GAY GUYS: Anal Poll From Straight Guy

[TheMysticMan]

Hi guys,

I've recently become somewhat curious about anal penetration as a guy, mostly due to my extreme jealousy of female orgasms. Are male anal orgasms more like female orgasms? Do you prefer penile orgasms or anal orgasms? I thought I'd ask gay guys to get a more objective view, as a lot of straight guys (myself included) find the idea of being penetrated wierd, and thus would prefer to give, rather than recieve.

It's not something I intend to try any time soon, but I am curious and may one day, when I've explored much more into sex's rich tapestry, give it a try.

-TheMysticMan-

 

[Experiencedguy]

Just my humble opinion, but seeing as how you started this thread, I would definately say this raises you from straight to bi-curious.

Nothing wrong with that - but is this really just a fantasy, or something you are really thinking about trying?

 

[sunandshadow]

Saying "female orgasms" is somewhat overgeneralizing - clitoral and g-spot orgasms feel different. I have heard g-spot massage compared to prostate massage (and anal sex feels good to a male partly because it massages the prostate). But, since there aren't any people who have both g-spots and prostates, I don't know how anyone can really say whether they feel the same. At least for the clitoris, we have medical evidence that it's more or less equivalent to the head of the penis, so clitoral stimulation ought theoretically to feel similar to penile stimulation.

 

[george51]

Just my humble opinion, but seeing as how you started this thread, I would definately say this raises you from straight to bi-curious.

Nothing wrong with that - but is this really just a fantasy, or something you are really thinking about trying?

Good one.

 

[TheMysticMan]

Just my humble opinion, but seeing as how you started this thread, I would definately say this raises you from straight to bi-curious.

Nothing wrong with that - but is this really just a fantasy, or something you are really thinking about trying?

Haha, asking the opinion of gay people makes me bi-curious? Righto.

I'm not saying I want to be fucked by a guy, if I was going to do it, it would be a girl with a strapon, or a dildo, haha. I have nothing against homosexuality atall, I think people can do what they want with their sex lives as long as no one comes to harm, it doesn't bother me. But I do find the idea of being intimate with a guy quite repulsive personally. :/

To be honest this isn't even a fantasy, I still don't like the idea of anal sex with a women, recieving it. I just think it would be interesting if you could feel an orgasm that was more long and intense, like a female G-Spot orgasm. Girls lose control completely, we don't get anything near that good, or long, and it pisses me off! So I thought I'd see if prostate stimulation would let me experience slightly more hardcore orgasms, in theory. And then if/when I find the idea of anal less repulsive I can give it a try. As I said, I asked gay guys because they (for the most part) won't be atall peturbed by the idea of being penetrated, so won't be biased, not because I want to be penetrated by them. Haha. And because they are a LOT more likely to have tried it. But then I don't really know the exact definition of bi-curious. If being interested in the experience of gay guy's orgasms makes me bi-curious then fair enough.

Would anyone care to explain how they feel comparitively? A penile and a prostate orgasm?

Thanks for the replies,

-TheMysticMan-

 

[TheMysticMan]

No one want to explain the feeling of a prostate orgasm to me then?

 

[sombrablanca]

Does anyone actually just get fucked? I know I would think youre generally having your cock played with as well. I do know with a toy as well it is much more intense. To the point it is way quicker if I dont pace myself which ends up edging. Normal stroking takes me a min of a good 20 min. With a toy its like 2 unless I try really hard not to.

 

[Chrissi]

No one want to explain the feeling of a prostate orgasm to me then?

As far as a prostate orgasm goes: they are wonderful. For me much, much, much better than just coming.

Think of masturbating, and coming. Generally that peak sensation lasts for a couple of seconds while you ejaculate. Then some guys get super sensitive to the point that your penis, especially the glans cannot even be touched.

Now with a good top, through anal/prostate stimulation, some guys can remain on edge for a much longer time, (sometimes minutes for me), and slowly come over that time, yes you are at that ejaculate point, but it is entirely internal, your penis can even be somewhat semi soft. And it doesn't get supersensitive (at least mine doesn't). A good top, can keep me on the edge for a long time, such that I am begging for it.
As I said it is a wonderful, tiring, and up and down feeling, that leaves your entire body tingling. It is not as intense as a penis stimulation ejaculation, but it is much, much, much more satisfying.

It doesn't always happen for me during anal sex, and sometimes bf and I really have to work at it , but when we are there, and I am in that special place, you could do anything to me and I wouldn't care. I love anal orgasms, and one of the reasons I am a bottom.

