Fun night last night... super horny today

[WCHSP]

Okay, so a couple weeks ago a beautiful girl who's been coming to my shows for a while and who I've run into on the street and at a mutual friend's party asked me to come hang out with her. She recently went from "in a relationship" to "in an open relationship," on Facebook, so I was pretty excited at the prospect of... well... whatever she's up for really. Very sexy and I've wanted her for a while. Here's where it gets awesome, though... turns out she's a pain slut. I had no idea! I love pain!

It ended up being me, her and this other guy hanging out... she'd slept with him a few nights prior and he still had the (very impressive) scratch marks all over his back to show for it. We drank a little and joked around... before long she gave me a good scratch on the arm. Bit later I got her back but good... two massive, red scratch marks all the way down her back. I told her that was to get her back... and from then on she mainly just hurt him while I hurt her. It was like a threesome of pain... delicious.

As the night went on she totally tore up his forearms and I gave her a beautiful bite mark on her neck that bruised up nicely and is apparently pretty tender today, also had lots of fun just twisting her arms, lifting her up and the like. Tried to bruise her by digging my fingers into her arms, but didn't really get the reaction I wanted so I just went back to twisting them and occasionally scratching.

Anyway, we didn't end up having sex... or getting as into it as we would have in a different venue (we were actually in her boyfriend's house while he was upstairs on the computer... and there was only so much she was comfortable doing with him upstairs), but... holy fuck she's hot, and obviously loving all the pain I could dish out. That she likes to give it too is even better for me. At one point she tried to knee me in the balls but it wasn't a solid connection, I teased her saying it didn't hurt hoping to goad her into trying again but she didn't bite.

So much potential. And I've been so horny today as a result. That went way better than I thought... two other guys she's sleeping with being there at the time or not. I don't care, she's still wearing my teeth marks today.

 

[satindesire]

Okay, so a couple weeks ago a beautiful girl who's been coming to my shows for a while and who I've run into on the street and at a mutual friend's party asked me to come hang out with her. She recently went from "in a relationship" to "in an open relationship," on Facebook, so I was pretty excited at the prospect of... well... whatever she's up for really. Very sexy and I've wanted her for a while. Here's where it gets awesome, though... turns out she's a pain slut. I had no idea! I love pain!

It ended up being me, her and this other guy hanging out... she'd slept with him a few nights prior and he still had the (very impressive) scratch marks all over his back to show for it. We drank a little and joked around... before long she gave me a good scratch on the arm. Bit later I got her back but good... two massive, red scratch marks all the way down her back. I told her that was to get her back... and from then on she mainly just hurt him while I hurt her. It was like a threesome of pain... delicious.

As the night went on she totally tore up his forearms and I gave her a beautiful bite mark on her neck that bruised up nicely and is apparently pretty tender today, also had lots of fun just twisting her arms, lifting her up and the like. Tried to bruise her by digging my fingers into her arms, but didn't really get the reaction I wanted so I just went back to twisting them and occasionally scratching.

Anyway, we didn't end up having sex... or getting as into it as we would have in a different venue (we were actually in her boyfriend's house while he was upstairs on the computer... and there was only so much she was comfortable doing with him upstairs), but... holy fuck she's hot, and obviously loving all the pain I could dish out. That she likes to give it too is even better for me. At one point she tried to knee me in the balls but it wasn't a solid connection, I teased her saying it didn't hurt hoping to goad her into trying again but she didn't bite.

So much potential. And I've been so horny today as a result. That went way better than I thought... two other guys she's sleeping with being there at the time or not. I don't care, she's still wearing my teeth marks today.

Safe sex is the best sex, so use condoms and dental dams. Hope everything works out for ya and you get to know her better before you actually sleep with her!

 

[RawHumor]

And watch the knees to the balls thing... you may want to have kids one day.

 

[WCHSP]

Safe sex is the best sex, so use condoms and dental dams. Hope everything works out for ya and you get to know her better before you actually sleep with her!

wtf does this have to do with anything? I had condoms in my bag. Nobody even had their dick out.

 

[satindesire]

wtf does this have to do with anything? I had condoms in my bag. Nobody even had their dick out.

