This is why I was reluctant to set up my account after my Dad's passing. He loved Lit, but I don't like people criticizing other people's life styles. I was never forced or abused nor was my daughter, and we were both of legal age and perfectly able to willingly make our own decisions about who we had children with. There have been no genetic birth defects either.
Child abuse isn't a "lifestyle". It's a crime. You and your daughter weren't forced, but you were likely groomed throughout your life to be receptive to the eventual sexual advances. It's really tragic how the abuse passes from generation to generation.
I'm sorry if you don't like to hear that, but sometimes hard truths need to be spoken.