 

[Chrissi]

Does anyone actually just get fucked? I know I would think youre generally having your cock played with as well. I do know with a toy as well it is much more intense. To the point it is way quicker if I dont pace myself which ends up edging. Normal stroking takes me a min of a good 20 min. With a toy its like 2 unless I try really hard not to.

Oh yeah, all the time. I can come without my cock even being touched...

 

[Chrissi]

Hi guys,

I've recently become somewhat curious about anal penetration as a guy, mostly due to my extreme jealousy of female orgasms. Are male anal orgasms more like female orgasms? Do you prefer penile orgasms or anal orgasms? I thought I'd ask gay guys to get a more objective view, as a lot of straight guys (myself included) find the idea of being penetrated wierd, and thus would prefer to give, rather than recieve.

It's not something I intend to try any time soon, but I am curious and may one day, when I've explored much more into sex's rich tapestry, give it a try.

-TheMysticMan-

I cannot comment on the female orgasm, as I have no idea.

Both orgasms are great, but I absolutely prefer an anal orgasm, over a penile one, as you say. However, anal orgasms are not always available, so you take what you get.

You may have some difficulty with exploring. While I enjoy playing with toys: dildos, plugs and missiles up my ass, they are no comparision to having a real cock up there. So unless you are prepared to have another man (and not just any guy, but someone who knows how to get you there and keep you there) anally penetrate you, then you may never really experience the wonderful feeling that only another man can give to you.

 

[none2_none2]

Does anyone actually just get fucked? I know I would think youre generally having your cock played with as well. I do know with a toy as well it is much more intense. To the point it is way quicker if I dont pace myself which ends up edging. Normal stroking takes me a min of a good 20 min. With a toy its like 2 unless I try really hard not to.

Guys run the whole gamut. I've known guys who had never had a guy play with their cock while fucking them, and they really appreciated that i tried to help by j/oing them. Other guy really like you just to fuck them and leave their cock alone. I don't think I'm as good a top as I used to be simply because I don't have the stamina that i used to have. However, I always try, and I think that is the best thing a top can do.

For myself, I kind of have the opposite problem. I cannot really get off strongly, unless I'm reading about my kind of guy getting fucked, viewing a video of my kind of guy getting fucked, fingering or rimming my kind of guy and fantasizing that fucking is next, or actually fucking my kind of guy. When I do fuck, I tend to be the only one to get off. For whatever reason, my partner doesn't come with me. He wants me to concentrate on getting myself off. That used to bother me as if somehow I was failing him, but I realized that is just him. I think perhaps it trips his trigger that I'm using his body to seed. When i tried lasting a long time before getting off, it just runs the risk that his body cramps, or the friction wares him out. Instead what we do is I work to get off, then when I'm done. I focus on getting him off by using dildoes while he j/o's. When I was a bit younger I could get harder and at least just be inside him while he j/o's. However, I seldom can go for a round two right after round one, so that is few and far between.

I am glad that there are guys who truly love anal sex, because fucking is all I really get off one. Bottoms are a blessing to all mankind. I'm glad I found mine and that he doesn't consider me a pain in the ass. I used to say that the world could never have too many bottoms. That is still true, but since I have my guy I don't worry about the bottoms of the rest of mankind.

 

[Chrissi]

Guys run the whole gamut. I've known guys who had never had a guy play with their cock while fucking them, and they really appreciated that i tried to help by j/oing them. Other guy really like you just to fuck them and leave their cock alone. I don't think I'm as good a top as I used to be simply because I don't have the stamina that i used to have. However, I always try, and I think that is the best thing a top can do.

For myself, I kind of have the opposite problem. I cannot really get off strongly, unless I'm reading about my kind of guy getting fucked, viewing a video of my kind of guy getting fucked, fingering or rimming my kind of guy and fantasizing that fucking is next, or actually fucking my kind of guy. When I do fuck, I tend to be the only one to get off. For whatever reason, my partner doesn't come with me. He wants me to concentrate on getting myself off. That used to bother me as if somehow I was failing him, but I realized that is just him. I think perhaps it trips his trigger that I'm using his body to seed. When i tried lasting a long time before getting off, it just runs the risk that his body cramps, or the friction wares him out. Instead what we do is I work to get off, then when I'm done. I focus on getting him off by using dildoes while he j/o's. When I was a bit younger I could get harder and at least just be inside him while he j/o's. However, I seldom can go for a round two right after round one, so that is few and far between.

