Foreplay do you enjoy it almost more than the orgasm?

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I love foreplay ( the journey) almost more than the orgasm! A man or a woman who enjoys the art of foreplay is an amazing find! I can get lost in the sensuous erotic sexiness of it for hours! I had a play partner who enjoyed it as much as myself. Our sessions usually lasted at least 5 hours which culminated in the most amazing orgasms for both of us.
So tell me your thoughts on the subject!!!:rose:
 
I love foreplay ( the journey) almost more than the orgasm! A man or a woman who enjoys the art of foreplay is an amazing find! I can get lost in the sensuous erotic sexiness of it for hours! I had a play partner who enjoyed it as much as myself. Our sessions usually lasted at least 5 hours which culminated in the most amazing orgasms for both of us.
So tell me your thoughts on the subject!!!:rose:

I love extending foreplay and draw it out if time allows. I use to save a gf bras and panties that were worn out. A couple days before valentines I visited a sex shop and bought a few things. On valentines night, after taking her out to dinner I took out the old washed bra and panties and told her to put them on and lay in the bed. I blindfolded her and tied her up. Then I cut out the bra so I could see her nipples and cut out the crotch of her panties. Her nipples were kind of small so I took out some nipple suction type thing I had bought and put them on her to make them bigger. After a while I wanted to see her tits better and to play with them so I cut it off of her. I then applied some nipple clamps I bought that had a chain attached to them. Then I fucked her while she was wearing her panties for a while. Ever once in a while pulling on her nipples using the chain which had a weight in the middle. I video taped the whole thing with out her knowledge the next time it was her birthday I showed her the video. She wanted to relive it so we did this time with no old bra and panties. She was bummed that I destroyed them until I gave her a present that contained a new set for her to wear. I'll spare you all the details but you get the idea.
 
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I love foreplay ( the journey) almost more than the orgasm! A man or a woman who enjoys the art of foreplay is an amazing find! I can get lost in the sensuous erotic sexiness of it for hours! I had a play partner who enjoyed it as much as myself. Our sessions usually lasted at least 5 hours which culminated in the most amazing orgasms for both of us.
So tell me your thoughts on the subject!!!:rose:

I won't say I love it more than an orgasm, but I do really enjoy the exploration of each other's bodies and taking our time getting started...foreplay done well can be just as enjoyable as sex! The long build up can be thrilling for sure...

Of course it has it's place, there is something to be said for a 5 or 10 min quickie too, suddenly spiking passion when I just have to have her and can't wait anymore...
 
Yes!

The touching, kissing, licking, all of it! I love foreplay to last for hours, to include toys, dirty talk, perhaps watching porn or reading erotica...keeping yourself in that state of desire and wanting more. I miss it.!
 
I agree. Foreplay is at least as fun as the climax. I love multi-hour or all night play sessions. How that goes really depends on the individuals. For example some women can climax quickly and many times over few hours, others take a long time and you have to do it just right to achieve even one climax. If I adapt to what works for my partner it is more fun for both of us. One the male side there are guys that are mostly one and done, and guys who can cum multiple times in a session. This has to be taken into account as it is may be un-fulfilling for the woman if the guy pops and then figures he is done. For a guy who can go multiple times there is no real need to withhold the climax from the perspective of keeping the fun going.

My own preference is to play with my partner in various ways over the hours we are together. It is especially fun if we can be expressive and talk to each other about what we are thinking and feeling and what we would like to try. Because I can cum several times in one night there is no need to hold back the climax. Also, I find that each of my climaxes in any one session is different and fun in its own way.

Just last week I had a 2.5 hour daytime play session with a friend. During that time we did a bunch of different things mostly for her and at her request. It took that entire time for her to reach one climax but I came three times. Earlier this week with the same woman, we only had 1.5 hours, she came three times and me only once. It shows how the same people can be quite different at different times. In each case we were both quite satisfied.
 
