Forced sex and verbal abuse/humiliation

[gracetk]

I dint know if my choice of words are correct but this is good as it gets with my limited list of vocabulary.
Forced sex:
Maybe due to my asian bacground I'm naturally obedient woman.i know I should be obedient to only my husband but when out comes to sex, I'm just obedient.because I'm in the business fields which involves a lot of interaction with my clients and my income depends on the commissions, I get a lot of sex offer from my clients which I accept time to time despite the fact that I'm married. It's turn on for me when I have no choice but to give myself to men.
Verbal abuse:
Slut, whore,pussy,cunt... choice of words that makes me horny when men refers me as.
Humiliation:
When men makes me to do sexual things that I'll not do myself. Such as wearing a vert short skirt without underwear to the public.

I was raped couple times, one involves multiple men, I was abused and humiliated by them but st the same time I had greatest orgasm...

Just thinking out loud...

 

[khmerboy]

I'm Asian male I think it hot to have a rape fantasy. I just wish my wife would allowed me to have another do the raping while I watch then join in on the rape. My wife love it when I call her a whore, slut and bitch.

 

[gracetk]

Your wife must be happy to have such a understanding husband. My husband erl never talk to me like that nor infesting.

 

[hoodooman]

being forced and verbally humiliated

It's an ever present fantasy for me...I've worked it out with paid domme's and enjoyed it very much...

I was doing triathlons in so cal..body tight, shaved...blond hair...she "forced" me into looking like a whore...walked me on a leash to the big picture window in her apartment...big dildo bobbing from her crotch...

"bend over slut, so everyone can see your pussy ass take my big cock" she said with obvious enjoyment...

I remember wanting to experience such things from the time i was very young but never acted on it until my early twenties...it's still a big secret...well...smile...except for here..

I like to be exposed in public like that (doubtful anyone could have made out what was really happening) and to see myself reflected in a mirror...combine the mind blowing sensations of taking a big cock, the visual scene and really good verbal humiliation and I'm in prime time...

i wanna do it again..

 

[gracetk]

Idea is very hot. But if you pay to do it.. Then you get the sense of staged.. I think it's hot when out happens naturally...

 

[Diana1488]

I am glad you were raped, Grace. I get really turned on by the thought of other women being abused. I would love to actually see a real rape.

 

[LindsayRae]

Wow. Just wow.

 

[Fmature2play]

I am glad you were raped, Grace. I get really turned on by the thought of other women being abused. I would love to actually see a real rape.

Ok this subject is really starting to freak me the hell out. Diana you may want to see a fantasy rape taking place involving a woman that knows she is really safe and is ENJOYING it but I cannot imagine anyone that has a soul would actually want to see a real honest to goodness rape.

 

[gracetk]

I am glad you were raped, Grace. I get really turned on by the thought of other women being abused. I would love to actually see a real rape.

Uhhhh.... Wrong thread????
And yes I admitted that I did have orgasm. But I don't know if it's something that someone can be glad about...
Hmmmmmmm

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am glad you were raped, Grace. I get really turned on by the thought of other women being abused. I would love to actually see a real rape.

You might want to never admit that in public because it makes you sound like a narcissistic pathological freak who should be locked up for the good of everyone around you.

And we wouldn't want that, would we.

 

[Fmature2play]

*note to self* must try harder to play nice.

 

[hoodooman]

yeah, staged

It all seems pretend if it's consensual...what happened to Iraqi prisoners is enough to turn one's stomach....but many might enjoy the drama in pretend world, the way little kids play monsters for fun...

I was shy the first few times, depending on my domme to guess my favorite fantasy. She didn't have ESP so one day I decided to articulate my fantasy and whispered to her "I want to be violated, cunted, abused and degraded".

My slender, well muscled boy body was dressed in torn fishnets, panties, a little pleated mini, see through blouse, lacy bra, wig, heels and slutty make-up. When I was allowed to see myself in the mirror my mind took a moment to understand that I was looking at myself.

My cock and balls had been pulled back and up between my legs. When my domme pulled my panties down I looked like a real girl. She often made me watch her put the strap-on on while I bent over, ass exposed.

She would stare at me as she lubed the cock, stroking it with both hands and telling me she is going to bring in friends to watch and participate. I was hoping she would, but alas, it was just for dramatic effect.

I loved the vigorous fucking, her hips pounding my girly ass and hearing things like "You like cock better than most girls, don't you, you little slut"

I begged to swallow a man's cum, to be gang banged and more but that was just an effect of the incredible arousal. Safety was always the limits of our play but I was allowed to be as naughty with her as I could be.

 

[LindsayRae]

*note to self* must try harder to play nice.

You're not the resident meant cunt, it seems I am. It's not totally my fault if I can't handle stupid!

