Fisting

[slipperyandwet]

Hi everyone

Im new here. Just a question... I'm really interested in trying fisting out, but we can never really get his whole hand in. Do you guys enjoy fisting and do you have any tips for me?

Thanx

S & W

 

[southernsky]

Astroglide gel lube More Astroglide gel lube Even more Astroglide gel lube than you ever thought you might need Then, see if you can raise your hands and press them against the head of the bed and have him hold his hand still when you get to a rough part. Breathe deeply and imagine yourself opening up as you push gently on his hand yourself. Also, make sure his hand is going in the right direction for you. I know that for me, we have to put his hand in a very specific position and angle otherwise it's really painful for me.

 

[Submission13]

Hi everyone

Im new here. Just a question... I'm really interested in trying fisting out, but we can never really get his whole hand in. Do you guys enjoy fisting and do you have any tips for me?

Thanx

S & W

Fisting is wonderful thing. Take your time to work up to his whole fist. It seems to work better for us when we do this after we have had sex. If you are able to have an orgasm first it might help your muscles to relax. Sometimes it helps to turn the lights down low or off. The lights off can make it easier for both of you to focus. It can take a long time for you to relax enough to be fisted. I absolutely love fisting, its a really intimate thing, that my partner and I occasionally do. If you have a variety of different sized toys it can help you to work up to his well lubed fist. If he tucks his thumb into the center of his hand it will make his fist smaller during insertion. Once he gets his fist in you, you should be in control of how he moves his hand. No sudden moves in or out, this all about trust and taking your time! When you are satisfied, have him be very careful when he pulls his hand out.

 

[Submission13]

Astroglide gel lube is really helpfull!

 

[slipperyandwet]

Cool!! Thanx for the advice guys. Just another thing. I am 13 weeks pregnant, are there any health issues to consider if I want to take up fisting in this period?

 

[Firebrain]

Cool!! Thanx for the advice guys. Just another thing. I am 13 weeks pregnant, are there any health issues to consider if I want to take up fisting in this period?

I was going to suggest that it's easiest when you are ovulating as everything is very wet and open - but you've probably missed the boat a bit, hehe.

Unless you've had any bleeding issues, I can't see a problem. He's not going to be anywhere near your cervix.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Do a search, there are loads of threads on this.

 

[Eilan]

Cool!! Thanx for the advice guys. Just another thing. I am 13 weeks pregnant, are there any health issues to consider if I want to take up fisting in this period?

There was a recent thread about this, and most people believed that you probably shouldn't risk fisting during your pregnancy. I enjoy fisting, but I didn't feel comfortable enough during my pregnancies to take that risk, nor do I feel comfortable telling you that it's okay to do so. You might find that it's easier--both physically and psychologically--after you've recovered from childbirth. Or not, I suppose, depending on your delivery.

Keep in mind, however, that most of us aren't medical professionals, nor do we play them on TV. You could always ask your OB/GYN at your next appointment.

 

[Submission13]

Fisting is awesome. Cleanliness is crucial.

Withdrawl is kind of like taking off a bandaid. No real harm will be done, but its going to hurt!
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Yes it is very important for your partner to have clean hands when fisting and also maybe you can have him withdraw his fist slowly so that it doesn't hurt or do damage. Your vagina is made out of tissues that are designed to stretch slowly, you can actually tear on your perineum, if not careful. If you are feeling pain, your body is trying to tell you something. It should be up to the woman on how fast he pulls his hand out. Sometimes she might want it removed faster than others. Communicate what you are a feeling! Sometimes my partner is so tight after she has an orgasm that I have trouble getting my hand out! Sometimes its really easy!

 

[joenorthwest]

As long as you use plenty of lube and more, take it very slow I'm sure you will enjoy. Check out www.fistforum.com for lots of really good advice.

 

[satindesire]

I would certainly ask your doctor/midwife FIRST before attempting fisting while pregnant.

