Food and sex...is it safe?

[subbielez]

Obviously, there are certain things that a domme does to her subbie that are a little kinkier or sexier or funner or w/e than certain other things. One thing my domme wants to do with me is have some food sex. Now, my first thought was: "Wtf...um, okay sure..."

But the problem is I don't really know anything about it. Personally, I've never even thought about food sex. It sounds new and unique, though, so I told my domme why not, but I wanted to check some things out first. She said that was okay...so here I am.

The only thing I've ever done with food during sex was my domme liked to use an apple with a leather cord tied around it instead of the typical strap-and-ball around the mouth. That way we get a nice treat at the end and we end up making out and masturbating together as a sort of finisher. I assume food sex typically refers to penetration with food items, but my question is are there certain items we shouldn't use? I mean should we use one kind of food over another? Or does it matter?

 

[graceanne]

Obviously, there are certain things that a domme does to her subbie that are a little kinkier or sexier or funner or w/e than certain other things. One thing my domme wants to do with me is have some food sex. Now, my first thought was: "Wtf...um, okay sure..."

But the problem is I don't really know anything about it. Personally, I've never even thought about food sex. It sounds new and unique, though, so I told my domme why not, but I wanted to check some things out first. She said that was okay...so here I am.

The only thing I've ever done with food during sex was my domme liked to use an apple with a leather cord tied around it instead of the typical strap-and-ball around the mouth. That way we get a nice treat at the end and we end up making out and masturbating together as a sort of finisher. I assume food sex typically refers to penetration with food items, but my question is are there certain items we shouldn't use? I mean should we use one kind of food over another? Or does it matter?

I would say that anything that will leave part of itself behind is bad. But hard stuff, like cucumbers and banana's aren't an issue. Just remember you need to keep yourself clean - and that anything sweet that gets up there (like chocolate or other meltable stuff) could cause a yeast infection.

 

[subbielez]

But like bananas would be safe? Cuz...well, my domme...

This sounds so weird to me...but she really really wants to fuck me from behind with a banana...

 

[DeservingBitch]

Obviously, there are certain things that a domme does to her subbie that are a little kinkier or sexier or funner or w/e than certain other things. One thing my domme wants to do with me is have some food sex. Now, my first thought was: "Wtf...um, okay sure..."

But the problem is I don't really know anything about it. Personally, I've never even thought about food sex. It sounds new and unique, though, so I told my domme why not, but I wanted to check some things out first. She said that was okay...so here I am.

The only thing I've ever done with food during sex was my domme liked to use an apple with a leather cord tied around it instead of the typical strap-and-ball around the mouth. That way we get a nice treat at the end and we end up making out and masturbating together as a sort of finisher. I assume food sex typically refers to penetration with food items, but my question is are there certain items we shouldn't use? I mean should we use one kind of food over another? Or does it matter?

I can't tell your gender from your post, but if you're a woman, I would stay away from glucose, as it often causes yeast infection.

ETA: sorry, I just realized that graceanne already mentioned that.

 

[graceanne]

But like bananas would be safe? Cuz...well, my domme...

This sounds so weird to me...but she really really wants to fuck me from behind with a banana...

I'd keep the peel on, personally. I'm not sure if a banana, pealless would be a problem or not, but I wouldn't risk it.

 

[subbielez]

Oh, I don't think she'd peel it first. Might go in easier and be kinkier, but yeah I don't think that would be a good idea. Just trying getting THAT out of your vagina... <_<

Oh and yeah I'm a woman. The user name should have been your first clue.

 

[Dreamliner]

Never had a problem with a partner getting any infection from food sex. I have used a number of different food types; strawberries, blueberries, chocolate sauce, whipped cream, bananas, cucumbers etc.

The main priority is cleanliness.

As I said, none have had infections, but there is always the potential when due care is not taken.

 

[subbielez]

And see the more I think about it the more I start to think that experimentation in that area might be fun. I just have never done it before, so I didn't know anything about it. I'll gladly welcome other helpful suggestions and tips though. Might give me some ideas. Me and my domme about once a month decide on if we want to implement new ideas so maybe this could be something we could get into too.

