Justina123
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2002
- Posts
- 311
I had the neatest experience Saturday night. I have a very close girlfriend, mid-30's. vanilla, single, who I have always felt had a naturally domme personality. In the last few years, she has been quite unhappy with her vanilla relationships; she tends to get lots of male attention (she is a former model and extremely good looking), but no one who excites her, who can appreciate her mix of flamboyance, strength, playfulness, inner beauty, intelligence, etc.
So last Saturday Sir and I took her to a fetish bar in the city. As my best friend, she has heard lots from me about bdsm, from my sub viewpoint, but never had any experience whatsoever. She dressed perfectly for the occasion and was truly in her element there. She was just a natural, seemed to know just how to handle all the attention she got as an obvious unattached domme, I couldn't get over how she just fit in and especially how she blossomed. To make a long story short, by the end of the night she had two sub men (whittled down from a larger number, ha!) in whom she was quite interested, one acting as her bench in the crowded bar (ha!) while she pet his hair, the other demonstrating his massage prowess, etc. etc. They exchanged e-mails, and she seems to be off and running, has heard from them both already...
All the way home in the car, it was almost like she was high, she was so excited, kept saying she had WAY too much fun, never expected it to be like that. Yesterday we talked about it some more and she feels like she may have found her niche, and I agree- vanilla men just don't appreciate her and she finds them boring.
Anyway, my question is: Any suggestions for specific websites, etc. I could suggest to her? I have a bunch of ones I like but they are geared to submissives. Or any other advice at all would be appreciated?
Thanks SO much,
justina
So last Saturday Sir and I took her to a fetish bar in the city. As my best friend, she has heard lots from me about bdsm, from my sub viewpoint, but never had any experience whatsoever. She dressed perfectly for the occasion and was truly in her element there. She was just a natural, seemed to know just how to handle all the attention she got as an obvious unattached domme, I couldn't get over how she just fit in and especially how she blossomed. To make a long story short, by the end of the night she had two sub men (whittled down from a larger number, ha!) in whom she was quite interested, one acting as her bench in the crowded bar (ha!) while she pet his hair, the other demonstrating his massage prowess, etc. etc. They exchanged e-mails, and she seems to be off and running, has heard from them both already...
All the way home in the car, it was almost like she was high, she was so excited, kept saying she had WAY too much fun, never expected it to be like that. Yesterday we talked about it some more and she feels like she may have found her niche, and I agree- vanilla men just don't appreciate her and she finds them boring.
Anyway, my question is: Any suggestions for specific websites, etc. I could suggest to her? I have a bunch of ones I like but they are geared to submissives. Or any other advice at all would be appreciated?
Thanks SO much,
justina
we have plenty doms willing and ready to give advice and share tips...
