Get My Wife To Chat Dirty Online

[Wifeshairycunt]

My wife is quite conservative.

We have broken down barriers and allows me to take photos of her and knows I share them online at times also and gets wet to the idea.

I have to ask for sex all the time rather than it coming from her and I want to try and get her more turned on and open minded.

She has a hooker fantasy with men lined up outside her door to pay her for sex and also one where she has me tied up and made to watch as she fucks ten young hung guys (she is 29 and stunning).

I just want to get her hornier so any help would be appreciated.

 

[Miles Long]

My wife is quite conservative.

We have broken down barriers and allows me to take photos of her and knows I share them online at times also and gets wet to the idea.

I have to ask for sex all the time rather than it coming from her and I want to try and get her more turned on and open minded.

She has a hooker fantasy with men lined up outside her door to pay her for sex and also one where she has me tied up and made to watch as she fucks ten young hung guys (she is 29 and stunning).

I just want to get her hornier so any help would be appreciated.

You say she's conservative, but she lets you take pics of her and share them with strangers, and she's talked openly of a hooker fantasy that she has?

Conservative?

 

[Wifeshairycunt]

Thanks Miles

I know it sounds strange but she is very conservative but hiding behind anonymity (no faces in the pics) is ok with her.

It's just she never asks for sex but tells me that she gets horny from time to time.

I just want her to take the initiative and thought getting her online chatting about sex and fantasys etc would be a good start.

Hopefully that makes sense.

 

[NightL]

Get My Wife To Chat Dirty Online

Let us all have another drink

 

[amofiga]

Let us all have another drink

How openly verbal is she with you talking dirty or sexually? I would think that if she has little problem laying it out for you, she shouldn't have too much problem exercising that talent with others as long as it's anonymous.

It seems like it's something that you would like. If she understands that, maybe that would help her loosen up, especially if you yourself participate. Some people feel awkward knowing that their spouse is looking over their shoulder while they speak intimately and "dirty" with someone else, but if she understands that it's a turn on for you and that you truly want it, that should help. Pehaps she wouldn't even mind you being a "director" for the talk that she types until she starts getting into the groove herself.

Given that you really don't want this to expand to real world meetings and physical sex (maybe you do, who knows) then indicate that it's only to be a "shared experience" with you in the loop. That might even help her to feel more comfortable with it as a "game" for you two to share together, similar to those who like to watch their wives flash up-skirt shots to other men in public places.

Good luck, but don't force her to do something she is really uncomfotable with. That could only backfire and cause tension between you.

 

[NightL]

Let us all have another drink

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[Miles Long]

I know it sounds strange but she is very conservative but hiding behind anonymity (no faces in the pics) is ok with her.

It's just she never asks for sex but tells me that she gets horny from time to time.

I just want her to take the initiative and thought getting her online chatting about sex and fantasys etc would be a good start.

Hopefully that makes sense.

Have you told her you would like it if she initiates from time to time? Many women feel like they should never initiate, so perhaps simply telling her you would like that might help. Chatting online might help her feel comfortable in exploring some of her fantasies and lead to her initiating sex more. But then again it might not. I like amofiga's advice. Tell her you like the idea of her chatting online, ask her if she will join you, and then have some fun with it. If she gets into it, great. If she doesn't get into it, keep talking to her and maybe the two of you will hit upon another idea.

 

[Riles]

You say she's conservative, but she lets you take pics of her and share them with strangers, and she's talked openly of a hooker fantasy that she has?

Conservative?

Hehe...hehehehe.

 

[Eilan]

Have you told her you would like it if she initiates from time to time? Many women feel like they should never initiate, so perhaps simply telling her you would like that might help. Chatting online might help her feel comfortable in exploring some of her fantasies and lead to her initiating sex more. But then again it might not. I like amofiga's advice. Tell her you like the idea of her chatting online, ask her if she will join you, and then have some fun with it. If she gets into it, great. If she doesn't get into it, keep talking to her and maybe the two of you will hit upon another idea.

I think the part I've bolded is the best way to go with this.

I just don't see how making the wife chat with strangers is going to help her be able to initiate sex. Sounds to me like the OP gets off on the idea of his wife chatting with others and wants to present it to her as a way to "help" her. Which is fine, but let's call it what it is. *shrug*

 

[Rother]

You say she's conservative, but she lets you take pics of her and share them with strangers, and she's talked openly of a hooker fantasy that she has?

Conservative?

 

[luvnmyboys]

talk to her about what you want. it sounds like she is open to talking about sex and fantasies so let her know what you're thinking and ask her what you can do for her. the worst thing that can happen is she says no. good luck!

 

[Wifeshairycunt]

Thanks All! Luvn - your advice rocks and she is online in 5 mins to chat!