What the-...what's with the hostility dude?! Someone piss in your cheerios this morning?!

You want to fuck her, obviously, so seeing as how condoms are a good way to prevent pregnancy and STDs, it's always good to use protection. Jesus Christ, are you on the rag or what?!

 

[WCHSP]

You posted a completely insulting, irrelevant and patronizing post. Either you came here looking for a fight, or you're just a socially clueless and generally mentally impaired waste of oxygen. I'm not entirely sure which. There's no other possible explanation for spamming someone's thread to talk condescendingly about totally unrelated shit.

And I say this as someone who volunteers in harm reduction, providing condoms, lube and safer sex advice to partyers. Shoving it down somebody's throat when they're not even talking about sex as if you have a monopoly on wisdom and have the sacred duty to spread it far and wide to the foolish masses is exactly the wrong way to do it: it's degrading and insulting.

and excuse me for being cranky. I shared a great BDSM experience I had on a BDSM board thinking someone might give guidance about how they got into it, or just congratulate me on taking my first big step, but instead I get nothing but condescension and ignorance in the form of unsolicited advice about subjects I'm probably a lot better informed than either of those who made such worthless posts.

 

[MisterSir]

blah blah blah bitch bitch bitch

Well, aren't you just a little ray of sunshine? I'm sure you'll get on swimmingly with everybody else with that kind of attitude, I know I'm just DYING to find out more about you (he says, his voice thick like sarcastic jam).

 

[HarlotMinx]

You posted a completely insulting, irrelevant and patronizing post. Either you came here looking for a fight, or you're just a socially clueless and generally mentally impaired waste of oxygen. I'm not entirely sure which. There's no other possible explanation for spamming someone's thread to talk condescendingly about totally unrelated shit.

Woah...... hold on there. I think there's a clear miss communication here hon. Nobody was being condescending to you, your post had clear undertones of expressed sexual interest in this girl, she was just giving the obligatory 'be safe' post. People here have no idea who you are or how safe you play and you'd be surprised how many otherwise sane people do not so sane things. If blood is involved, and it very much sounds like the case based on the activities, then it's important to be as safe as you can; ESPECIALLY if one partner has multiple partners. Now simply calm down before you alienate yourself from an awesome informational resource and some neat people.

Now, based on your post. Yes moon and I have a preference for tooth and nail, always found it more intimate, not to mention I'm less likely to break those on my ass (Snapped a hairbrush in two during a spanking last night, Moon just stared at it, not quite believing). We like to call it our savage play. Generally some of the best bruises and marks were given to me by hand and mouth. We've also recently taken to using needles to make our play a bit more bloody as of late. Apparently blood makes an awesome lube! However, this being said, moon and I are verrrrry careful who we play with since we don't want to disturb our blood bond.

-poppet

 

[satindesire]

You posted a completely insulting, irrelevant and patronizing post. Either you came here looking for a fight, or you're just a socially clueless and generally mentally impaired waste of oxygen. I'm not entirely sure which. There's no other possible explanation for spamming someone's thread to talk condescendingly about totally unrelated shit.

And I say this as someone who volunteers in harm reduction, providing condoms, lube and safer sex advice to partyers. Shoving it down somebody's throat when they're not even talking about sex as if you have a monopoly on wisdom and have the sacred duty to spread it far and wide to the foolish masses is exactly the wrong way to do it: it's degrading and insulting.

and excuse me for being cranky. I shared a great BDSM experience I had on a BDSM board thinking someone might give guidance about how they got into it, or just congratulate me on taking my first big step, but instead I get nothing but condescension and ignorance in the form of unsolicited advice about subjects I'm probably a lot better informed than either of those who made such worthless posts.

First of all, I was congratulating you. Secondly, this is a moderated free speech board. Not only will you get unsolicited advice, you'll get spammers, hijackers, picture posters, trolls, and all kinds of other things that you didn't intend your post attracting. There are over ten thousand people on this board...and you cannot control what THEY post on your precious little thread.

