fisting anyone?
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sandiego_gordo
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fisting...
Hi Cyn, I had a girlfriend that just LOOOOOOVVVVEEEEDDDDD to be filled up, she was really crazy but i loved her cause she was a total sex hound like myself.
Anyways...it was always different, but generally we'd start with just fucking each other silly, then use the fisting as kind of a follow-on or more likely an in-between. We never used any kind of lube, but she was also the wettest girl i ever knew so other women are no doubt different. I'd be just gently massaging her labia, which she was always very happy about after sex, and when I started slipping in two or three fingers i would just guage from her reaction....MORE or that's fine. If it was more, i would slowly work in three fingers, i guess really setting the pace by how easily they slipped in. Soon, four fingers, which gave a lot deeper penetration, then I would just kind of streamline all my fingers tightly together, and slowly with a lot of gentle in-and-out work my whole hand in. Once it was in and comfortable I would just gently and smoothly masssage the whole inside of her vagina working on the places that got a positive reaction and avoiding the places that i got the feeling she didn't like or didn't get anything out of. Depending on the position, I loved doing that while either sucking her breasts or her clit, though I remember that her clit was sometimes too sensitive. She would just cum and cum and cum.
A couple of times she wanted even more and I have had both hands in her vagina, or one time I ended up completely fisting her ass while still fisting her vagina. The only downside, which is barely worth mentioning considering how much pleasure I got out of her just totally losing it, was that she would be very very loose for at least a few hours, i think even the next morning.
Lost touch with her but thanks for starting this thread, many happy memories.
gordo
Hi Cyn, I had a girlfriend that just LOOOOOOVVVVEEEEDDDDD to be filled up, she was really crazy but i loved her cause she was a total sex hound like myself.
Anyways...it was always different, but generally we'd start with just fucking each other silly, then use the fisting as kind of a follow-on or more likely an in-between. We never used any kind of lube, but she was also the wettest girl i ever knew so other women are no doubt different. I'd be just gently massaging her labia, which she was always very happy about after sex, and when I started slipping in two or three fingers i would just guage from her reaction....MORE or that's fine. If it was more, i would slowly work in three fingers, i guess really setting the pace by how easily they slipped in. Soon, four fingers, which gave a lot deeper penetration, then I would just kind of streamline all my fingers tightly together, and slowly with a lot of gentle in-and-out work my whole hand in. Once it was in and comfortable I would just gently and smoothly masssage the whole inside of her vagina working on the places that got a positive reaction and avoiding the places that i got the feeling she didn't like or didn't get anything out of. Depending on the position, I loved doing that while either sucking her breasts or her clit, though I remember that her clit was sometimes too sensitive. She would just cum and cum and cum.
A couple of times she wanted even more and I have had both hands in her vagina, or one time I ended up completely fisting her ass while still fisting her vagina. The only downside, which is barely worth mentioning considering how much pleasure I got out of her just totally losing it, was that she would be very very loose for at least a few hours, i think even the next morning.
Lost touch with her but thanks for starting this thread, many happy memories.
gordo
I've tried this..
Fisting is quite a pleasurable experience, provided that you take it very very slowly.
I tried it for the first time a few months ago, and I needed plenty of warming up with a well placed tongue and cock !
After that, it required my man inserting his fingers one by one - making sure he used plenty of lube. We did have problems with his thumb to begin with, but I really enjoyed it when he twisted and turned his fingers
Take your time, and use plenty of lube !
Fisting is quite a pleasurable experience, provided that you take it very very slowly.
I tried it for the first time a few months ago, and I needed plenty of warming up with a well placed tongue and cock !
After that, it required my man inserting his fingers one by one - making sure he used plenty of lube. We did have problems with his thumb to begin with, but I really enjoyed it when he twisted and turned his fingers
Take your time, and use plenty of lube !
Harbinger
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I've done this with three different lovers, like you they were turned on by the idea, and all of them really got off on it, and were surprised how easy it was the first time. It would happen after marathon sex when we were both really turned on. Make sure ahead of time your partner has done a VERY careful, close manicure, and check his or her hands for any potential rough spots. Gloves are not a bad idea either. Use LOTS of an appropriate vaginal lubricant, take it nice and easy, and don't be afraid to stop if things don't feel good to you. We never had any problems with any after effects, either, everything always soon returned back to normal.
