. That's the best and easiest way for me to cum. I wasn't ever able to cum by penetration alone until recently, and i'm in my 30's. Don't take it personally, I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. But, communicate, communicate, communicate!!!


sorry about the rambling, did it even make sense?

 

[alexandraaah]

I'm curious how old you are, would I assume correctly that you are young? She sounds like I did when I was younger. With me, I think it was psychological, that I wouldn't allow myself to let go. As long as he was happy. Often, when he would go clean up, I'd finger myself til I got off. He never knew that. (he being used in the plural sense) You need to communicate, and try going down on her. That's the best and easiest way for me to cum. I wasn't ever able to cum by penetration alone until recently, and i'm in my 30's. Don't take it personally, I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. But, communicate, communicate, communicate!!!


sorry about the rambling, did it even make sense?

This makes perfect sense.

 

[huskie]

It takes alot of finger stimulation to get me to orgasm that way.

Why not get a vibrator and hold it to her clit while you finger fuck her?

It works wonders.

I'd like to see that ON you lovetoread!!! Great idea!!

 

[lovetoread]

I'd like to see that ON you lovetoread!!! Great idea!!

For that kind of pic,one must have to get permission.

 

[alexandraaah]

For that kind of pic,one must have to get permission.

Would it be considered an abuse of power for me to start a sticky titled, "How to get permission to see "that kind of pic" of lovetoread."?

 

[MsTerious]

This makes perfect sense.

Phew, thanks.

 

[MrBates]

Permission

For that kind of pic,one must have to get permission.

Can I have permission too?

 

[lovetoread]

lol,as soon as I get permission it would be on my pic thread.

But ya'll know that its not up to me,right?

 

[ImAFreakyGirl]

I agree..

Why are you only finding out afterwards? ask her while you are at it, Is this good, does this work, harder or softer? are you turned on?

If you are waiting untill afterwards there seems to be a lack of communication during the act, This would seem a logical first step.

Does she make herself come during masturbation? ask her if you vcan watch and PAY ATTENTION (shouldn't be too hard )
get her to help you.

Your post sounds to mechanical....

good luck

There's nothing better than a guy concentrating on you. Asking you in a sexy voice...you like that? want more? show me what you want... etc. It's communication. The only way to get ultimately pleased.

 

[MR.GGG]

DITTO most of the above advice.

The DUMBest miscommunication between the sexes is that somehow we KNOW exactly what turns each other on. That you know all my buttons and I know all yours.

Dumb Dumb Dumb


Ask, tell, talk, communicate, respond, give feedback

Ya and give head but even then you have to LEARN what SHE likes about that... where, how fast, how hard, this way or that way, suck hard, don't suck hard....

Ya know when you have the technique that she LOVES...she'll decide she likes something a little (or a LOT ) different and guess what it takes for you to find this out? If you guessed a brain transplant from a telepath you'd be right but failing that....

 

[DrPecker]

i find that using objects that resemble a cock work good because you can usually move them faster with your hand that you can a cock with your hips