Genuine question: what's the deal with breeding kinks?

[ShinyCrazyDi]

Hi everyone, still new here, still getting used to the place so I hope it's OK to post this here

I've noticed more breeding-kink stuff lately (not sure if it's on the rise or if I'm just paying more attention). Seeing it featured in more porn, stories, artwork etc. Had a one-night-stand recently mention it in dirty-talk.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has this specific kink & if they know why they find it hot? Is there anything that triggered the kink for you personally? Is there a specific feeling it gives you (such as feeling more virile or proud? Or the idea of screwing a pregnant person? Anything?) Is it predominantly men who are turned on by the idea? Or are there women who have fantasies about it too? Do people with this kink have children already? Do they want children? Or is it more abstract?

Just... fascinated, no shade or judgement. Thanks in advance to anyone who feels comfortable sharing. x

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I only became a fan of it after a guy I knew got a vasectomy. I wanted his cum in me.

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

So the knowledge that there's no actual risk of breeding doesn't alter the fantasy? Sorry if that's a dumb AF question. I guess I assumed the turn-on was pretending/imagining actual breeding somehow.

Is breeding just a slightly different term for creampie-ing? I thought there was more of a 'fertilisation' component. Again - sorry about my dumb AF questions XD

 

[kathyisgr65]

It dogs into the primal need for an alpha to procreate...In my opinion...and goes from there..

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

Are people still non-ironically using the term 'alpha'? Sorry, that came across harsh (it really wasn't meant to). I've only posted on a few threads so far & didn't realise it was still a thing on this site. Is it common here?

 

[Islander55]

I would not say that I have a breeding kink but I do love to feel a man bare and have him cum inside of me. In my 40's I had a few risky adventures which was super hot in the moment but then you get several weeks of worry. Now that I am past getting pregnant, I still enjoy having my guys fill me with their seed but without the worry afterward.

 

[Phatfeet]

I have only used a condom twice and hated it both times. So I know just cumming inside a lady that is not it for me. I have had that pleasure for years.

I am not sure it is a HUGE fetish for me, but it is of interest. It became so after my wife and I had a stillborn child. He would have been seven years old, and I think of him often. As for a breeding interest, there is always a wish to start again and have a little infant around. It is not going to happen, but just that chance that it could is an invigorating thought and is a turn-on for me.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Great question. I get the cuckold aspect of another man impregnating the wife. I get the interracial aspect. I get a woman wanting to give herself so completely to a man. But, while I can suspend disbelief for many fantasies, the idea of bringing a new life into the world and being responsible for life-long care with all that means is beyond my ability to understand as a sexual kink.

All that said, I don't want to put down anyone who enjoys this kink as long as they are responsible about human life. With great kink comes great responsibility.

 

[apom]

I love unprotected sex, a building full of guys cumming inside me, especially when I'm off birth control and really especially when I don't know their names. I’m not mother material. The concept of motherhood terrifies me. I mean, I can barely take care of myself. I just get off on the adrenaline that comes with total vulnerability, the rush of fear in that moment when I feel him go rigid in my belly and know a complete stranger may be planting life inside me.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

Breeding/pregnancy is a huge kink for me, especially after I discovered how much I enjoyed sex while I was pregnant. There's just something so raw and (dare I say) feminine about being knocked up by a man you love and want to build a life with.

Also, if there's any ladies with a breeding kink like this, you are not weird. You are normal and there's nothing wrong with you. If a man (esp. the white-knight misogynists) or a woman (esp. the child-free feminists) tries to make you feel like shit about what turns you on, fuck them. You do you, you beautiful, kinky, breeding queen!

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

I have only used a condom twice and hated it both times. So I know just cumming inside a lady that is not it for me. I have had that pleasure for years.

I am not sure it is a HUGE fetish for me, but it is of interest. It became so after my wife and I had a stillborn child. He would have been seven years old, and I think of him often. As for a breeding interest, there is always a wish to start again and have a little infant around. It is not going to happen, but just that chance that it could is an invigorating thought and is a turn-on for me.

That's really interesting, thanks so much for sharing it. Really sorry to hear about you & your wife's fertility issues. That's heartbreaking. Hope you & your wife have support.

 

[ShinyCrazyDi]

Great question. I get the cuckold aspect of another man impregnating the wife. I get the interracial aspect. I get a woman wanting to give herself so completely to a man. But, while I can suspend disbelief for many fantasies, the idea of bringing a new life into the world and being responsible for life-long care with all that means is beyond my ability to understand as a sexual kink.

All that said, I don't want to put down anyone who enjoys this kink as long as they are responsible about human life. With great kink comes great responsibility.

"With great kink..." I think you destroyed me

 

[Britva415]

Are people still non-ironically using the term 'alpha'? Sorry, that came across harsh (it really wasn't meant to). I've only posted on a few threads so far & didn't realise it was still a thing on this site. Is it common here?

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[luv2bfkd]

I wouldn’t say I have a breeding kink, but I love being fucked bareback and getting cummed in. I’m on birth control just so we can have that wonderful experience of him cumming deep inside me every time he fucks me. I do however enjoy the thought that we’re doing our very best to get me pregnant.

 

[linkierox]

It the ultimate possession I think. For women with submissive tendencies, it can be their goal in life to witness their partner cum and feel the seed growing inside her.

