Friend or foe

[CEOescape]

Being the N°3 many times, I have only been with strangers. Never friends.

But those strangers all became good friends. And many still are to this day.

At least two couples told me they preferred I was a stranger. But also wanted to build a friendship over time. The sex got better the longer we knew each other and the more relaxed we all became.

my wife meet a couple of men... like you we became good friends , it was a completely different relationship after we all became friends

 

[GoodnessO]

Ok So this is what I get out of the situation Austin Powers.

You were both virgins.
Your wife had sex with other men after you were married.
She enjoys your best friend as a sex partner the best ( So far)

End result you will be stuck in a marriage where your wife is out screwing around. There is a few threads with guys like you who have no choice but to say they get turned on by it. I often wonder the wife would say if you wanted to add a woman to the party ?
Or she leaves you for your "Best friend".

GOOD LUCK !

To each their own. And having a wife (or husband) who's screwing around isn't necessarily the worst thing in the world. Monogamy is certainly not the end all & be all. It takes a big heart & lotta love to let your partner be sexually free. Kudos to spouses who recognize & accept their partner's exceptional sexuality.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

To each their own. And having a wife (or husband) who's screwing around isn't necessarily the worst thing in the world. Monogamy is certainly not the end all & be all. It takes a big heart & lotta love to let your partner be sexually free. Kudos to spouses who recognize & accept their partner's exceptional sexuality.

I prefer a partner where I don't have to get regular STD testing.
But hey thats just me.

 

[GoodnessO]

I prefer a partner where I don't have to get regular STD testing.
But hey thats just me.

Well, I'm getting regular STD testing, because of me.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Well, I'm getting regular STD testing, because of me.

Exactly

 

[GoodnessO]

For me, it's extramarital sex, or no sex. And I love my husband, dearly.... as you may know from chatting.

 

[GoodnessO]

Apparently I'm taking over this thread... LOL. I just want to add... my husband doesn't "get off" from my extramarital activities. In fact, he doesn't want to know any details. But I can tell he's happy for me. And honestly I think he's relieved that he's no longer holding me back, just because he can't & isn't interested in sex anymore. He thinks the world of me, & I'm committed to him. Unfortunately he isn't down with me taking on a 2nd husband, though... maybe in another lifetime.

 

[GoodnessO]

Everyone is unique, & everyone's relationships are unique, but not necessarily static. No one can define a relationship except the people in the relationship. I was monogamous with my husband for more than w decades. But now I'm not.

 

[Scotchlander]

my wife meet a couple of men... like you we became good friends , it was a completely different relationship after we all became friends

I think it’s the best way mate. You gain trust.

The naughty part is going out as a threesome in public. Nobody suspects a thing. And only the three of you know what’s happening later

I have been a friends of one couple for years and still keep in touch. Only the three of us, and now you guys, are in on ‘our’ naughty secret

 

[Scotchlander]

Apparently I'm taking over this thread... LOL. I just want to add... my husband doesn't "get off" from my extramarital activities. In fact, he doesn't want to know any details. But I can tell he's happy for me. And honestly I think he's relieved that he's no longer holding me back, just because he can't & isn't interested in sex anymore. He thinks the world of me, & I'm committed to him. Unfortunately he isn't down with me taking on a 2nd husband, though... maybe in another lifetime.

You have a good husband. Love is more than just sex.

I know a woman in your position. Her husband would go out so we could have some fun.