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I love intermittent foreplay through the hours or even the whole day before a raucous bedding. On holiday for instance: getting a bit outrageous under the table while out for coffee; a romp and snog in some bushes in the course of a country walk; grinding in front of a mirror of some stately home open to the public; at each other's crotches on the car journey back to the cottage; she's on the doormat kneeling to unbutton my jeans soon as we're in the door; then, upstairs and see if this bed can stay together under us. That's holidaying for two in my book [oops I forgot about the scene-setter before the lazy breakfast].
 
I love intermittent foreplay through the hours or even the whole day before a raucous bedding. On holiday for instance: getting a bit outrageous under the table while out for coffee; a romp and snog in some bushes in the course of a country walk; grinding in front of a mirror of some stately home open to the public; at each other's crotches on the car journey back to the cottage; she's on the doormat kneeling to unbutton my jeans soon as we're in the door; then, upstairs and see if this bed can stay together under us. That's holidaying for two in my book [oops I forgot about the scene-setter before the lazy breakfast].

Packing now, when do we leave? ;)
 
Foreplay can be wonderful, but orgasms are known as climaxes for a reason.
 
I love the long foreplay as well, taking the time to explore my partner from head to toe and every nook and cranny leads to some really hot action. I also love to continue after we both orgasm to play, the afterglow play can be so sensual and lead to another round of hot play. Its like foreplay all over again without stopping in between.
 
I love foreplay ( the journey) almost more than the orgasm! A man or a woman who enjoys the art of foreplay is an amazing find! I can get lost in the sensuous erotic sexiness of it for hours! I had a play partner who enjoyed it as much as myself. Our sessions usually lasted at least 5 hours which culminated in the most amazing orgasms for both of us.
So tell me your thoughts on the subject!!!:rose:


Taking things right to the edge, then easing off just enough is wonderful. Then changing things up a bit. Back and forth from oral to another position. Maybe just slowing the pace and talking about how things feel while still connected physically. Mmmmmm... great times.
 
It's not about the destination, it's about the journey...oh, hell, it's about the destination, too. I generally hold off getting to my "destination" until I know that my lover has reached hers. :)
 
I love hearing what foreplay does for others

The touching, kissing, licking, all of it! I love foreplay to last for hours, to include toys, dirty talk, perhaps watching porn or reading erotica...keeping yourself in that state of desire and wanting more. I miss it.!

This sounds wonderful. :rose:
 
Come on over to be nibbled on me

I won't say I love it more than an orgasm, but I do really enjoy the exploration of each other's bodies and taking our time getting started...foreplay done well can be just as enjoyable as sex! The long build up can be thrilling for sure
 
I love foreplay or a very long makeout session.
Just laying in bed, getting close and sensual, kissing and hands exploring.
I wish I had someone to do that with.

Lazy mornings in bed, or falling over with them in the middle of the day spontaneously, or snuggling in bed late night when there's nothing left to do in the day or whatever.
It's such a sweet, loving way to spend some time.

Sure, a lot of times it'll lead to sex, or I'll want some sex eventually, but the foreplay can always be fun.

I miss having someone to hold in reality.
 
I love foreplay ( the journey) almost more than the orgasm! A man or a woman who enjoys the art of foreplay is an amazing find! I can get lost in the sensuous erotic sexiness of it for hours! I had a play partner who enjoyed it as much as myself. Our sessions usually lasted at least 5 hours which culminated in the most amazing orgasms for both of us.
So tell me your thoughts on the subject!!!:rose:

Love extended foreplay...mutual play...stopping for wine...more play...kissing...touching...more wine...oral teasing...orgasm!
Love Sunday afternoon sex!
 
it doesn't really count as foreplay (ok, not really at all), but I have always thought the 30 or so seconds prior to orgasm were more intensely enjoyable than the orgasm itself, which has more or less led to an edging addiction...
 
How can anything be better than an orgasm? Don't get me wrong. I love foreplay. But an orgasm? OMG.
 
I'd hate to have to pick; prefer to think of it all as one long exciting experience. One without the other just isn't right.
 
I'm down with foreplay because it's pretty much required for most people. Me? Not really a fan. (At least not of foreplay in most senses.) I'm not necessarily in a hurry to cum as quick as possible, but I certainly enjoy sex itself much more than foreplay. I'd rather just take all that extra foreplay time and just have actual sex for longer!
 
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