Forced Orgasm?

[bdsm_luver]

I've never quite understood this.
Why is it considered torture?
For me, my master always brings me to the edge and then makes me beg to cum.
Then doesn't let me.
This turns me on more then anything.
Someone explain please?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I can't comment on more than my own experience but I'm multiply orgasmic and find it very easy to cum. Being forced to cum multiple times in succession can make me tortuously hypersensitive and the more frequent climaxes are more teasing and less satisfying than one with a bit of build up. I'm not sure if that's what you mean by the term but that's orgasm torture as I've experienced it.

 

[A_Kefka]

I haven't done this really, but I can see how it woudl be somewhat torturous. I have had oral where there was so much focus on sensative areas that it was something of a sensory overload that was unpleasant. and right after I cum the head of my pinis can't stand to be touched, same effect. So trying to make me go again right away woudl be unpleasant. Its not pain really, but still can't stand it.

 

[ihavehope444]

It's definitely an issue of sensory overload for me. Not to mention exhaustion.

There is the fact that you get to come again--never a bad thing. But if you're forced to do it over and over while you're still sensitive, the build up can either be almost painful all the way up to and during your orgasm, or like VelvetDarkness mentioned, it may not be a very powerful or satisfying orgasm--even though you had to work like hell to get there.

Again, sort of half torture, half not. Depends on what you're after while you're doing it....

 

[bdsm_luver]

Alright. I suppose, I could have asked to try it out, and see for myself.
It turns me on now, thinking about it.

Thank you.

 

[sub_sumed]

i find orgasm hard to achieve, so i'm not sure how something like this would work with me

 

[The_PG]

I think one aspect you might be overlooking is the fact that "Forced Orgasms" are usually fantasized as coming from rape more then actual bondage. Forcing an orgasm (to me) is about taking a woman and making her cum against her will, sometimes repeatedly. Most often it's associated with rape, torture, or some other form of dungeon play, but in fantasy again it's usually one person who doesn't know the other forcing them to achieve climax in a situation where that person is either uncomfortable or doesn't want to cum.

For instance, in my opinion the following are totally a different:

In a BDSM scenario where a dom and sub know each other and have been together, when they talk about forcing orgasms it's really more about brutal overwhelming of the senses (sensory override); whether that be the clitoris, cock, pussy, or nipples or some other area that's for each to figure out.

Whereas in a non-BDSM scenario (and more often then not a FICTIONAL scenario) a dom will find random prey on the street, kidnap them, and force them to some form of pleasure even though their prey is unwilling to orgasm. Now sometimes they might know each other, and a dom might force his sub to do something in the open, or in a way s/he is not used to, to spark new feelings of embarrassment or just entirely new feelings of pleasure from being so exposed.

So in any case, it's really all about how you look at it.

As I've been saying there are not many real scenarios where my fictional rape forced orgasm occurs. But there are PLENTY of sensory override clips available on the internet. Men getting stroked after orgasm, women being drilled by mechanical cocks or their clits being vibbed endlessly. All good stuff.

Hope that helped.

 

[lk70]

Those are good distinctions The_PG. I hadn't really thought of it, but you're right. Of course I've had fantasies of being forced to do something humiliating or whatever and climaxing in spite of myself, but it doesn't seem like that could actually work. Kind of reserved for fantasy only.

But being forced to orgasm over and over, when exhausted and crazy sensitive- that's how I usually think of the term.

 

[The_PG]

Thanks ik,

I looked back and it seems I may not have answered the questions really...

Forced Orgasms
I've never quite understood this.
Why is it considered torture?

It's considered torture because basically because of the sensory override situation that Velvet, Kefka, and Hope all explained. I'll explain further below.

For me, my master always brings me to the edge and then makes me beg to cum.
Then doesn't let me.
This turns me on more then anything.
Someone explain please?

That is actually something completely different from the Forced Orgasm, I don't like putting really crazy sounding terms on everything, but to distinguish it's necessary I believe. What you describe here is actually teasing, maybe "torture teasing" sounds better. He's waiting for you to get so turned on you'll say or do anything to climax, that is always a lot of fun.

Here is an idea, imagine if I, out of nowhere, show up your front door. You don't know who I am at all, but I know you are a sub and that's about it. I tell you simply that I'm here to make you orgasm. What is your reaction going to be when i tie you down, and force you to feel pleasure? That is the "rape" side of the forced orgasm.

The sensory overload is the other one that the others explained perfectly, and can be just as much fun. Each to their own. Hope this all helps.

