Gangbangers

[Marquis]

The only gangbang I've been in was clearly a bonding experience between the males with the female used as a dummy/surrogate. It was memorable, but I don't necessarily see myself doing that again.

I will admit that the idea of passing my own primary around to my friends is horrifying to me.

 

[YourCaptor]

hmm i've never noticed that gangbangers in general being especially extroverted. you have the leaders of course, the alpha personalities, usually one or two guys who set the tone of the action. but everyone else kind of turns into sheep, just happily but somewhat blindly following along. at both my first and second gangbangs, there was quite a bit of high schoolish male ribbing and pressuring...like, one man was ridiculed because he was too short to penetrate me on the gynecological table they had me on, like everyone else had. "ha ha he can't even reach the pussy," that sort of thing. even blindfolded, i could FEEL his embarrassment. but then he found an ottoman or something to stand on and got the job done, then everyone clapped for him, lol. but there were snide remarks about cumming too soon, not cumming enough, cock size and shape, sexual skill, everything. there was a lot of direction, from the alpha guys to the rest, telling them what to do, and exactly how and when to do it. and, to my amazement, the rest of the guys just listen. they followed the alphas without question.

i wonder how a gangbang of all alphas/Dominants might be different, like the experience Syd had. a few weeks ago Daddy invited two Dominants he met online over to the house to use me, and as always i found the power dynamic between the men interesting. of course, my Master was the top, but Dom A had a very assertive demeanor as well and picked up on the weakness of Dom B right away. he started giving Dom B encouragement when he was clearly having trouble getting me into the right positions and maintaining an erection with a condom on...very very condescending encouragement: "go on, you can do it." but of course Dom B didn't pick up on the tone at all and was childishly bolstered by Dom A's words. he was clearly just to be involved, to be "one of the guys." i felt badly for him actually.

When I say extroverted I am referring to the mental state. As in mentally getting aroused by lots of movement and such. I don’t mean someone that appears to have something like HPD. One perspective I may enjoy about a gangbang. Sitting on the side, my girl in a soup of horny men, begging and pleading for me to get her out. That could be hot.

I also can’t imagine a non-competitive gangbang. I know Syd described one, but that’s more of co-op sex to me. A gangbang is a fuck frenzy, it’s not something social, its every man for himself. I don’t think being an alpha or an omega makes much difference, other then maybe getting choice parts.

I wonder if there's any evolutionary value to a gang rape (which is really what a gangbang is simulating).

Gang rapes have always been part of war and territorial expansion.

Interesting to think on the relationship, if any between harem-style sexuality where a dominant male takes many wives or concubines, and a gang rape.

I don’t think gangbang is a civil version of a gangrape. In a gangrape I don’t think the victim is viewed as an individual, its more of a revenge thing. It’s as much related as spanking a sub and putting your fist though a wall is.

It's really hard for me to see this kind of thing as not the least tiny little bit gay. Manly warrior butchmeister classical gay. Homoerotic anyway. I don't see jacking off in view of one another as totally straight either.

I can also see the gay aspect of a gangbang. Unfortunately the effeminate guys that I am attracted to would take the bang out of gangbang. So for me it’s not even a good kind of gay.

Although I do have a story half way done, but abandoned, where a chick knows her two best male friends are gay for each other, only they wont admit it. So she gets them to do double penetration on her, and she is so short that they are eye to eye when they do it. Her body becomes the medium through which they feel comfortable getting close like that, and as they are fucking her they start touching each other, kissing, etc. Meanwhile she is in the middle getting soaked in sweat, muscles rubbing against her from every side, totally forgotten by them, fucking her without paying attention to her excitement rhythm. Plus lots of hot detail stuff. But, it’s not finished… none of my crap is.

 

[Adakgirl]

Though I sought to experience my fantasy in real life and achieved that goal, it did not produce the result I had hoped it would of "getting it out of my system". I've had fantasies like that ever since, only they were better, more detailed and have become quite vivid.
It seems I'm to the point now where I have a hard time bringing myself to orgasm without thinking of one of them. The main one goes like this :

I fantasize that a group of strangers (sometimes with men I know mixed in) are standing around me stroking their hard cocks and watching me masturbate. My Dominant is there sitting in a chair beside me or, pacing back and forth in front me, urging me on and telling me that If I am a good girl and show the men how well I cum for them, my reward will be that he will allow all of them to fuck me in anyway they desire.

I HAVE to cum in front of them all or I won't get any cock, he will let them jack off and cum all over me and then he will send them away.

