Forcing wife to watch me fuck another woman

[MaleProtagonist]

I don't understand the popularity of cuckolding and getting off on watching some dude fuck my wife, that just seems wrong. But the opposite of that, making my wife watch me fuck another woman is very hot and turns me on like no tomorrow...but it's a fantasy I never ever see discussed or acted out. Unbelievable!! Can anyone explain why that might be ??,

 

[twister947]

There are better, less traumatic ways to end a marriage.

 

[MaleProtagonist]

Naw Naw Naw it's just a fantasy...I'm not even married. I would not do this to an actual human being I loved. Not that sociopathic.

 

[Firedog78]

This actually is a kink that some women are into. They are called cuckqueens and the women that like to fuck a guy in front of his wife are often referred to as cuckcakes (female equivalent to a bull). You're not alone in having an interest in this kink.

 

[MaleProtagonist]

See though, I struggle to get why women would be into this fantasy at all. It's all about bad male behavior and using women as sex objects and to cause emotional disturbance to the wife. I don't see that as fun as a barrel full of monkeys in the eyes of too many women. I mean that is straight up male fantasy 101. The fact that it survives at all as a niche interest mainly for women truly baffles me.

 

[Firedog78]

I agree, I don't understand the whole cuckold thing either. But, just as there are men that enjoy being cucked, there are women that enjoy it as well. Whether it be for the humiliation of it, or just the erotic thrill of watching someone else get their partner off.

 

[MaleProtagonist]

I agree, I don't understand the whole cuckold thing either. But, just as there are men that enjoy being cucked, there are women that enjoy it as well. Whether it be for the humiliation of it, or just the erotic thrill of watching someone else get their partner off.

That would have to be one generously open-minded and emotionally centered wife. Who is also very focused on her husband's pleasure. I mean, I am sure women like this exist but I don't know which church they hang out at lol

 

[PapaDan]

That would have to be one generously open-minded and emotionally centered wife. Who is also very focused on her husband's pleasure. I mean, I am sure women like this exist but I don't know which church they hang out at lol

Cuckqueen is more common than you think. Women are just more discreet than men. As far as what church they hang out at, you could be sitting next to cuckqueen in church and not know it. Women like sex just as much as men.

 

[MaleProtagonist]

Cuckqueen is more common than you think. Women are just more discreet than men. As far as what church they hang out at, you could be sitting next to cuckqueen in church and not know it. Women like sex just as much as men.

Right right but I still get the sense that this would be a fantasy more of the stereotypically male variety more so than that of the typical married woman. I just don't get the sense that they would be entirely eager about wanting to share their husbands with other skanks . But perhaps my intuition on this is flawed beyond all measure.

 

[PapaDan]

Right right but I still get the sense that this would be a fantasy more of the stereotypically male variety more so than that of the typical married woman. I just don't get the sense that they would be entirely eager about wanting to share their husbands with other skanks . But perhaps my intuition on this is flawed beyond all measure.

A cuck gets an extreme sexual high from watching what he sees as a superior male take his wife. Some women get the same high by watching another woman take her husband.

It's kind of like when you were a kid with a bag full of Halloween candy. You really didn't care about the candy until a bigger boy took it from you, then all you could think about is getting the candy back, and how good it tastes.

You've heard the brain is the biggest sexual organ?

 

[UtilityCurve]

See though, I struggle to get why women would be into this fantasy at all. It's all about bad male behavior and using women as sex objects and to cause emotional disturbance to the wife. I don't see that as fun as a barrel full of monkeys in the eyes of too many women. I mean that is straight up male fantasy 101. The fact that it survives at all as a niche interest mainly for women truly baffles me.

Think of it as a variation on submission.

She is 100% devoted to his pleasure, however he seeks to obtain it. Sometimes it's in her pussy (which she would readily offer if he wanted it), but if he wants to come inside a different woman, her joy is no less, because his isn't.

It's a very big world, with all kinds of people in it. I long ago stopped trying to "figure out" the pleasures of others and settled on accepting there were some practices (fewer and fewer I am proud to say) others enjoyed that I just didn't grok (+1 for the Heinlein reference, than you very much). Instead, I used all that freed-up time and energy to find women that shared my pleasures.

It's not 100% satisfying to abandon the search for understanding, but it's better than puzzling out things I cannot solve.

 

[hulmule]

Humm, sexless marriage !! Maybe I should surprise my wife !! Lmao. Dont think it would fly. But I'm sure there are ones that want to be there and make sure its sex only so it doesn't get emotional. But as we all know, things always turn emotional for one of the parties. In a lot of cases.

 

[Pagirl2play2]

That would have to be one generously open-minded and emotionally centered wife. Who is also very focused on her husband's pleasure. I mean, I am sure women like this exist but I don't know which church they hang out at lol

This fits me to a T as my “kink”....i truly love to see him pleasured.... his face is sooo beautiful to me when he is being blown or gettting off... i never get to to see that when its him and I. I LOVE seeing him pleasured

 

[phil1955]

This fits me to a T as my “kink”....i truly love to see him pleasured.... his face is sooo beautiful to me when he is being blown or gettting off... i never get to to see that when its him and I. I LOVE seeing him pleasured

This is exactly my thing. I am male but I simple love to watch my wife enjoy another man. If you are closely involved, you don't get to see all the fun details. Sitting back and watching her enjoy herself is fantastic. It has noting to do with humiliation but just allowing her to fully enjoy her sexuality.