Second of all, you could have come to me like an adult and talked to me via PM about my post, instead of acting like a four year old throwing a tantrum. I was not ANY of the things you have accused me of being. I was not spamming, condescending, insulting, or irrelevant. If you had the sense god gave an amoeba, you would have seen that I was quite warm and friendly to you, like I am to EVERYONE. Just take a look at some of the thousands of my past posts if you don't believe me.

Thirdly, I won't excuse you for being cranky, because you insulted and attacked me when it wasn't necessary. And if you think you're better informed about birth control than me, then I suggest you take your fucking opinion and shove it up your ass. If you can fit it in, since your head is clearly stuck in there.

Lastly, everyone on here gets the 'be safe' speech, EVERYONE. No matter if they're 18 or 80, it's called caring. I was trying to be friendly with you, share advise with you, and you took it so totally wrong that I can't even BEGIN to dissect your posts. I won't. It's not worth my time.

I don't come to this website looking for fights, unlike you. I have a life outside of this computer screen.

Welcome to my ignore list, asshat.

 

[WCHSP]

Now, based on your post. Yes moon and I have a preference for tooth and nail, always found it more intimate, not to mention I'm less likely to break those on my ass (Snapped a hairbrush in two during a spanking last night, Moon just stared at it, not quite believing). We like to call it our savage play. Generally some of the best bruises and marks were given to me by hand and mouth. We've also recently taken to using needles to make our play a bit more bloody as of late. Apparently blood makes an awesome lube! However, this being said, moon and I are verrrrry careful who we play with since we don't want to disturb our blood bond.

Yeah, I definitely like using my body to inflict pain. Whips, crops and ropes are useful because of the novel sensations they give... never saw the point of a paddle though. If I just wanted blunt force, I'd use palm strikes: much more precise and a whole lot more fun. Could even call it martial arts training! The night being described was tooth and nail because it was just us sitting on a coach watching a movie... no toys around. I don't object to them in general though.

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Okay... let's forget about the argument itself and break down the offending post itself so I can show you what I found objectionable about it:

Safe sex is the best sex, so use condoms and dental dams. Hope everything works out for ya and you get to know her better before you actually sleep with her!

Some problems:
1) There is no reference to anything actually contained in the OP. Despite the poster's claim above, there's no congratulation, or even acknowledgment of any kind. That causes it to be read as a "form letter" of sorts, put with no thought to the context. Hence, spam.
2) "Hope ... you get to know her better before you actually sleep with her!" This is just plain insulting, implies that I'm promiscuous and irresponsible. Ignores the mention in the OP that I've known her since the summer. Also, the statement is clearly in support of a particular (puritanical) set of sexual mores which is inappropriate on a forum that ostensibly supports sexual liberation.
3) There was no sex involved or mentioned in my post. It's not appropriate to jut in with "use condoms!" every time something remotely related to sex is mentioned. This is a sex board for fuck's sake... you might as well post that in every thread on the entire forum unless it already explicitly mentions condoms.

To say that the post was not insulting or condescending is demonstrably false, because I felt insulted and condescended. I got the impression that the content of my post had, at best, been ignored, but more likely had been simply looked down upon and derided. I could, for instance, object to the claim of hostility in my second post. Strictly speaking, all I did was ask why it had been posted -- no insults or anything, just clarification that I was both equipped for safer sex, and that there was no sex to render safer anyway. However, I wouldn't make this claim, as hostility was read into it, and that's my fault as a writer for allowing that impression through choice of words -- specifically the use of the word "wtf" to start it, which I insist was entirely justified... but by choosing to express myself that way, I instigated a confrontation.

Now, of course, satindesire claims to have added me to her ignore list -- kind of a funny decision really considering she's the one who colonized my thread, not the other way around -- so she presumably isn't reading any of this. Still, I thought I'd spell out exactly what my objections were, for the benefit of anyone else reading.

 

[00Syd]

I think your reading to much into it. I mean, really. Two sentences.

 

[Keroin]

I hear there's a girl on this board that fucks penguins.

I also like pie.

Always wear a condom.

I need more sleep.

Satin is a sweetheart, obviously some major misreading going on here.

No, really, a girl who fucks penguins! Some people.