Gentle/ caring/ Daddy Dom

[Liberia]

Good day to all of you and a question for the experienced kinksters here:

How many of you identify more with the gentle, tender, caring Dom? I am asking for all active parties, either giving or receiving.

For the Doms:
How does a dynamic look for you?
Does it always have to involve tasks and punishments?
When and how did you notice that you were drawn to the gentle and caring side?
Or could it just look like a caring relationship but with more nurturing and care involved and a kinky side in the bedroom?
What is the fulfillment that you get out of it?
Were you or are you in a functioning relationship that worked for a longer time and involved a Gentle Dom/ Daddy Dom dynamic?

For the subs:
What do you like about it?
Do you expand some of it into life outside of the bedroom?
What are you looking for in a partner?


Any answers here or via PM if you feel the answers are too intimate are very welcome and will be treated with great care, discretion and respect.

Good day and kind regards

L.

 

[Honeysuckleboi]

As a very submissive trans guy, I love a caring Daddy Dom because they make me feel safe and comforted, and like I can be cute and subby and maybe a little feminine where I might not otherwise feel safe doing so.

There's something very erotic for me about an older, more experienced man wanting to take care of me and make me feel good, and knowing he gets off on making me feel good is like a positive feedback loop.
And, well, being told I'm a good boy or that I'm doing a good job for him.....oooougghhh it makes my pussy gush. Service with immediate positive vocal feedback feels so pleasurable!

I'm submissive outside the bedroom too, and while I have my own opinions and ways of doing things, having a gentle, caring Dom around to take care of me and make sure I look after myself would probably really help keep me a little more mentally organized hehe. And the potential for cuddling! I like intimate nonsexual physicality too, and having a big, warm Daddy to hug and cuddle with is sooo comforting.

I like Doms that are gentle and caring, obviously, but ones that can also be firm and put me in my place if need be while still caring for me. I love ceding control and being told what to do to pleasure my Dom, and actively hearing that he enjoys my submission will only reinforce my desire to submit. But he has to have my trust completely, or I struggle to fully submit!

At the end of the day, I just want to be respected as a person and not just a sex object despite wanting to submit deeply and regularly.