I am glad that there are guys who truly love anal sex, because fucking is all I really get off one. Bottoms are a blessing to all mankind. I'm glad I found mine and that he doesn't consider me a pain in the ass. I used to say that the world could never have too many bottoms. That is still true, but since I have my guy I don't worry about the bottoms of the rest of mankind.

none2, A true bottom would never feel that you were taking advantage, indeed maybe even the opposite.
As a bottom, I almost feel selfish, sometimes. I couldn't care less if I get off from him stimulating my penis. Sometimes all I want is for him to be in me, for as long and as hard as he wants. When he gets tired, I will squat over/ride him. I feel bad after he cums and needs a break, and all I want is more. (But that is what cuddling, kissing and conversation are for, right?)
Also I love 3 somes and groups, especially when you, as a bottom are the only one, or in the minority
It's funny that way: I wouldn't say I never top, but it is very, very rare.

 

[TheMysticMan]

Wow, thanks for the response guys. Although it was slightly traumatising for me, I'm pretty squeamish about gay sex.

gayTopher: No, I could never be penetrated by a guy, unless I went through some major changes in my sexuality. The thought horrifies me to be honest.

I am very jealous that they are apparently so much better, especially if I may never be able to experience one even if I dared put something up my ass. Haha. But I spose you gay guys have to put up with a lot of shit, so you deserve some good compensation.

Thanks for the info everyone! Now I know a lot more about it and will be able to make an informed decision at some point. Hehe.

 

[Programmer Cat]

Does anyone actually just get fucked?

Last time I took it in the ass, I was fucking my wife at the same time.

 

[in4more]

I'm straight and curious about replacing the toys I've experimented with with the real thing. It's not much of a step to replace a vibe with the real thing except as mentioned, if the person knows what they're doing, it should feel lots better. It's like the difference between a vibe and fingers. Fingers move more naturally and a vibe is more mechanical. Now combine the natural movement and attach it to a cock that know what it's dong? Sounds like the best of both worlds.

I don't understand why guys that say they are straight have a phobia about a cock up their ass. It's just another way to explore your sexuality and doesn't make you gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). If you enjoy anal play with vides and things, having someone that knows what they're doing with a nice cock is gonna make it better.

Of course, I've not had this happen (yet) but I don't see any reason why if I'm curious to try it, I shouldn't let someone fuck me in the ass.

 

[readyforfun]

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I'm straight and curious about replacing the toys I've experimented with with the real thing. It's not much of a step to replace a vibe with the real thing except as mentioned, if the person knows what they're doing, it should feel lots better. It's like the difference between a vibe and fingers. Fingers move more naturally and a vibe is more mechanical. Now combine the natural movement and attach it to a cock that know what it's dong? Sounds like the best of both worlds.

I don't understand why guys that say they are straight have a phobia about a cock up their ass. It's just another way to explore your sexuality and doesn't make you gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). If you enjoy anal play with vides and things, having someone that knows what they're doing with a nice cock is gonna make it better.

Of course, I've not had this happen (yet) but I don't see any reason why if I'm curious to try it, I shouldn't let someone fuck me in the ass.

You make a great point

 

[glamorilla]

No one want to explain the feeling of a prostate orgasm to me then?

it's god.

 

[louisa25ha]

I had a fling with a guy in France about 18 months ago, and after about a week of sex, he confessed that he liked to be fingered deeply in his ass... I like the whole rectum thing, so I was happy to oblige ( as long as he was clean...and he was ...Totally)... I hooked my middle finger up his ass while I gently licked him, and he came in like...30 seconds..Huh!.. Huge jets of cum too and moaning as well...It was Awesome... I would recommend you getting your girl to try it out

As a postscript, He promptly fell fast asleep and I was left to read my book in the tent unsatisfied!!!!!!...Easily the most intense orgasm i gave him though in our short affair.

Lou

 

[blade_rocknut]

the ass is where it's at!

I am generally straight ( shame there are titles), but have enjoyed pleasuring myself with fingers, toys, etc. for many years. I have often enjoyed the "prostate orgasm" which feels to me like my insides are bursting, but in a good way. The amount of ejaculate can be amazing, sometimes it almost streams out while I am working myself over- leaving a MUCH larger deposit than a penis orgasm. ( and I can still do that- immediately after! ) I have had the wife do the strap-on thing a few times; it's just o.k ( but VERY kinky). we both prefer when she uses fingers on me- she can "feel" what she's doing that way. I can use dildoes on myself, to great reward, but only because I am steering it. I'll bet the real thing is amazing, but alas, I am not attracted to men. ( now t-girls break all the rules, so.......... ;-)

 

[bps]

dunno -- it seems like a pretty big step. I don't have a phobia about a real cock (heck if anything I readily admit my desire to experience a nice-sized beauty inside me). but you make it sound so clinical. they are the organs of other human beings. for me, I'm almost certain the physical payoff would be absolutely mind-blowing; of course, that's why it's so tantalizing a prospect. but I can't imagine sex devoid of at least some emotional component. for me, sex with another man would have to involve a level of trust that frightens me and turns me on at once. I'm also a little afraid of where things could go if he makes me feel as good as I suspect it would. that's where it could get tricky.

