Forced swallowing

[owned_whore]

I'm with you Wenchie.

I love to swallow too.


It's not so much force that appeals to me...it's the control.

The hands firmly holding my head or grabbing handfuls of hair and the gruff voice that tells me to make sure I don't spill any.


......like I would!

This is me too. I don't need to be forced but I like it to be forceful.

 

[graceanne]

B-b-but...no frosting? Holy shit, you are one sadistic mother fucker.

Exactly!

 

[MisterSir]

When I hear that I can't help but wonder what she does with it then.

"I don't swallow"

"Ok... turn around then"

Seriously, its such a cheep thrill, I just want my cum inside you. You could make my whole day with this stupid little act and you say no.
WTF

Next time you get a cupcake, no frosting!

Hard limit! Hard limit!

 

[Netzach]

When I hear that I can't help but wonder what she does with it then.

Snowball.

 

[Shankara20]

Snowball.

LMFAO

 

[SirLeo]

No Problem

I would much rather see her with My cum splashed all over her face anyway! I guess that's frosting.......

 

[XsnowbunnyX]

Is it weird that this thread made me laugh? Like, a lot?

 

[iansearchof]

Once in a while, I meet a girl who mentions something like "I don't like to swallow."

Okay, I translate this as:
"Primalex, when you are about to cum, you have to grab her head and make sure she doesn't escape."

...But for some reason those girls are always upset after I forced them to swallow my cum. They cry "I told you I don't like to swallow!" and they just don't get my response:"Yes, of course sweetie, this is why I had to force you."
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Not having been around for some time, perhaps I'm missing something; if so, I apologize.

Nonconsensual sex is not sex, and it is criminal. Further, adolescent myth notwithstanding, consent can be withdrawn at any time. In this situation, the women intended a definite boundary, swallowing, that was not to be crossed.

Absent clear understandings not apparent here, forcing another to one's will is wrong, dangerous and generally susceptible to prosecution.

There are other considerations. You were vulnerable; these women had teeth presumably. They also have people who care for them, so you might have been otherwise injured.

Given the women who mentioned enjoying being forced, I write reluctantly, but this kept me awake. However, the women posting here are not the women described initially.

Apropos of precious little, I empathize with the sentiment. Having a woman jump up to go spit always made me feel as though I'd defiled her.

 

[Cattypuss]

This whole "I don't like the taste so I'm going to hold it in my mouth where my taste buds are for several seconds while I find somewhere to spit" thing has always confused me.

Swallow it instantly, and it spends much less time in contact with your tasting apparatus.

 

[CutieMouse]

Once in a while, I meet a girl who mentions something like "I don't like to swallow."

Okay, I translate this as:
"Primalex, when you are about to cum, you have to grab her head and make sure she doesn't escape."

...But for some reason those girls are always upset after I forced them to swallow my cum. They cry "I told you I don't like to swallow!" and they just don't get my response:"Yes, of course sweetie, this is why I had to force you."

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Not having been around for some time, perhaps I'm missing something; if so, I apologize.

Nonconsensual sex is not sex, and it is criminal. Further, adolescent myth notwithstanding, consent can be withdrawn at any time. In this situation, the women intended a definite boundary, swallowing, that was not to be crossed.

Absent clear understandings not apparent here, forcing another to one's will is wrong, dangerous and generally susceptible to prosecution.

There are other considerations. You were vulnerable; these women had teeth presumably. They also have people who care for them, so you might have been otherwise injured.

Given the women who mentioned enjoying being forced, I write reluctantly, but this kept me awake. However, the women posting here are not the women described initially.

Apropos of precious little, I empathize with the sentiment. Having a woman jump up to go spit always made me feel as though I'd defiled her.

The reason my initial answer was "yes", and nothing more, is because I view "I don't like to swallow" as being different from "I won't swallow."

If a woman said "I want to blow you, but I don't/won't swallow" and the man forced her to - yes, I'd understand the upsettedness/feelings of violation/etc. But given the scenario presented by Primalex, I gotta say yeah, weird.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

*scratches his chin*

Why would I want to see you again if you don't swallow anyway?

Why would you see her again? I thought women you fuck mean "something" to you, but probably not. lol

Oh well we are all different.

 

[Primalex]

forcing another to one's will is wrong, dangerous and

fun

generally susceptible to prosecution.

This is why I pay my legal protection and expenses insurance regularly.

You were vulnerable; these women had teeth presumably.

This is the funny thing about the cerebellum. It doesn't pick the most efficient solution, it picks the one which seems to be the fastest. This is why people drown in counter currents and vortices.

They also have people who care for them, so you might have been otherwise injured.

"Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for I'm the baddest motherfucker in the valley."

 

[rida]

In my younger days, I never felt the need to say anything upfront about swallowing or not. The fact was that I would have if I could, but most often than not the gag reflex was too strong, so I just spat it out in a Kleenex.

Nowadays since it is more often than not shoot out deep, it just goes down. The gag reflex is still strong, but can be managed most of the time.

That being said, forced swallowing: having my head kept in place is hot. Unless, it is one of those strong gag reflex days, and than it is dangerous as I could end up throwing up all over ...