 

[MaleProtagonist]

Thank you everyone for responding. learned a lot from this thread. My first question ever posted on this forum and appreciate the congenial and temperate discussion. For some reason I was expecting snark & sarcasm so very impressed with the discussion.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

I don't understand the popularity of cuckolding and getting off on watching some dude fuck my wife, that just seems wrong. But the opposite of that, making my wife watch me fuck another woman is very hot and turns me on like no tomorrow...but it's a fantasy I never ever see discussed or acted out. Unbelievable!! Can anyone explain why that might be ??,

I'd rather see mistress dominate the husband and wife.

 

[Pagirl2play2]

This is exactly my thing. I am male but I simple love to watch my wife enjoy another man. If you are closely involved, you don't get to see all the fun details. Sitting back and watching her enjoy herself is fantastic. It has noting to do with humiliation but just allowing her to fully enjoy her sexuality.

Exactly! I truly live watching his pleasure bc of my deep love for him. Hearts are always home and that is true fidelity for us

 

[NightL]

What is your perceived kink here, being watched or the "forcing" thing?

 

[jaF0]

This actually is a kink that some women are into. They are called ... and the women that like to fuck a guy in front of his wife are often referred to as ... (female equivalent to a ...). You're not alone in having an interest in this kink.

How about you just call them people?

 

[screwher]

It only seems like cuckold/hotwife lifestyle is popular because this is a sex site. Only a really minute percentage of men would actually be turned on if their wives got laid by another man. It would be even less for the ladies when it came to her SO with another woman. We beat the odds once when I developed these desires and fantasies of Mrs. Screwher with others. My wife on the other hand would be crushed if I did it.

 

[GuySLut]

My wife snd I have been in the swinging lifestyle for many years now. I do enjoy watching her having a fun mindblowing fuck with a guy.
By the same token she has enjoyed me and a lady getting it on! She told me of a dream she had last night. She said I was fucking our hairdresser in our bed. Apparently she had to grab a toy to finish herself off before she could start her day.

 

[innocntplay]

My wife snd I have been in the swinging lifestyle for many years now. I do enjoy watching her having a fun mindblowing fuck with a guy.
By the same token she has enjoyed me and a lady getting it on! She told me of a dream she had last night. She said I was fucking our hairdresser in our bed. Apparently she had to grab a toy to finish herself off before she could start her day.

I wish my girl fantasized a bit. I think it would improve her foreplay participation and skill.....

Anyway as far as cuck. I would not be interested in force. I do think I would be interested in either. But one at a time. An MMF or MFF. Either order. Our problem would be finding the suitable partner for either event we both agreed on. In previous relationships I enjoyed soft swap and sex in the same room with other couples. But that was mostly find her pussy to lick. Then fucking each other silly after ward. Or visiting on-premise clubs and enjoying the voyeur and exhibitionist built into both of us.

So as it goes in this relationship we will likely never find out.

 

[GuySLut]

I wish my girl fantasized a bit. I think it would improve her foreplay participation and skill.....

Anyway as far as cuck. I would not be interested in force. I do think I would be interested in either. But one at a time. An MMF or MFF. Either order. Our problem would be finding the suitable partner for either event we both agreed on. In previous relationships I enjoyed soft swap and sex in the same room with other couples. But that was mostly find her pussy to lick. Then fucking each other silly after ward. Or visiting on-premise clubs and enjoying the voyeur and exhibitionist built into both of us.

So as it goes in this relationship we will likely never find out.

I know a few women who love to fantasize. But it seems the major have a difficult time admitting it. My wife thinks some women feel society will look down on them. It’s sad really

 

[TitanTits]

Variants

I find that "cuckquean" has a lot of different variants and 'types' just the same as any other fetish does and in the same vein, has people who try to do gatekeeping as to what it is exactly.

As mentioned above, for some it is about humiliation and control from either the cuckcake or husband. In some cases the cuckcake is also dominant to the husband, so you get the aforementioned Mistress controlling a couple dynamic. For some is is about the husband, where he is in control of both women.

The question of course is whether this is a healthy kink and I think as long as everyone is on board, it's great, if not - it's a disaster. "Forcing" the wife to watch and/or cheating on the wife without her knowledge is not OK in my book, unless she is into being 'forced' to do so. There are a lot of ways to cross the non-consenual line. Same goes for involving the second woman without her knowledge.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that there are many people and many sub-variants of this kink and despite the overwhelming popularity of cuckold and cheating porn there is a space for this kink that many people have found very enjoyable.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I don't understand the popularity of cuckolding and getting off on watching some dude fuck my wife, that just seems wrong. But the opposite of that, making my wife watch me fuck another woman is very hot and turns me on like no tomorrow...but it's a fantasy I never ever see discussed or acted out. Unbelievable!! Can anyone explain why that might be ??,

We have never had to force each other to watch us when we have sex with others. We both love sex with anyone although I prefer men to women and she prefers women to men.