Fisting

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

good point on the fingernails...but wouldn't latex just feel icky?

 

[Georgia Girl]

yes they would I think but I have a slight allergy to latex

The other option is to make sure his hands are prepared. Just as a woman would prepare herself, maybe for him preparation could be getting a manicure, maybe getting it from his mate in preparation for the night to come --- consider it part of the foreplay.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

very intimate idea.... but i dont think my partner would be that keen on it...might intimidate his manhodd lol

 

[Georgia Girl]

It would intimidate his manhood if you told him that you had something you wanted to share with him and just as he helped you get ready you wanted to help him? He would feel intimidated by being pampered?

Interesting concept. I'm accustomed to being around Dominants, they like to be bathed, served, and cherished. I haven't come across one that had issues with me wanting to help him get ready to take me to this place.

If you're shaved have him shave you and then softly stroke you with oil to sooth your skin. Take his hands in yours and stroke them, between the fingers, around the nails, over the palms and backs of hands. (Be checking for rough places while you do this.)

 

[Etoile]

Heh, I never thought of these things. My girlfriend takes care of her own hands! Interesting to see the different perspective.

 

[StoneTheCrow]

Myself, have been blessed/cursed with big hands. I would hate to see the pussy hat would allow my hands entry. It would be like mammoth fucking cave. I cna palm a basketball with one hand.

 

[Etoile]

Myself, have been blessed/cursed with big hands. I would hate to see the pussy hat would allow my hands entry. It would be like mammoth fucking cave. I cna palm a basketball with one hand.

Have you seen http://www.amazingty.com/ ?

 

[StoneTheCrow]

Have you seen http://www.amazingty.com/ ?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Extreme fisting? That sounds like an event for the X games HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA Thank you for the wonderful visual, I got a good hearty laugh out of it and my GF (WICKIdCHERRYPIE) announced how sick I am for laffing the way I did

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[James G 5]

Have you seen http://www.amazingty.com/ ?

I've seen her vids in the "Extreme Fetish" section of a local adult store...all I can say is that, after seeing the boxes, the first thought in my head was "She must LIVE on cranberry juice"

 

[Etoile]

I've seen her vids in the "Extreme Fetish" section of a local adult store...all I can say is that, after seeing the boxes, the first thought in my head was "She must LIVE on cranberry juice"

LOL! I'm sure she must use Depends or something. Seriously, you cannot penetrate the urethra and still be as good as new.

 

[James G 5]

LOL! I'm sure she must use Depends or something. Seriously, you cannot penetrate the urethra and still be as good as new.

Exactly. A guy I know who got in to serious sounding and ended up with a "drip issue" and in Depends at the age of 37

I can only imagine how much worse it must be for a woman given the anatomical differences.

 

[DuckLover]

Latex gloves (or nitrile gloves, if you're allergic to latex) are very helpful. My gf and I found that they made penetration much easier and more comfortable.

As for soreness, contrary to Etoile's experience, we found that after a session of serious penetration, SG is pretty sore, to the point that fisting is usually the culmination of sex. When we finish, we usually just lie around holding each other and cuddling. Keep in mind that every woman is different in how she responds to any/every sexual act. Also, SG and I haven't reached full insertion yet; it stands to reason that when your body is used to stretching that much from experience (like Etoile), doing so will be less uncomfortable than the first few times (like us).

Go slow, use tons of lube, and focus on the process not the result. Oh, and have fun!

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Extreme fisting? That sounds like an event for the X games HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA Thank you for the wonderful visual, I got a good hearty laugh out of it and my GF (WICKIdCHERRYPIE) announced how sick I am for laffing the way I did

I only pronounced you sick because of the immature cackling you emitted that filled the whole house.

 

[anders^g]

I still want to know if there are any more direct questions about fisting. (Yeah, I like showing off!)

I've tried it a few times with my SO, but my
hands are WAY to big for her. It's that darn viking
bloodline of mine

 

[Georgia Girl]

For reference. ....... I'm 5'6", the last man that fisted me was 6'3", not a small man. It took time, patience and some intense play beforehand.

It can be erotic, exotic, intense, and help to form an amazing connection between you. Part of it is being willing to let go inside your head, let go of that part that makes you tense up. Find something to focus on. For me it was his voice which is hypnotic.

 

[warrior queen]

LOL! I'm sure she must use Depends or something. Seriously, you cannot penetrate the urethra and still be as good as new.

and there's just something so totally erotic about fucking the urethra! NOT!

let me see, stages of life -
growing up,
experimenting,
playing around,
finding a partner,
experimenting some more,
having kids,
busting out,
experimenting further,
drying up,
learning to sneeze without wetting oneself in the post office.

yep, definately a turn on.

 

[James G 5]

and there's just something so totally erotic about fucking the urethra! NOT!

let me see, stages of life -
growing up,
experimenting,
playing around,
finding a partner,
experimenting some more,
having kids,
busting out,
experimenting further,
drying up,
learning to sneeze without wetting oneself in the post office.

yep, definately a turn on.

*SPEW*

 

[Etoile]

*SPEW*

Hey, you clean that up!

 

[James G 5]

Hey, you clean that up!

Don't tell me you've never been taught to clean properly with your tongue

 

[Etoile]

Don't tell me you've never been taught to clean properly with your tongue

Ooooooh, I have. But I think we might be getting too kinky for these How-To board folks! http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/redshocked.gif

 

[James G 5]

Ooooooh, I have. But I think we might be getting too kinky for these How-To board folks! http://www.amanita.net/images/smilies/redshocked.gif

Sorry, it's just the Me coming out in Me

 

[Stiffy Says...]

RE: Fisting...

never tried it, not sure it would be a turn on....no offense to anyone liking it.

My manhood would be threatened if a woman could take my fist, I mean, how could my cock ever be sufficient after that? *bites nails nervously**

But, in the end, I only have 3 rules around sex:

1. Must be mutually Respectful.
2. Must be wiuth the two of us only.
3. Must not cause serious injury.

if it meet sthat criterion, and my baby wants to try, I am up for it.

 

[warrior queen]

i love the feeling of TT's fist buried wrist-deep inside me.....
and when he starts that rotation thing happening, i just go through the fucking roof!
(i guess he's hitting my g-spot with his thumb-knuckle?)

but seriously, the feeling of being so totally 'filled' is awesome.

it does take some time to get this happening the first time - it's not something you can just 'do'.

careful preparation and lead-up, with as much lube as you can get, as well as a patient and understanding partner are a must - and don't forget to have a 'safe' word ready - something neither of you normally say to eachother - that means STOP THIS RIGHT NOW.
something like 'banana' or 'match'. a word NOT associated with sex. and the trust and respect for eachother to stop everything the second that word is used.

there are a few threads here that deal with fisting - try the bdsm threads for more info.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

Thanks...I'm on my way to a happy um fisting