Gender Difference?

[Jada59]

I get contacted a lot on here and other places by guys. At all hours of the day or night. Not that I'm complaining but it seems they are always available to chat, play, whatever, and I just am not.

I even had one list off all the things I said I had to do. Like shop, sweep the floor, mop the floor, make dinner, feed pets, run an errand, go to the Dr., etc. And it was true. I did say all of those things. He pointed out that I was always busy and I thought... Yes! I always am! And a lot of times, I wish I wasn't. Seems recently I have been constantly busy.

I have also had guys tell me to put off reading messages, taking phone calls, whatever. To take a day for myself and put that all off until later. But... Even when I want to do that, I feel that I just can't!

Now I no longer work but when I did, I wasn't able to put anything off. That phone needed to be answered right away, the customer attended to, etc. I had a variety of jobs over the years including switchboard operator and receptionist. So I thought maybe it was ingrained into me not to put things off but...

Could this be a gender difference? Do other women feel like I do? Long ago, before I was married and I lived alone or with a roommate, I did often take entire days off. But I didn't have several people and animals running through the house making messes. I'm sure that doesn't help.

So what do you think? Are men more inclined to put things off? Or maybe I'm just the odd one.

 

[With_David_Bowie]

There was a point to this post that I didnt read through?

 

[Saint Peter]

I will get back to you on this.

 

[Jada59]

There was a point to this post that I didnt read through?

Have David read it from beyond the grave.

 

[Jada59]

I will get back to you on this.

Haha. Set myself right up for that one, didn't I?

 

[With_David_Bowie]

Have David read it from beyond the grave.

Dont need to. Nor should you. People do things all the time, its the importance level you're talking about.

In the 10th century, bringing home a sheep meant 3 days of butchery/etc

Today, it is, why, then, what do we do with it... which is farm it out, and if you want it back in meat, wool etc, 3 days, and money.

You answering a phone is of import of what you do, yes.

 

[Jada59]

Dont need to. Nor should you. People do things all the time, its the importance level you're talking about.

In the 10th century, bringing home a sheep meant 3 days of butchery/etc

Today, it is, why, then, what do we do with it... which is farm it out, and if you want it back in meat, wool etc, 3 days, and money.

You answering a phone is of import of what you do, yes.

Thanks! I still like to do some things the old fashioned way like baking bread from scratch. No bread machine. Tried the machine and hated it. I've even made beer. Stuff like that takes time. Although the beer didn't need much attending to.

 

[SissySalina]

Not sure but this sissy believes that it really on the person and not the gender.
Before the "time of self awareness" there was the rush, always doing something, usually working 12 to 14 hours a day and not taking time for self. The idea of the 12 to 14 hour days was to fit in everything that needed to be done. During this time (as a man) is was others that took precedence and time fro self was put off which never came about. This was done by making decisions of putting others and the job first.
As a sissy of today there is no decision making that is done by Her which takes a tremendous load off sissy's mind so sissy can concentrate only on what needs to be done and not in what order it needs to be done in.

 

[CandiCame]

I pretty much will not do anything unless an outside source motivates me to do so. But idk that that's so much because of my dick as it is just that I'm lazy as hell. There are plenty of industrious go-getters out there with dicks. And their houses probably aren't falling apart.