Gangbangers

[Kelli_Kanyon]

I also don't think pegging is gay, though I guess it could be kinda. But if I'm pegging a guy while his buddy jacks off next to me watching it, we're in another realm now.

I agree with this, but it is just us ladies pegging my hubby, and we don't "jack-off" lol. Actually we all stay dressed, we mostly just giggle and laugh while we do it. It is not sex for us ladies, just entertainment for us while we visit

 

[JMohegan]

I'm trying to picture this in a way that is very non-gay.


Still trying.





Still trying.




...

I'm trying, too, and really can't.

Maybe this is a vocabulary issue, but "fellowship" + "camaraderie" + erect cocks sure sounds like something other than a purely straight encounter to me.

 

[Netzach]

I'm trying, too, and really can't.

Maybe this is a vocabulary issue, but "fellowship" + "camaraderie" + erect cocks sure sounds like something other than a purely straight encounter to me.

Men are more social about their sexuality sometimes. I mean I don't know girls who get together in groups and put on porn to watch together, not straight girls anyway.

 

[Netzach]

I agree with this, but it is just us ladies pegging my hubby, and we don't "jack-off" lol. Actually we all stay dressed, we mostly just giggle and laugh while we do it. It is not sex for us ladies, just entertainment for us while we visit

Ah.

Yeah, I've done that kind of thing too.

Pegging for me, these days, is done one on one and it is definitely definitely sex.

 

[00Syd]

I'm trying, too, and really can't.

Maybe this is a vocabulary issue, but "fellowship" + "camaraderie" + erect cocks sure sounds like something other than a purely straight encounter to me.

Well its not like they were all standing around with erections jacking off while someone was fucking me (well, maybe they were, I couldn't see so well due to blindfold buuuttt...), from what it sounded like it would be a guy fucking me and some other guy standing around in the kitchen getting a glass of water and another guy pulling some rope out of his bag and another guy contemplating using my mouth while it was unoccupied and asking the guy already fucking me like, "do you mind?" (no one actually said that, even though that would have been funny, but my point is that there was more language use and less grunting). I dunno. It was all pretty civil compared to what other people have described their experiences as being on this thread, and I think it had a lot to do with a bunch of mature confident guys getting together and sharing a good time.

Men are more social about their sexuality sometimes. I mean I don't know girls who get together in groups and put on porn to watch together, not straight girls anyway.

Yeah, I guess it could be compared to straight guys sitting around and watching porn together. Everyone always sees that and calls "gay," but I actually think its possible to do that and still be straight, without question. I mean, I'm the straightest girl I know, yet have definitely watched and looked at porn with my (girl)friends. We're all still fairly straight (as far as I know, anyway).

 

[intothewoods]

I don't think they'll be attending Pride next year or anything. I just don't think it's "straight." Homoerotic at some level.

 

[intothewoods]

I'm trying, too, and really can't.

Maybe this is a vocabulary issue, but "fellowship" + "camaraderie" + erect cocks sure sounds like something other than a purely straight encounter to me.

Straight like the hobbits in the last scene of LOTR. Just sayin!

 

[JMohegan]

Well its not like they were all standing around with erections jacking off while someone was fucking me (well, maybe they were, I couldn't see so well due to blindfold buuuttt...), from what it sounded like it would be a guy fucking me and some other guy standing around in the kitchen getting a glass of water and another guy pulling some rope out of his bag and another guy contemplating using my mouth while it was unoccupied and asking the guy already fucking me like, "do you mind?" (no one actually said that, even though that would have been funny, but my point is that there was more language use and less grunting). I dunno. It was all pretty civil compared to what other people have described their experiences as being on this thread, and I think it had a lot to do with a bunch of mature confident guys getting together and sharing a good time.

I'm chuckling at the word "civil" here. Not because I see anything wrong with it, but because I really can't relate to the notion of civility in a passionate encounter!

I'm fascinated by what you describe, as it seems totally foreign to me.

 

[JMohegan]

Straight like the hobbits in the last scene of LOTR. Just sayin!

Hahahahaha!

I watched that scene going what the FUCK! Who wrote/directed/planned that bedroom scene? On what planet does someone think it's plausible for straight grown men to act like that? God, that was too funny. Really, what the hell!

 

[Netzach]

I'm chuckling at the word "civil" here. Not because I see anything wrong with it, but because I really can't relate to the notion of civility in a passionate encounter!

I'm fascinated by what you describe, as it seems totally foreign to me.

You can't imagine passing a girl around like a 40 year scotch versus a sixpack?

 

[midwestyankee]

You can't imagine passing a girl around like a 40 year scotch versus a sixpack?

I could see passing around the girl and the 40-year scotch.

 

[JMohegan]

You can't imagine passing a girl around like a 40 year scotch versus a sixpack?

I can't imagine passing a girl around period. Sharing in a sexual context just isn't my thing.

 

[intothewoods]

I'm chuckling at the word "civil" here. Not because I see anything wrong with it, but because I really can't relate to the notion of civility in a passionate encounter!

I'm fascinated by what you describe, as it seems totally foreign to me.

It seems totally foreign to me too. Whenever I've witnessed group sex activities, it has been nothing like an impact play/rope or other scene without sex. Some of those scenes get all hot and bothered, of course, but it's not uncommon for people to sit around discussing technique or something in a collegial sort of way.

Hahahahaha!

I watched that scene going what the FUCK! Who wrote/directed/planned that bedroom scene? On what planet does someone think it's plausible for straight grown men to act like that? God, that was too funny. Really, what the hell!

I thought LOTR III was the worst of the series and way too long, so that scene was like the cherry on a weird ass sundae. A pillow fight. Really?