And I too tend to see a difference between "I do not like to swallow"= soft limit and "I do not swallow"= hard limit. And if swallowing is on the must-do list of the PYL, than I do not see anything wrong with pushing that soft limit away as soon as possible: the earlier you can see if you are compatible, the better.

 

[Netzach]

That being said, forced swallowing: having my head kept in place is hot. Unless, it is one of those strong gag reflex days, and than it is dangerous as I could end up throwing up all over ...

The OP strikes me as "a little vomit on my dick is just the cross I'd bear" type. But it seems to me like if you are worried about this occupational hazard, force and oral are too big a sandbox for you, kid.

 

[rida]

The OP strikes me as "a little vomit on my dick is just the cross I'd bear" type. But it seems to me like if you are worried about this occupational hazard, force and oral are too big a sandbox for you, kid.

Good point.

But I also see a difference between "a little" and "sprayed all over" ...
so I'd say that choosing an easily cleanable surface/area for such play is a good idea.

 

[Netzach]

Good point.

But I also see a difference between "a little" and "sprayed all over" ...
so I'd say that choosing an easily cleanable surface/area for such play is a good idea.

Does everyone think those shiny rubber pants are just to look hot in?

 

[Primalex]

Why would you see her again? I thought women you fuck mean "something" to you, but probably not. lol

Oh well we are all different.

Thinking about it... the women that "mean something" to me are either married with me or I didn't fuck them (irl).

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Thinking about it... the women that "mean something" to me are either married with me or I didn't fuck them (irl).

ok

 

[JMohegan]

The reason my initial answer was "yes", and nothing more, is because I view "I don't like to swallow" as being different from "I won't swallow."

If a woman said "I want to blow you, but I don't/won't swallow" and the man forced her to - yes, I'd understand the upsettedness/feelings of violation/etc. But given the scenario presented by Primalex, I gotta say yeah, weird.

As a practical matter, the problem with parsing of words is that a genuinely pissed off female is unlikely to give you a pass on the technicality.

Of course, there are far bigger risks one could take. If two people are just at the 1st blowjob stage, it's not like the guy's jeopardizing a relationship in which he's already made significant investment.

 

[Netzach]

As a practical matter, the problem with parsing of words is that a genuinely pissed off female is unlikely to give you a pass on the technicality.

Of course, there are far bigger risks one could take. If two people are just at the 1st blowjob stage, it's not like the guy's jeopardizing a relationship in which he's already made significant investment.

Proof that, no, no I still have girl brain. My reaction to this.

You know, I'm kind of cerebral and I'll fuck unemotionally about my fucking, but believe me, I don't consider the "first blowjob stage" to be one in which my opinion and desires aren't under heavy fucking consideration.

Sometimes I wonder if Dominant = expects not to be treated like shit.

 

[JMohegan]

Proof that, no, no I still have girl brain. My reaction to this.

You know, I'm kind of cerebral and I'll fuck unemotionally about my fucking, but believe me, I don't consider the "first blowjob stage" to be one in which my opinion and desires aren't under heavy fucking consideration.

Sometimes I wonder if Dominant = expects not to be treated like shit.

A woman's opinion and desires are "under heavy fucking consideration" if I am heavily interested in pursuing and strengthening the connection.

Otherwise, it's just casual sex.

 

[Netzach]

A woman's opinion and desires are "under heavy fucking consideration" if I am heavily interested in pursuing and strengthening the connection.

Otherwise, it's just casual sex.

That's what I don't get.

Casual sex to me isn't "borderline sociopathically callous" sex. It's a kind of cooperative endeavor unless it's explicitly not.

If someone says "I hate sushi" I don't think "let's have sushi" until I feel like it's worth making a point. If it's casual, it's just that. No BFD.

It appears to be with most men, that casual carries a kind of contempt.

 

[graceanne]

Good point.

But I also see a difference between "a little" and "sprayed all over" ...
so I'd say that choosing an easily cleanable surface/area for such play is a good idea.

This is why, if K wants to cum in my mouth, he first asks 'how's your stomach today?', cause if I'm not feeling well, it won't stay down.

 

[00Syd]

It appears to be with most men, that casual carries a kind of contempt.

That had always been my impression, before my first casual encounter with Seb, anyway.

 

[JMohegan]

That's what I don't get.

Casual sex to me isn't "borderline sociopathically callous" sex. It's a kind of cooperative endeavor unless it's explicitly not.

If someone says "I hate sushi" I don't think "let's have sushi" until I feel like it's worth making a point. If it's casual, it's just that. No BFD.

It appears to be with most men, that casual carries a kind of contempt.

Contempt isn't the right word for it. Not for me, anyway.

Casual sex is more like a game. Fine sport! A conquest thing. The more difficult the challenge, the sweeter the victory.

"I don't like to swallow" translates in my head as a challenge, plain and simple. My immediate first thought has always been: "Ohhh, but I bet I can get her to do it."

My M.O. differs from the OP's, because I see no victory in grabbing and forcing the head. Of course, there's a time and place in which physical force is extremely hot. But in conquest terms, there's really nothing sweeter than the swallow she forces herself to take.