And boom I explode

 

[ownedsubgal]

The only gangbang I've been in was clearly a bonding experience between the males with the female used as a dummy/surrogate. It was memorable, but I don't necessarily see myself doing that again.

I will admit that the idea of passing my own primary around to my friends is horrifying to me.

why horrifying?

 

[ragifiro]

MFM but it wouldn't be called a gangbang. My biggest hangup would be the risk of an STD. If the risk wasn't there I would be all for it.

 

[myinnerslut]

Men are more social about their sexuality sometimes. I mean I don't know girls who get together in groups and put on porn to watch together, not straight girls anyway.

my roommate and i did it in college all the time.

im bi, but she is straight

 

[00Syd]

my roommate and i did it in college all the time.

im bi, but she is straight

AHA! I'm glad to see I'm not the only one.

Watching porn with your girlfriends is excellent, no matter your orientation.

 

[myinnerslut]

we used to have "porn parties" invite over some friends. make some popcorn. treat it like a movie critique. it was a lot of fun

 

[Netzach]

I must have found the generation gap.

If my close friends are getting hot watching something, I consider that a need-to-know basis. Ew.

 

[ownedsubgal]

uhh...cannot relate at all to the group porn-watching thing. AT ALL. but then again, i can't relate to the idea of having a group of "girlfriends" or of being able to comfortably relate to and socially interact with a bunch (or frankly even one) of chicks.

but in my world, porn watching is either solo or with someone you're currently scrumping. the idea of sharing the moment with a platonic friend or friends....weird. mystifying. and yeah, kinda icky.

 

[myinnerslut]

well, it wasnt porn watching for the intent of getting turned on. it was watching it with the same attitude you might have to a B or C grade movie. no touching, no hot and bothered college students. just a bunch of people laughing and poking fun at the shitty acting and lame dialogue.

the very few times ive watched porn to get off it was solo.

 

[Netzach]

well, it wasnt porn watching for the intent of getting turned on. it was watching it with the same attitude you might have to a B or C grade movie. no touching, no hot and bothered college students. just a bunch of people laughing and poking fun at the shitty acting and lame dialogue.

the very few times ive watched porn to get off it was solo.

OK, yes, I've done that. As research project, curiosity, joke, background visual.

But watching porn pointedly and my pants off or with a mind to get turned on- alone.

 

[myinnerslut]

But watching porn pointedly and my pants off or with a mind to get turned on- alone.

yes.

though i have a hard time taking most porn seriously. in most cases i cant get past the fact that it was staged. its a lot easier to watch it critically and comically.

 

[midwestyankee]

I must have found the generation gap.

If my close friends are getting hot watching something, I consider that a need-to-know basis. Ew.

well, it wasnt porn watching for the intent of getting turned on. it was watching it with the same attitude you might have to a B or C grade movie. no touching, no hot and bothered college students. just a bunch of people laughing and poking fun at the shitty acting and lame dialogue.

the very few times ive watched porn to get off it was solo.

OK, yes, I've done that. As research project, curiosity, joke, background visual.

But watching porn pointedly and my pants off or with a mind to get turned on- alone.

One of the strangest experiences of my college days involved watching porn. I had played (badly) on the college's hockey club. We did not have an intercollegiate team so the club played in a local recreational league. Most of the other teams were made up of employees at the various factories around town. The shoeshop league was its informal name. Cut to the end of the season banquet, which happened to fall during a week filled with exams.

Only one other team member went to the league banquet. Following the meal, men in the room started removing the tables and they set the chairs up theater style. Someone else was rigging up a large screen and a 16 mm film projector. Lights go down and there on the screen is none other than the starting left wing for the championship team - with his cock hanging over the mouth of a well-seasoned woman! For the next hour, we were treated to a half dozen home-made porn films starring three or four men from the hockey league and an assortment of willing women.

Not only was I watching porn (not my first, but still) with a bunch of other men but with all of the male stars in the room as well. It was, as they say, more than a little surreal.

 

[Netzach]

One of the strangest experiences of my college days involved watching porn. I had played (badly) on the college's hockey club. We did not have an intercollegiate team so the club played in a local recreational league. Most of the other teams were made up of employees at the various factories around town. The shoeshop league was its informal name. Cut to the end of the season banquet, which happened to fall during a week filled with exams.