 

[Netzach]

I can't imagine passing a girl around period. Sharing in a sexual context just isn't my thing.

OK, but surely not to the point of missing my analogy, it's a different posture entirely. Cold fuck rather than hot animal fuck.

 

[Netzach]

I could see passing around the girl and the 40-year scotch.

That might be above my multitasking threshold, which admittedly isn't high.

 

[JMohegan]

OK, but surely not to the point of missing my analogy, it's a different posture entirely. Cold fuck rather than hot animal fuck.

I'm not trying to be a dick here, and it's very possible that my brain is missing an otherwise reasonable metaphorical leap in your analogy. But I honestly don't see how that makes sense.

40 year old Scotch? That's to be savored. The experience can be at least as sensuous and delightful as any other involving drink or food.

I don't see how that's comparable to a cold fuck. I also don't see why someone would be interested in a cold fuck in the first place, and this is really the essence of my comment about the described interaction being foreign to me, personally. If you can't have free rein to ramp up the passion, I don't really see the point.

 

[Netzach]

I'm not trying to be a dick here, and it's very possible that my brain is missing an otherwise reasonable metaphorical leap in your analogy. But I honestly don't see how that makes sense.

40 year old Scotch? That's to be savored. The experience can be at least as sensuous and delightful as any other involving drink or food.

I don't see how that's comparable to a cold fuck. I also don't see why someone would be interested in a cold fuck in the first place, and this is really the essence of my comment about the described interaction being foreign to me, personally. If you can't have free rein to ramp up the passion, I don't really see the point.

I'm trying to think of a better way to put this, because that's not the best, you're right. Why someone would seek out a cold fuck is the power trip aspect of it, especially if it's a public one amidst - well competitors. No matter how friendly, there's going to be a light sheen of reptile brain competition misting a m/m/m/m/f situation. The guy who's totally swept up in the girl, rather than reserving a kind of bonded metacommentary is like the person bubbling too effusively about the shared bottle, showing a little underbelly.

 

[JMohegan]

I'm trying to think of a better way to put this, because that's not the best, you're right. Why someone would seek out a cold fuck is the power trip aspect of it, especially if it's a public one amidst - well competitors. No matter how friendly, there's going to be a light sheen of reptile brain competition misting a m/m/m/m/f situation. The guy who's totally swept up in the girl, rather than reserving a kind of bonded metacommentary is like the person bubbling too effusively about the shared bottle, showing a little underbelly.

Oh! *light bulb going on*

THIS makes a lot of sense.

 

[Netzach]

Oh! *light bulb going on*

THIS makes a lot of sense.

Neat.

Brings me to wonder if any mmmm/f gangbang isn't as rr put it, about the men with the woman as a kind of catalyst-medium. Other than maybe the one initiated by a woman, but inevitably the m/m/m drama's going to be as thick as her own when they get it on. I've never been a participant really, my interest waxes and wanes, but I was witness to this kind of thing at a party. I like hot little female things as much as anyone, but I was totally watching them, not her.

 

[JMohegan]

Neat.

Brings me to wonder if any mmmm/f gangbang isn't as rr put it, about the men with the woman as a kind of catalyst-medium. Other than maybe the one initiated by a woman, but inevitably the m/m/m drama's going to be as thick as her own when they get it on. I've never been a participant really, my interest waxes and wanes, but I was witness to this kind of thing at a party. I like hot little female things as much as anyone, but I was totally watching them, not her.

I'd say that competition is a really basic element of camaraderie among males.

The difference between someone you might consider a friend, and someone whose company you don't particularly appreciate, is that the latter acts like a dick when competing and the former generally doesn't. Looking at the gangbang as a form of friendly competition, Syd's description fits.

 

[midwestyankee]

Neat.

Brings me to wonder if any mmmm/f gangbang isn't as rr put it, about the men with the woman as a kind of catalyst-medium. Other than maybe the one initiated by a woman, but inevitably the m/m/m drama's going to be as thick as her own when they get it on. I've never been a participant really, my interest waxes and wanes, but I was witness to this kind of thing at a party. I like hot little female things as much as anyone, but I was totally watching them, not her.

This is almost precisely how I see myself in this situation, with the exception that I would definitely be watching her. I might not be game to participate in a gangbang, but I'd surely enjoy being an observer of the behaviors on display.

 

[00Syd]

You can't imagine passing a girl around like a 40 year scotch versus a sixpack?

Ah, see, yes, exactly.

 

[rida]

This is almost precisely how I see myself in this situation, with the exception that I would definitely be watching her. I might not be game to participate in a gangbang, but I'd surely enjoy being an observer of the behaviors on display.

Hubby too likes to watch. He does not mind participating in a 3some kind of situation, but for him the whole point of a gang bang is to have me used and watch my reactions. Totally a voyeuristic pleasure for him.

As for the men that actively participate in such activities, my experience might be a bit different, if only because the participants where not a group of friends or people that we knew or knew each other, and were also all Japanese. They were something akin to public & group sex pros as they were loyal customer of the couple-club where it took place (we had asked the guy that run the place to invite a nice group of guys for me ) so the energy was surely different: no talking and/or camaraderie among them in any open way, not uncomfortable of been naked in front of each other but not flaunting their stuff either (public bathing and hot-spring cultural experience probably helps here), all having a good time but not getting carried away, very respectful but treating me like all I was was a warm body: a bit more than a hole but less than a person.

 

[Marquis]

Yeah, maybe I'm just paranoid, but you never know what kind of weird game you are stepping into when you get between two people.

Ain't it the truth though?

 

[Marquis]

I know this might sound to you all like a big bullshit story but I swear to God every word of it is true

WOW!!!!