 

[marilee]

My Master wanted to fist me and i was scared he talked to me soothingly as he had me sit on his fist with lots of lube. Sir told me to slowly push down as he held his fist steady and he let me do the work. It took a couple of tries but eventually his fist slipped deep inside of me. now i am addicted to it and cant get enough of his fist and after i few minutes i begin to move llike i would if i was siltting on his cock...its a wonderful feeling and i am glad he introduced this to me

 

[satindesire]

My Master wanted to fist me and i was scared he talked to me soothingly as he had me sit on his fist with lots of lube. Sir told me to slowly push down as he held his fist steady and he let me do the work. It took a couple of tries but eventually his fist slipped deep inside of me. now i am addicted to it and cant get enough of his fist and after i few minutes i begin to move llike i would if i was siltting on his cock...its a wonderful feeling and i am glad he introduced this to me

This thread is nearly a year old. Next time you do any thread searches, please make sure you note the date on the very last post, to avoid resurrecting old, dead threads.

 

[123Josh]

This thread is nearly a year old. Next time you do any thread searches, please make sure you note the date on the very last post, to avoid resurrecting old, dead threads.

Who cares, really..Is it REALLY that big of a deal? Or do you just like to scold?

 

[satindesire]

Who cares, really..Is it REALLY that big of a deal? Or do you just like to scold?

If you had been paying attention to this forum at all, you'd see that resurrecting old threads if frowned upon by the moderators and the regular posters. It's not necessarily against site rules, but it is annoying as hell when the sometime-posters resurrect a thread that's been dead for months rather than starting their own new thread.

And let me give you a word of warning, son. Negativity and attitude breeds negativity and attitude. I'm feeling generous today so I'll be kind to you, but you'd be better off treating people on this forum a little nicer if you want the same. Remember your OWN post "Being charming and polite goes a long way"...? So practice what you preach.

 

[123Josh]

If you had been paying attention to this forum at all, you'd see that resurrecting old threads if frowned upon by the moderators and the regular posters. It's not necessarily against site rules, but it is annoying as hell when the sometime-posters resurrect a thread that's been dead for months rather than starting their own new thread.

And let me give you a word of warning, son. Negativity and attitude breeds negativity and attitude. I'm feeling generous today so I'll be kind to you, but you'd be better off treating people on this forum a little nicer if you want the same. Remember your OWN post "Being charming and polite goes a long way"...? So practice what you preach.

Well, first I'm not your son...I guess I just get annoyed by people who get annoyed by things that are inconsequential. That said, next time I'll try to be more polite about telling you that.


holy, I notice you have over 7,000 posts! If you only posted once per day that would take you 20 years!!! I guess I can understand why resurrecting an old thread would irk you.

 

[satindesire]

holy, I notice you have over 7,000 posts! If you only posted once per day that would take you 20 years!!! I guess I can understand why resurrecting an old thread would irk you.

You getting annoyed over people getting annoyed over inconsequential things.

Does that NOT strike you even as slightly ironic?



My post count is nothing compared to more than half of the people who post here regularly. Many people have up into the 20k's and some haven't been here -half- as long as I have.

 

[infinity706]

Who cares, really..Is it REALLY that big of a deal? Or do you just like to scold?

Bumping old threads is seriously pointless. It takes what? 3 seconds to create a new thread rather than bumping one?

Oh, and be nice to Ms Satindesire. She'll be a great friend as long as you don't go out of your way to piss her off.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Who cares, really..Is it REALLY that big of a deal? Or do you just like to scold?

Yeah it is, it's fucking annoying.

Especially when it's someone who hasn't posted in near 10 years and hasn't even bothered to a) find out how the place works and b) add anything of any substance to the thread they bumped.

 

[silverwhisper]

someone who hasn't been around long enough for me to recognize queried:
who cares, really..is it really that big of a deal? or do you just like to scold?

it's annoying b/c it says:

1. the poster in question doesn't read very carefully.
2. if the poster doesn't read carefully, answering his/her question is almost certainly a waste of time.

ed

 

[satindesire]

I think by now, Josh gets it. Generally speaking when it comes to forum manners...when more than one person shares the same opinion, it's a very good opinion to share.

Hopefully he gets it.