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Others have already said what I was going to state that after orgasm, one becomes far more sensitive. Hyper sensitive as it were and makes tactile play that much more intense. Natasha and I are into tickle torture and after orgasm, when I am the Lee, (Natasha does that to me on purpose to make me more sensitive) I am OFF THE SCALE Hyper Ticklish...I go insane, laughing and screaming hysterically.
In other play it would be the same only you would react accordingly to what tactile play you are into at the time.
Thus, forced orgasm can certainly be torture inducing.
I know Natasha is the same when she is my.......ahem......victim.

That can be a good thing.....

Sinisterly,

Boris

 

[SpencerAlanMacLeod]

I won’t go into real (non-consenting) forced orgasms except to say they aren’t fun.

Forced orgasms that are of the ‘fun’ variety are another matter entirely.
For me, the difference is safe, sane and consenting behaviour.
Or as Nancy Friday wrote, “Oh, you mustn’t…Here, let me help you.”

I have written a lot of my fantasies with this concept in mind.
Not to be too much of a shameless self-promoter:

As a bottom, 'Moving Day' (based on a real life experience):

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=315274


As a top, Unrestricted Denial (based on a conglomeration of experiences):

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=336922

 

[SpencerAlanMacLeod]

L.O.L.!

Sorry, only 'Moving Day' is about a forced orgasm.

The other is about orgasm denial(...Teach me to type with one hand and play with the other...)

 

[unknooown]

i very much enjoy doing this to my girl. for us it's about the sensory overload - multiple orgasms are very painful for her.

another reason i force her to orgasm during and before sex is because i know that takes some of the pleasure away from her while i fuck her. it makes it more painful, especially during missionary when my pelvis is repeatedly hitting her clit.

and, as others have said, it takes the pressure off of her.

 

[Kelli_Kanyon]

Yes

I use forced orgasm on my hubby everyday to keep him inline. It is actually the only sex i give him, due to it wearing him out so well heheheheh.

I can keep him on the edge for over 2 hours when i really try, it is fun watching him squirm and beg to cum as i pound him harder and harder until he just can't take it anymore

 

[unknooown]

the last minute or so provides a good example of the appeal of forced continuous or multiple orgasms. my only gripe is that she's not a beggar or screamer.

http://www.redtube.com/2837

 

[The_PG]

If any bondage nut hasn't seen that video... Then they are not into bondage.

 

[kitten_candy]

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=23667538&postcount=20

this was from RJMaster in 2007.

i remember enjoying it then.

it's worth a trip down forced-orgasm memory lane.

 

[orlandito69]

If any bondage nut hasn't seen that video... Then they are not into bondage.

Yeah, that is sooo hot...

To me, it's not really torture, but you'd better be tied!

 

[unknooown]

If any bondage nut hasn't seen that video... Then they are not into bondage.

i'm pretty new to the internet, but it seems i still have a number of wonderful things to come across.

thanks to that video, my girl and i had a pretty great afternoon.

 

[The_PG]

I suppose some people don't surf enough, here are some other greats:

Sarah Blake - Forced Orgasms
From hogtied, a great sight that I can't convince myself to spend money on, especially with all the free crap out there.

Tied and Forced
One of my favorites. Definitely looks forced, and she is very sexy.

BDSM In a Bar
This actually has a really good one halfway in. She just collapses.

The "G" spot video
While this is classically used to show squirting/G-spot stuff, this is also a pretty good video of over stimulation. The orgasm just keeps on going.

For the ladies:

Strokella Handjob
Talk about sensory overload...

Molly Mae Handjob
Ditto...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

The "G" spot video
While this is classically used to show squirting/G-spot stuff, this is also a pretty good video of over stimulation. The orgasm just keeps on going.

Indeed.

I love the way she just keeps giggling towards the end... I know that feeling, but not THAT well.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Got a little overexcited and doubled up.

Disregard.



Yes, despite the stupid amount of time between... caught bad, bad lag. Anyway.

 

[SatinPaws]

Indeed.

I love the way she just keeps giggling towards the end... I know that feeling, but not THAT well.

this video is outrageously amazing!

 

[unknooown]

those videos were great, thanks. i especially liked the sarah blake one.

unfortunately my girlfriend always wriggles free eventually, but i would really like the opportunity to do this to her for more than just a couple minutes at a time. perhaps i'm too easy on her.

 

[The_PG]

Indeed.

I love the way she just keeps giggling towards the end... I know that feeling, but not THAT well.

Mhmm, those giggles are what ball gags are for.