For submissives...The absolute worst punishment

[tythisredheadup]

With all this talk of punishment lately, what is the worst punishment for you? It may be physical or mental. If this has been discussed before, I apologize.

I will tell mine later.

 

[snowy ciara]

Physical punishment seems a little pointless for someone like me. WD mentioned making KC do pilates over a cam once. Someone else metnioned running laps and doing calisthenics once. Most likely it's due to my mindset, but that sort of thing doesn't really make me feel punished. And if you're into pain, does corporal punishment really punish? Think not! (I am not, of course talking about scene type punishments, I'm talking day to day infractions of some sort. Like not doing the dishes or insulting the PYL's boss.)

In my case.. Take away the computer or walkman for a while. Make me do ten pages of calculus or lines. Heck, if a PYL really wanted me to feel horrible, they'd not let me go to the Bear (popular hangout for athletes at my U) after a game! Grounding me, sort of.

 

[alonelygal]

Mine is mental. i can take a physical punishment, no problem. It will hurt as much as He means it to, and it will be over once the initial pain and the after affects wear off. i've always been able to handle physical pain much easier than emotional or mental pain.

The absolute worst punishment for me is to be ignored. To know that this would be time for He and i to be together, but that because of something i did wrong or that disappointed Him, that time is taken away. It hurts more and has a stronger effect on me than any physical punishment i can think of. Even if He tells me ahead of time why it's being done and for how long, it's still the worst form of punishment for me.

j.

 

[sweet4poison]

the worst punishment

is when he does not touch or talk to me. To be ignored by my master... is my own personal hell.

 

[iruser]

worse punishement

Worse actual punishment

Mistress sent me to the dollar store and pharmacy.

At the dollar store in the craft section I was instructed to buy feathers.

In the pharmacy I was instructed to buy tampons.

That night with the tampon firmly inserted inside my bum, she then added the feathers to my bum.

I was a chicken for the next hour for both her amusement and delight.

My crime? I did not finish all my supper which included chicken that she had prepared for me.

Worse fantasy punishment

Catering and serving at a ladies only party. Each lady being given the opportunity it play truth of consequences. Of course the ladies have made up the consequences, and they are rather humiliating and painful. Unfortunately sometimes the truth hurts.

Question - iruser - would you like to lick my ass while Ms. X whips your behing. The truth of couse. They then oblige me.

The ladies vote to see if they think I lied if I say no. If I lied, then the consequence, being used as the slave toilet by the questioner.

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: the worst punishment

is when he does not touch or talk to me. To be ignored by my master... is my own personal hell.

I am agreeing. Detachment, silence, etc... I would rather suffer the physical pain of almost anything than to suffer his silence and being shut out as though I no longer existed for whatever period of time he deemed necessary or appropriate.

belle

 

[WriterDom]

good thread

 

[meatflower]

the withholding of affection.

 

[Kajira Callista]

being ignored.

 

[graceanne]

the silent treatment. (am I noticing a theme here?)

 

[Hajar]

Yes Grace you are.
I agree withholding, physical contact and ignoring me.
He sends me to the corner and leaves me there, acts like he's forgotten me, it's the most painful treatment to me.

He knows that I will handle the pain, infact I've come to enjoy it, but ignoring me it's horrid

 

[kitty4ever]

I'd also have to agree with the being ignored/avoided crowd.

 

[Technodivinitas]

I once confessed-

that I had been faking orgasms. He was LI-VID! I was crushed at how much that upset him, and I told him I'd take any punishment at all that he felt was appropriate. He pondered it for a while, then informed me that he would TELL me when the punishment was over- until then, I was essentially in the box, so to speak.

First, he stripped off my collar, and denied me eye-contact. Then he told me that I had disgraced the name he'd given me, so he stripped that from me as well. He put me on the floor, (naked, of course,) and told me that I was not to rise above the level of his knee. He told me that until he said otherwise, I was less than furniture. I barely even existed as far as he was concerned. I took that for about two hours, then had to safeword, in near-hysterical tears. He conceded then to touch me, and to acknowledge me by using me, first as a footstool, then later, as an ashtray- and you wouldn't believe how grateful I was, just for that! After the depersonalization, he let me know that it wasn't over- he was going to cane me. I took 100 cane strokes, counting & screaming. When that was done, (and I could breathe again...) he informed me that I would take twenty strokes, daily, until he felt appeased for the insult I'd given. Then he told me that I would recreate such performances, on cue, whenever he chose to command it- then proceeded to only allow me the fake ones, actually shackling my wrists to my collar to keep my hands from between my own thighs! But all of that, though it was horrible, and lasted for over a week, was not as bad as that first two hours when I "didn't exixt"...

 

[rosco rathbone]

To humiliate, a sub

is the worst punishment.

 

[Technodivinitas]

To humiliate, a sub

is the worst punishment.

Do you mean that humiliation is the worst punishment, or that it's torture for you to have to do so? (Guaging by your Topspace thread, I'd think the latter unlikely...)

 

[Richard49]

good thread

 

[rosco rathbone]

Do you mean that humiliation is the worst punishment, or that it's torture for you to have to do so? (Guaging by your Topspace thread, I'd think the latter unlikely...)

I was gonna say:" that's what I call a Richard49 haiku ", and speak of the devil.....

 

[fallon2]

I have been taking notes (quietly) and still waiting for ty's take on the absolute worse punishment? You did promise . . . .

 

[AngelicAssassin]

To humiliate, a sub

is the worst punishment.

Read the replies Gaston.

 

[tythisredheadup]

I have been taking notes (quietly) and still waiting for ty's take on the absolute worse punishment? You did promise . . . .

I did promise...

Like the others, it would be being ignored. I can't stand it. It rips me of my self-esteem and self-worth. I sit and cry like a baby.

I just wanted to see that I wasn't alone.

 

[Arden]

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[Richard49]

The worst punishment of all is being lied to for years. Believing in one that says that they love you while maintaining off the board relationships that they promised were over.

Guess we all live and learn.

Being lied to is the worse punishment for any of us IMHO

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Being lied to is the worse punishment for any of us IMHO

Sorry, that's not a punishment.

Someone receives punishment for commiting an offense.

To the best of my knowledge, caring/trusting someone doesn't warrant punishment.

 

[serijules]

Earning a punishment is far worse than anything the actual punishment entails. Dissappointment is painful in ways no physical act can ever match.

*edited cuz it keeps telling me its not posting and then it does*

 

[Richard49]

Sorry, that's not a punishment.

Someone receives punishment for commiting an offense.

To the best of my knowledge, caring/trusting someone doesn't warrant punishment.

but to often get's it

Thank you AA for reminding me though
that pain from an action of another is not always punishment