I'm straight and curious about replacing the toys I've experimented with with the real thing. It's not much of a step to replace a vibe with the real thing except as mentioned, if the person knows what they're doing, it should feel lots better. It's like the difference between a vibe and fingers. Fingers move more naturally and a vibe is more mechanical. Now combine the natural movement and attach it to a cock that know what it's dong? Sounds like the best of both worlds.

I don't understand why guys that say they are straight have a phobia about a cock up their ass. It's just another way to explore your sexuality and doesn't make you gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). If you enjoy anal play with vides and things, having someone that knows what they're doing with a nice cock is gonna make it better.

Of course, I've not had this happen (yet) but I don't see any reason why if I'm curious to try it, I shouldn't let someone fuck me in the ass.

 

[artemisnymph]

dunno -- it seems like a pretty big step. I don't have a phobia about a real cock (heck if anything I readily admit my desire to experience a nice-sized beauty inside me). but you make it sound so clinical. they are the organs of other human beings. for me, I'm almost certain the physical payoff would be absolutely mind-blowing; of course, that's why it's so tantalizing a prospect. but I can't imagine sex devoid of at least some emotional component. for me, sex with another man would have to involve a level of trust that frightens me and turns me on at once. I'm also a little afraid of where things could go if he makes me feel as good as I suspect it would. that's where it could get tricky.

Thank you for this. Seems like things center so much on shock value, getting off, how to get off better, that we miss the human component of sex. The other person's response, feeling their breath, their heart racing in their chest, sweat, whispering....

I guess when it comes down to it I would rather have ho-hum sex with someone I care about as opposed to mind-blowing sex with a stranger or a toy.

 

[eddie03]

What is a prostrate orgasm like? It is pretty mind blowing to me. I had an ex girlfriend that used to peg me and she just knew how and when to hit my prostrate. Its really hard to describe but I have cum buckets without my cock being touched and its really a wonderful feeling.

She warmed me up to the idea the first time she blew me once she had me close to cumming & she lubed up a finger and began massaging my prostrate. Before I could protest I was having the best orgasm of my life to that point. Had I been standing I would have fallen over it was so intense and it lasts so much longer than a normal orgasm.

Some days I wish I could have an affair with her just so she could fuck me from time to time. I consider myself bi but have yet to be with a man. If the right situation came up though I would go all the way.

 

[blade_rocknut]

Wow, thanks for the response guys. Although it was slightly traumatising for me, I'm pretty squeamish about gay sex.

gayTopher: No, I could never be penetrated by a guy, unless I went through some major changes in my sexuality. The thought horrifies me to be honest.

I am very jealous that they are apparently so much better, especially if I may never be able to experience one even if I dared put something up my ass. Haha. But I spose you gay guys have to put up with a lot of shit, so you deserve some good compensation.

Thanks for the info everyone! Now I know a lot more about it and will be able to make an informed decision at some point. Hehe.

Methinks ye should wait til noone's home, get some lube a nd a shower, relax and find out what it's all about. Curiosity just like yours inspired me to do the same in my early teens ( and I never would have asked anyone about it then). I discovered I liked it, ( really confusing at that age) and fortunately have been able to share with my wife over the years. Heck, knowing how myself made it easier to introduce HER to anal; that's reason enough on it's own! You would never be defeated by the " you wouldn't let me do THAT TO YOU" story again!

 

[Chrissi]

dunno -- it seems like a pretty big step. I don't have a phobia about a real cock (heck if anything I readily admit my desire to experience a nice-sized beauty inside me). but you make it sound so clinical. they are the organs of other human beings. for me, I'm almost certain the physical payoff would be absolutely mind-blowing; of course, that's why it's so tantalizing a prospect. but I can't imagine sex devoid of at least some emotional component. for me, sex with another man would have to involve a level of trust that frightens me and turns me on at once. I'm also a little afraid of where things could go if he makes me feel as good as I suspect it would. that's where it could get tricky.

Very well thought out and how true, good for you.

At some point you will find someone, male or female who you fall for and want to share this with. I truly hope you do.

Yes, there is so much more than just the physical act of sex. That is how I have known that I am gay. While I only get aroused by other men, it is really the need for an emotional connection with men that I have centered on. It was difficult, when I was younger, as homosexuality and being gay was not tolerated. It was those first steps of letting go and surrendering that liberated me.

Best wishes, you will find your mate.

 

[EvenAyre]

When I'm getting fucked all to peices I don't even know I have a dick.