 

[Zoe_69]

this is something I can relate to

Hi all,

I have a major erotic rape fantasy. I say erotic rape as I mean fantasy. The real thing would be too horrible to imagine. I often fantasise about being forced by strange men. I love my husband and would not want to cheat on him, but that doesn't mean I don't have private fantasies of having sex with other men.

I guess the fantasy of being raped would mean I wasn't actually cheating on him because I did not want it to happen. Although secretly I was loving it and unable to prevent my body from responding to his forced sex.

I have chatted to a few guys here and been lucky enough to role play my fantasies and for that I am really grateful. But the actual idea of being raped for real is a total nightmare. Rape in rl is a crime and an act of hatred. Erotic rape fantasies are not uncommon for many of women and I for one am very thankful to some lit members for allowing me to explore mine safely.

I hope this makes sense.

Zoe

 

[hoodooman]

uh...rape...no

A woman friend told me of her rape experience...it was an awful thing for her...made her angry (and more) to remember and made me ashamed for the male gender...

But....she liked me (in part) because of my sexual ambivalence and androgynous appearance. I had never sucked a cock at that time and didn't admit to anyone that I might be willing.

Looking back I don't think it was a big surprise that I eventually began to have sex with masculine men. Anyhoo...she told me that she wanted to see a man suck her husbands cock. I knew she meant me but I pretended not to.

I wish I had taken the plunge at that time. I was pretty sure her desire to see me suck her husbands cock had something to do with her traumatic experience. If she had only ordered or forced me she could have had her fantasy fulfilled.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

A Question?

This thread brings a question to mind. I do understand that brutal rape by a stranger, perhaps at knifepoint would be dangerous and traumatic for any woman, but not all rape is so dangerous. Let me ask a question under this scenario: If you had went to a neighbor’s house to visit a friend, and found that she was not at home, and only her husband was there. Her husband is a man whom you admire and feel safe with, knowing that he would never physically harm you. And perhaps during friendly conversation, he forces you to the bedroom and rapes you. If would be rape because you did not consent to having sex. The rape is not particularly brutal, and you are not physically harmed, but he is very forceful and dominating. The question is: To you as a woman, would this be traumatic, or would it be erotic?

I’m not looking for any particular answer, and as many women can answer as they like.

 

[Stella_Omega]

This page has some of the best responses! people who know the difference between real life and fantasy turn me the fuck on.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Oh, I spoke too soon.

This thread brings a question to mind. I do understand that brutal rape by a stranger, perhaps at knifepoint would be dangerous and traumatic for any woman, but not all rape is so dangerous. Let me ask a question under this scenario: If you had went to a neighbor’s house to visit a friend, and found that she was not at home, and only her husband was there. Her husband is a man whom you admire and feel safe with, knowing that he would never physically harm you. And perhaps during friendly conversation, he forces you to the bedroom and rapes you. If would be rape because you did not consent to having sex. The rape is not particularly brutal, and you are not physically harmed, but he is very forceful and dominating. The question is: To you as a woman, would this be traumatic, or would it be erotic?

I’m not looking for any particular answer, and as many women can answer as they like.

Hmm.

Yes, it would be traumatic. And I am not going to play the "it's you ladies but its not me" game.

I'm going to call my hypothetical attacker "you."

You would be forcefully imposing your fuckasswad self on someone who does not want you there, who never wanted you there who never will want you there.

Gentle? You would probably have to tear my thigh ligaments to force me to open my legs. I would walk in pain from that damage, the rest of my life.

I would be crying the entire time, out of rage, fear, fury, and the misery of not having a knife in my hand with which to cut your fucking stomach open. I would make damn sure that this gentle rape was anything but.

The worst case would be that you were able to accomplish my rape without huge damage to me or yourself.

I would never again trust or respect you and I would tell your wife and I damn well would press charges. I can only hope that a jury believes me since it's common belief that without visible evidence, a rape just isn't that bad.

Men go free for that. Women live with the damage.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Oh, I spoke too soon.
Hmm.

Yes, it would be traumatic. And I am not going to play the "it's you ladies but its not me" game.

I'm going to call my hypothetical attacker "you."

You would be forcefully imposing your fuckasswad self on someone who does not want you there, who never wanted you there who never will want you there.

Gentle? You would probably have to tear my thigh ligaments to force me to open my legs. I would walk in pain from that damage, the rest of my life.

I would be crying the entire time, out of rage, fear, fury, and the misery of not having a knife in my hand with which to cut your fucking stomach open. I would make damn sure that this gentle rape was anything but.

The worst case would be that you were able to accomplish my rape without huge damage to me or yourself.

I would never again trust or respect you and I would tell your wife and I damn well would press charges. I can only hope that a jury believes me since it's common belief that without visible evidence, a rape just isn't that bad.

Men go free for that. Women live with the damage.