 

[EmpressFi]

Iwould think a banana.. if yellow.. would be mush after about 3 thrusts..

yes.. sweet things bad. Cleaning up afterwards ..good.. mandatory..

but also, just because something is hard or not mushy.. doesnt mean you dont have to be extra careful. Anything that introduces items that are not normal flora.. or insecticides.. not a good idea

 

[BiBunny]

Just throwing this out there because I honestly have no idea, but wouldn't a condom on the banana (or whatever other food item used) reduce the risk of infections later? Just curious. Where's SweetErika? She'll know, I bet.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Iwould think a banana.. if yellow.. would be mush after about 3 thrusts..

Freezer.

 

[subbielez]

So don't use a banana then? My domme is gonna be really disappointed...what kinds of foods should we use, then? Oh there you go...that would work...and it might be kinkier too because it would be really cold like that...so that could work then.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Just throwing this out there because I honestly have no idea, but wouldn't a condom on the banana (or whatever other food item used) reduce the risk of infections later? Just curious. Where's SweetErika? She'll know, I bet.

And yes, I would put a condom on any 'insertables' to avoid infections.

 

[LilyBart]

While I have had some rocking fantasies involving food, I second (or third) the sugar aspect.

This is from Violet Blue's website (a sex educator who(whom?) I respect:

"Good Pussy Health Precautions

* Avoid lubes with sugar, colorings and flavors in them. Glycerin/glycerol is a sugar -- read the lube's ingredients, because yes Virginia, Astroglide contains sugar. Sugar feeds yeast: think about it. Nine times out of ten when I worked in sex toy retail this was the cause of most women's irritation.

* And that means no whipped cream, chocolate or pussy sundaes, either. Sugar caution also applies to well-meaning lovers who go down on you with a cough drop or mint in her/his mouth."

For further leisure reading:

http://www.tinynibbles.com/unsafe.html

Now, that said, there was the time bananas and peaches were eaten out of me, with no ill effects.....but that was way before "caution" was in my vocabulary.....

 

[graceanne]

I was sitting here, trying to figure out how you get chocolate out of there, and realized that you probably just douche? But wouldn't that just force all that stuff further up, possibly causing a pelvic infection?

 

[graceanne]

Freezer.

Ooooooh, good idea.

 

[HottieMama]

I was sitting here, trying to figure out how you get chocolate out of there, and realized that you probably just douche? But wouldn't that just force all that stuff further up, possibly causing a pelvic infection?

Yes...Douching is really NOT good. It would possibly push the sugar up further causing a pelvic or cervical infection.

Say no to sugary substances near your pussy!

 

[DeservingBitch]

BTW - I strongly recommend ginger root. not exactly the kind of 'food play' you're looking for I think, but a lot of fun.

 

[graceanne]

Yes...Douching is really NOT good. It would possibly push the sugar up further causing a pelvic or cervical infection.

Say no to sugary substances near your pussy!

It's really moot point with me, cause neither me or K have a food fetish. I was just curios. Besides, I've had a pelvic infection - their's no way in HELL I'll risk one of those again. They fucking HURT.

 

[subbielez]

Ginger root?

 

[Homburg]

Banana, peel on, and preferably still a bit green, will generally survive well. The more green it is, the better it will take the pounding. Cucumbers and zuchinni and such also work, if you can take them. Carrots if you're not capable of using the larger items. Wash them very well and/or put condoms on them.

 

[Dreamliner]

I just sat here thinking back over times when fruit/vegetables have been involved and realised that at best they have only "just" been inserted at the entrance and swirled around tha vaginal entrance. Fort instance a strawberry. Chocolate sauce is only dribbled over the clit and labia, never squirted into the vagina, similarly with cream.

 

[graceanne]

I just sat here thinking back over times when fruit/vegetables have been involved and realised that at best they have only "just" been inserted at the entrance and swirled around tha vaginal entrance. Fort instance a strawberry. Chocolate sauce is only dribbled over the clit and labia, never squirted into the vagina, similarly with cream.

Ok, I see how you can clean yourself after this sort of thing - that area is accessible. I still think that if you're gonna do a banana you should leave the peel on and make sure to wash it really good.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Ginger root?

Google "figging".

 

[graceanne]

Google "figging".

*shakes head*

You're evil.