fisting

[Queen Bee]

I'm increasingly convinced of the rightness of the tripod squat. For me, that creates maximum curvature of the spine, and allows more arm mobility. I think next time I may do all the prep work lying down, then switch positions for the actual fisting part.

Etoile, if you decided to do this with a partner, it would eliminate the "what if I get stuck" worry. Actually, my worry was not so much getting stuck as the consort finding me that way and dying of laughter before he could assist.

I found a commercial website, http://www.fistinglessons.com , which has interesting still thumbnails and lots of free preview clips. It is a humilation-oriented site, so avoid it if that bugs you.

 

[shy slave]

wow

Just tried this using the tripod squat and apart from losing my balance and falling off the bed (yes really ), it worked ok'ish.

Managed to get part of my thumb and just past my finger knuckles, but i am not very 'bendy' so need to either become more supple or grow longer arms lol

Actually, I did not find it erotic but thats porbably because I was concentrating on what and how I was doing instead of thinking about the sensations it gave.

still its a start

 

[Etoile]

<---Is certainly glad he resurrected this thread.

Well, with a name like Limbhugger...

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Etoile]

My girlfriend and I have found it a tighter fit when she fists me doggy-style as opposed to on my back. Same goes for with me sitting up, although that's really the only position in which we can kiss passionately while her fist is inside me.

 

[Limbhugger]

Well, with a name like Limbhugger...

Ha. I'm not sure if that is good or bad but I'll opt for good.

 

[Etoile]

Ha. I'm not sure if that is good or bad but I'll opt for good.

But of course!

 

[Limbhugger]

But of course!

Thank you ma'am.

 

[shy slave]

Thanks cutie mouse and Etoile anything will be better than falling off the bed.
Its not erotic or sexy trying to fist yourself, fall and laugh all at the same time.

I just hope there were no peeping toms about lol

 

[Esclava]

<snip>
I found a commercial website, http://www.fistinglessons.com , which has interesting still thumbnails and lots of free preview clips. It is a humilation-oriented site, so avoid it if that bugs you.

It is an interesting site, to be sure!

Just be sure to run a virus check or spyware check after you visit as it will deposit plenty of "stuff" when you leave.

Esclava

 

[shy slave]

<----resurrected thread

Have found an interesting book on the web called

"A hand in the Bush- The Art of Vaginal Fisting.

Interesting read and covers lots of the questions asked here. Honest answers with some humour.

Written by a woman but her name escapes me, have given it to my master, mainly so He can read and re-read and read again the bit about taking lots of time and going VERY slowly

The website I bought it from is extremerestraints.com

Actually can't help but wonder if Etiolle or Esclava wrote it as they are our resident gurus on all aspects of fisting.

 

[Owlz]

Re: <----resurrected thread

Have found an interesting book on the web called

"A hand in the Bush- The Art of Vaginal Fisting.

Interesting read and covers lots of the questions asked here. Honest answers with some humour.

Written by a woman but her name escapes me, have given it to my master, mainly so He can read and re-read and read again the bit about taking lots of time and going VERY slowly

The website I bought it from is extremerestraints.com

Actually can't help but wonder if Etiolle or Esclava wrote it as they are our resident gurus on all aspects of fisting.

written by Deborah Addington

 

[Etoile]

Re: Re: <----resurrected thread

written by Deborah Addington

Yep, that's exactly right. I think that might be the only book on vaginal fisting (there are multiple books about handballing as I recall).

 

[Owlz]

Just dropping by to say hello to my lovely friend Etoile. That's yet another great AV, young lady.

 

[Etoile]

Bumping because I want to share this link:
http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/askrachelandclaire/altered

It's about working up to fisting.

 

[BlueSugar]

I don't know if I'm interested in fisting, but I am amazed by it... though, I suppose I shouldn't... I don't know. But everytime fisting is brought up, I look at people's hands more often.
I was watching porn the other night, and alot of the time fisting gets cut but you know what is going on even if they aren't showing it (or they just show the thumb slipping out) and I've seen the stars in other films - like the one i was watching the other day- and I got a good look at her hands... small but longish fingers, bigger then my hand, and sometimes it makes me think.

I like the feeling of being filled and the stretch, I always have, maybe I was spoiled by my boyfriends, maybe its the pain - either way, its something I enjoy, but I don't think about the act as it was happening to me most of the time, it is usually me with someone else. I blame it on my penis envy

I don't think M and I ever could without months of build up - and I don't know if I/we are interested in it ... but kudoes to all those that've had success !

 

[traveler99]

fisting -- mmmm! more!

Hi all

It is wonderful seeing the fisting postings ----

One experience ---- A former girlfriend of mine had, before me, just been with women. Early in our relationship, when I was fingering her sweet pussy, she showed me by her sounds and pressing at my hand, that she wanted more. I put more of my fingers inside her deeper and more quickly. She thrashed around and asked over and over for more. She then told me to put my hand inside her - and slowly I did -- slipping into her pussy deeper and deeper

And, as women here have said, she had the most intense orgasms. Turned me on very much - cock so hard at the feel and sight of her like that.

And she told me later of her women lovers who had done that to her.

We fucked a long time.

There's more I suppose.

Anyone wanting to talk about it - email me

David
additionalemail@earthlink.net

 

[FurryFury]

Okay so I have a question about fisting and hand balling. How much of the hand has to go inside of it to be considered really fisting? Where is the line between the two or is there one?

Thanks,

Fury

 

[Etoile]

The answer I am inclined to give is: that's up to you and/or your partner, based on your partner's hand size, what you feel you can reasonably take (for both physical capacity and pain tolerance), and at what point you feel a sense of achievement.

But most people don't like that kind of answer, so I have another answer! This one is what many people would probably tell you straight off the bat.

That answer is: "you'll know." Seriously, you will. With my wife, I can always tell when her hand has slipped all the way in. There's a definite push through the wide point, and then her hand slides in all the way and curls up. The experience wasn't quite as dramatic with the other person who has fisted me, but I could still tell when the hand was all the way inside.

I've never done anal fisting (handballing) but I imagine the same principle applies.

 

[FurryFury]

He couldn't get past his knuckles.

Said he'd have to break bones on one of us to go in further but it was fun and interesting, not to mention full of sensations to which I am addicted.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

I'm kinda of wondering if you can or anyone has "self fisted?"

Fury

 

[Etoile]

I would say that only up to his knuckles isn't quite fisting, really. But that's okay - if you were having fun with what you were getting, then who needs the fist?!

I personally can't fist myself, but I've seen pictures...

 

[FurryFury]

Well, yes, I was having fun with it however one always wants to go further you know?

Now playing with my hand I think it could fit, so that got me to thinking.

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

He couldn't get past his knuckles.

Said he'd have to break bones on one of us to go in further but it was fun and interesting, not to mention full of sensations to which I am addicted.

Fury

LOL, now all you have to remind him is that babies head's pass through that opening and they make a fist look like child's play. It might be he needs to take more time, go a little further each time, get you more relaxed, and persevere. It is worth it for both the giver and receiver. It is wise to use a latex glove though as that cuts down on the risk or fingernail damage as well as bacteria entering where it shouldn't. Enjoy.

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[Etoile]

LOL, now all you have to remind him is that babies head's pass through that opening and they make a fist look like child's play.

I'm actually not sure what to think of that argument. I've used it in the past myself, bbut someone pointed out to me that a woman's body goes through physical changes during pregnancy and childbirth. So I don't know if it really makes sense or not. If one is trying to convince one's partner to try harder/again, it's wort bringing up, but in reality I don't know how accurate it is.