No one can say that Stella doesn't have an opinion. And let's not call the hypothetical attacker "me". It is just a question; not a political agenda.

 

[LindsayRae]

The question is: To you as a woman, would this be traumatic, or would it be erotic?

The fucker would be in prison. And probably divorced after the friend was told.

 

[Stella_Omega]

No one can say that Stella doesn't have an opinion. And let's not call the hypothetical attacker "me". It is just a question; not a political agenda.

If you ask me to imagine myself being raped in a kindly way by a man I trusted, I would require that you think about being the man that experiences the consequences of raping, in a kindly way, a woman who trusted you.

Goose and gander after all.

I mean seriously-- he says: "I'm going to fuck you" and she says no, and he says "I'm not going to hurt you but I AM going to fuck you."

Do you think at that point she believes him when he says he isn't going to hurt her? If she does believe he would never hurt her, she gets up and leaves the room and the house. If he does rape her, it's because she is too afraid to resist. Which means she is afraid of him.

Your scenario is kind of like only being run over a little bit by a truck. Is that okay? Is that better than being run over a lot more?

Except isit isn't at all like being run over by a truck, because trucks don't force their will on you when they hit you, nobody calls you a whore or asks if you secretly wanted it or what you were doing on that sidewalk didn't you think that the truck might hit you?

Being raped by someone you knew and trusted could call your entire world into question. If you trusted that fuckhole so wrongly, who else have you trusted wrongly? Is something wrong with YOU that you would be that stupid?

This is not the stuff of which fun is made of in real life, sweets.

Fantasy, you betcha. But please be aware of the pitfalls if you try enacting these fantasies.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

This is not the stuff of which fun is made of in real life, sweets.

Fantasy, you betcha. But please be aware of the pitfalls if you try enacting these fantasies.

Like I said, it's just a question, not a political agenda. Both you and Lindsey have made your point over, and over and over until some people, (particularly me), are getting sick of hearing it.

Let's move on and let other people give their opinion. Particularly, I would like to hear the original poster's and Diana1488's opinion, unless you have intimidated them to the point they won't post any more.

 

[LindsayRae]

In a public forum, anyone who happens to be a member there can post to any content they wish. Even you. That's life. Place me on ignore.

On a different note, in the Playground there's a bet going on about "Diana's" gender. Or whether or not she received AIDS in her London gang bang last weekend.

 

[SlapNTickle4Me]

Like I said, it's just a question, not a political agenda. Both you and Lindsey have made your point over, and over and over until some people, (particularly me), are getting sick of hearing it.

Let's move on and let other people give their opinion. Particularly, I would like to hear the original poster's and Diana1488's opinion, unless you have intimidated them to the point they won't post any more.

Okay Nasty, here is another opinion.

While I have had rape fantasies, they are just that fantasies. While there are plenty of my fantasies I would love to experience in real life being raped by someone I know or don't know it NOT one of them.

NO means NO!!! I don't' give a rats ass if you know me or not, being forcibly taken equates to rape and if it is someone I know that makes it that much worse. Self doubt, trust issues, post traumatic stress... all would eventually surface because some selfish prick trying to get his rocks off couldn't keep his cock in his pants.

FYI, I am a submissive female but my submission is a gift, not something to be ripped away from me. So don't think I have this opinion is because I am a strong willed women, it is because I am a women period, and should ALWAYS be given a choice on who fucks me and who doesn't.

Anyone else have an opinion to offer up to Nasty?

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Okay Nasty, here is another opinion.

While I have had rape fantasies, they are just that fantasies. While there are plenty of my fantasies I would love to experience in real life being raped by someone I know or don't know it NOT one of them.

NO means NO!!! I don't' give a rats ass if you know me or not, being forcibly taken equates to rape and if it is someone I know that makes it that much worse. Self doubt, trust issues, post traumatic stress... all would eventually surface because some selfish prick trying to get his rocks off couldn't keep his cock in his pants.

FYI, I am a submissive female but my submission is a gift, not something to be ripped away from me. So don't think I have this opinion is because I am a strong willed women, it is because I am a women period, and should ALWAYS be given a choice on who fucks me and who doesn't.

Anyone else have an opinion to offer up to Nasty?

I guess part of what I am wondering is how someone can have a consensual rape fantasy when by definition rape is not consensual.

Another thought that comes to mind is a when a young girl has sex for the first time, she will sometimes say no because she is scared, even though she wants to make love to her boyfriend. And even though she said no initially, (technically making it rape), after they make love, she is glad it happened.

I understand that the term "no means no" is politically correct, but in the real world, no does not always mean no. If no was actually an unambiguous NO in every case, some women would never have sex just because of the emotional conflicts a woman experiences her first time.

I guess what I am asking is to look into your mind as a woman and explain when a woman says: “I’m saying no, but what I really want is for you to make me do what I to do”.