And it also can trigger another orgasm feeling a guy cumming inside, so it’s all good here

 

[Phatfeet]

Great question. I get the cuckold aspect of another man impregnating the wife. I get the interracial aspect. I get a woman wanting to give herself so completely to a man. But, while I can suspend disbelief for many fantasies, the idea of bringing a new life into the world and being responsible for life-long care with all that means is beyond my ability to understand as a sexual kink.

All that said, I don't want to put down anyone who enjoys this kink as long as they are responsible about human life. With great kink comes great responsibility.

It seems my replies thus far on this site have been rather sad and that is not my intent, but I have had a darker life than some. That applies to your point here and I GREATLY appreciate the gentle way you worded your post. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for wording it so eloquently as you did.

Yet I think it depends.

Growing up in a foster home for years I saw a lot of bad, but also a lot of good. And while it is outside thy typical family structure, I had foster parents that loved me as if I was their own. It was only for the duration that I was with them, but adopted parents (I'll call them amazing heros) often do just what you mention to; love, raise, and instill in children morals who are not theirs in an awe inspiring sacrifice. There are others; step-parents who take on the roles of children to whom dead-beat fathers and mothers have abandoned, and grandparents who raise their children's children as if they were not the latter.

I am not sure where fantasy and reality would be exactly, but having heard from my biological mother for years, "I should have aborted you", and, "you were not worth going through childbirth for", I think I cherish the life of every newborn so much, that to have another man get my wife pregnant, I really could love and properly care for a child that was not my own.

Today, a higher percentage of children have fathers whom is NOT whom they are told it is. That to me is the sad part. There is something to be said about truth. More so, people are robbing children of another truth: the father may not be yours, but he loved you anyway. Cherish that.

 

[cdstefi]

I wouldn't say it's a specific fetish or kink for me, but I do vividly and fondly remember the pretty much certain fuck that conceived one of my kids.

We were on a campsite in France, our first two kids were off playing somewhere (back in the day when this wasn't something to concern parents overly) and we were both horny as hell so took a chance on a quickie. It was fast, furious and probably the most dominant sex I ever had, pinning her by the wrists with her legs over my shoulders. My cock felt unfeasibly long as I thrust my full length into her and I believe I felt her cervix opening around my head as we both came, feeling like I was pumping gallons of sperm directly into her womb.

All sex is nice but occasional fucks like that do stick in the memory.

 

[Deleted member 6903436]

I do share this kink although I feel it as deminished slightly as I have children. I do still love breeding/ pregnant women even knowning may partner is full of sperm is hot although as I write this I'm thinking about getting another generic woman pregnant. As above I doremember the weekend we conceived my 1st child.

I also have a fetish of watching a woman feeding her baby.

I think it's partly down to a biologigal need to procreate.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Hi everyone, still new here, still getting used to the place so I hope it's OK to post this here

I've noticed more breeding-kink stuff lately (not sure if it's on the rise or if I'm just paying more attention). Seeing it featured in more porn, stories, artwork etc. Had a one-night-stand recently mention it in dirty-talk.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has this specific kink & if they know why they find it hot? Is there anything that triggered the kink for you personally? Is there a specific feeling it gives you (such as feeling more virile or proud? Or the idea of screwing a pregnant person? Anything?) Is it predominantly men who are turned on by the idea? Or are there women who have fantasies about it too? Do people with this kink have children already? Do they want children? Or is it more abstract?
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I would posit that it is not a kink at all. Rather, it is the reason we have such a strong urge to fuck. To procreate. So, while I might not call it a kink, anything else, including straight-up, marital sex using birth control, is a modification of the natural urge.

 

[Ramone45]

My wife has this. She won''t fuck with a condom. She craves semen and the power it contains. She loves the thought getting knocked up. Her man summing in her pussy gives her the best orgasms. Alternatively, she enjoys swallowing cum.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Not a kink but there's something wild about bareback sex and the whole risk. Especially when I fucked another guy's girl. Obviously IRL I wouldn't want to knock anyone up.

 

[Stopokochac]

I assure you it's definitely not a just a male thing. To the contrary, it actually seems more common in women. IDK about porn, but I've been seeing TONS of posts about it on here. IDK either if it's on the rise, or if it's no longer so stigmatized so people are just more open to admit to it.

Most of the women I've talked to who have this kink said they love the aspect of feeling desired and feeling a connection. I mean, there is nothing that says you're physically and emotionally attracted to the person than wanting to share your DNA. It's the ultimate flattery. That someone would consider you high quality enough to breed with you.

Mine developed quite well in life. When I was younger I never wanted kids, but as I got older the idea became more appealing. I have my reasons, which I don't want to share publicly, but part of it has to do with what I wrote earlier.

I should clarify I'm more specifically talking about Natural Inseminstion here, which is basically someone hiring you to have sex with them and get them pregnant.

THAT being said, it's one of those things that sounds hotter in your head than in practice. Knowing you have to pay child support will make you go soft very quickly There are also a lot of other factors. What if the person has a disease. What if the child comes out defective? It also seems morally wrong.

I've only come across one person who claims she did that, and IDK if she actually did. And another girl who seemed dead serious and actually gave me her phone number.
I've heard stories, but IDK how many people actually do this. It's a hot concept, but when faced with the reality of it, it no longer sounds like a good thing to do.

 

[Supersammy]

yess

 

[SPARTAN047]

Cumming in a pussy. Some dream of breeding an asshole for maybe the same reason.

 

[Escierto]

Cumming in a pussy. Some dream of breeding an asshole for maybe the same reason.

Yes, indeed. I often think when my girl is filling me with her cum, that my asshole is serving as a pussy for her cock. We both fantasize that she is making me pregnant.