Only one other team member went to the league banquet. Following the meal, men in the room started removing the tables and they set the chairs up theater style. Someone else was rigging up a large screen and a 16 mm film projector. Lights go down and there on the screen is none other than the starting left wing for the championship team - with his cock hanging over the mouth of a well-seasoned woman! For the next hour, we were treated to a half dozen home-made porn films starring three or four men from the hockey league and an assortment of willing women.

Not only was I watching porn (not my first, but still) with a bunch of other men but with all of the male stars in the room as well. It was, as they say, more than a little surreal.

That's a weird scene on every level. The 16mm being one.

 

[midwestyankee]

That's a weird scene on every level. The 16mm being one.

Well, it's not like I finished college just last year, you know? I was 30 or so when the very first VHS and Betamax machines were introduced.

 

[Netzach]

Well, it's not like I finished college just last year, you know? I was 30 or so when the very first VHS and Betamax machines were introduced.

No I know. I had this very out-take from the Graduate retro kind of image, it's pretty funny. You should make sure to put that in your movie.

 

[midwestyankee]

No I know. I had this very out-take from the Graduate retro kind of image, it's pretty funny. You should make sure to put that in your movie.

I agree. To put this scene in perspective, it was that same year that I and some friends went to a local movie theater to see Deep Throat.

 

[Netzach]

I agree. To put this scene in perspective, it was that same year that I and some friends went to a local movie theater to see Deep Throat.

Maybe that's part of it? Porn having been a much less private endeavor at one point in the not that distant past? I keep forgetting that sometimes. I'm not sure I would have made my way across the divide between seedy and bad and fine and OK if I didn't have techno privacy to the degree I did.

 

[midwestyankee]

Maybe that's part of it? Porn having been a much less private endeavor at one point in the not that distant past? I keep forgetting that sometimes. I'm not sure I would have made my way across the divide between seedy and bad and fine and OK if I didn't have techno privacy to the degree I did.

This is a good point. At one time, porn was most available in public venues, seedy though they may have been. Yes, some people built up collections of the films, but that meant owning your own projection equipment. Deep Throat was released into the mainstream movie theaters, but I think it was the only true porn film that ever made it into those venues.

The development of small-format video tape (VHS and Betamax) revolutionized porn (see Boogie Nights for all the relevant arguments pro and con) and the Internet brought porn into the quiet and seclusion of our own homes easily and cheaply. In some ways, these two things may have more for the sexual revolution than anything else other than the invention of the Pill.

 

[00Syd]

well, it wasnt porn watching for the intent of getting turned on. it was watching it with the same attitude you might have to a B or C grade movie. no touching, no hot and bothered college students. just a bunch of people laughing and poking fun at the shitty acting and lame dialogue.

the very few times ive watched porn to get off it was solo.

OK, yes, I've done that. As research project, curiosity, joke, background visual.

But watching porn pointedly and my pants off or with a mind to get turned on- alone.

yes.

though i have a hard time taking most porn seriously. in most cases i cant get past the fact that it was staged. its a lot easier to watch it critically and comically.

Word on this. Watching porn in a group is never with the intent of being turned on, and always with the hope of unintentional comedy. Porn Night is, like MIS said, very similar to Bad Movie Night with your buddies.

Serious question: When guys watch porn together is the intent to get turned on?

 

[midwestyankee]

Word on this. Watching porn in a group is never with the intent of being turned on, and always with the hope of unintentional comedy. Porn Night is, like MIS said, very similar to Bad Movie Night with your buddies.

Serious question: When guys watch porn together is the intent to get turned on?

With the exception of the incidents I described above, I've never watched porn in the company of other men. Maybe someone else will have an answer for you.

 

[Marquis]

why horrifying?

I'm just not wired that way.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I'm just not wired that way.

"just not into it" is one thing, "horrified" is another. but it's okay, i won't push it.

 

[MisterSir]

Word on this. Watching porn in a group is never with the intent of being turned on, and always with the hope of unintentional comedy. Porn Night is, like MIS said, very similar to Bad Movie Night with your buddies.

Serious question: When guys watch porn together is the intent to get turned on?

Fuck and no.

Taking my own experiences as a basis, when I watch porn with some of my mates it's stuff featuring porn stars or activities that one or more of us enjoy (Sasha Grey appears often, as does that one who's best known for squirting and has a name I can neither remember nor work out how to spell), then we sit back and go all MST3K on it. At no point does anybody who gets turned on - which might well happen, we are sitting there and watching porn after all - broadcast that fact or act upon it as that is not the point of the activity.