InLove, two of the women had been through childbirth and said it didn't feel anything like that. As I understand it a lot of the pain of childbirth has to do with the uterine contractions and getting past the cervix, not just passing through the vagina, but I'm just a guy. My partners loved the fullness of the sensation, but didn't want to do it all the time, just when they were in the mood for that extra something. Have fun.
InLove, two of the women had been through childbirth and said it didn't feel anything like that. As I understand it a lot of the pain of childbirth has to do with the uterine contractions and getting past the cervix, not just passing through the vagina, but I'm just a guy. My partners loved the fullness of the sensation, but didn't want to do it all the time, just when they were in the mood for that extra something.
Have fun.
Avery_Chisholm
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I like it once in awhile
haven't done it in like forever though.....its like anal sex i like it just wouldn't want 2 do it everyday just on special occasions....!
haven't done it in like forever though.....its like anal sex i like it just wouldn't want 2 do it everyday just on special occasions....!
sabbathstorm
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I've had that done to me a few times with my partner. It's something you definitely don't want all the time but it's fun once a while (as mentioned by other posters). I absolutely love that full feeling and when he starts to move his fingers, that drives me crazy!
Sweet Marie
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My lover can thrust his whole hand (thumbs and all) into me with very little problem. Just after a few kisses I am absolutely dripping! It is kind of funny cos I'm pretty tight-- I usually have to take intercourse really slowly. But I don't analyze it much, I just enjoy!
rexfelis
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Fisting is
a real turn-on for me. Not sure why. I have only ever found one woman who could do it. She loved it so much that she would have me do it every time we had sex. I have very small hands for a man and that makes it easier.
I remember I was able to put my entire hand into her in one fluid motion, as long as she was sufficiently aroused and I held my hand in a certain way. Then I would carefully form a fist, and twist my arm so my knuckles were going across her G-spot like road bumps at high speed.
She would just come and come for as long as I could do that.
Surprisingly, she wasn't all that loose either...
a real turn-on for me. Not sure why. I have only ever found one woman who could do it. She loved it so much that she would have me do it every time we had sex. I have very small hands for a man and that makes it easier.
I remember I was able to put my entire hand into her in one fluid motion, as long as she was sufficiently aroused and I held my hand in a certain way. Then I would carefully form a fist, and twist my arm so my knuckles were going across her G-spot like road bumps at high speed.
She would just come and come for as long as I could do that.
Surprisingly, she wasn't all that loose either...
cymbidia
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I've had this done to me numerous times. I've not done it to anyone else, but i think i know *how* to, and a few tips and tricks to make the whole thing go more pleasureably for everyone involved.
1. Be sure you remember that good pain and bad pain are very different things. It's *going* to stretch and cause you to moan and feel like you're walking the edge. Remember that you can always come back and try again if you want to stop this time.
2. He should, as has been said, trim and smooth his nails and/or wear gloves.
3. Use lube. Others have said that but there's no way anyone can say this enough. Use LOTS and lube. Lube in you. Lube on his hands, fingers, between them, up past his wrist. Use LOTS of lube and then, after you've used lots of lube, use some more.
4. A corollary to #2: use towels. Put towels down under you. Several layers of towels might be a good idea. All that lube? It's not just going to dissipate into the clouds, you know. Plus you'll have all your natural lubricant flowing all over the place, too.
5. Start slowly. Kissing. Stroking. Hugging. Snuggling. All the normal kinds of things that turn you on: do those for awhile. You body will be more elastic and prepared to accept something really big vaginally if you are fully aroused before the insertion of his fist begins.
6. One finger for awhile... then two... then three... watch to insure you don't begin to get scared and slow it down if/when you do... then four...
Ride those four fingers for awhile.
See if they're enough for this time.
7. He should tuck his thumb into his four fingers for that bit, making a wedge - and begin to press it into you. It will feel... incredibly, marvelously, wildly exciting. At least it does to me. And it hurts, too, the good kind of pain. The kind that makes you scream and moan and arch and beg for more harder faster more more...
8. And then his fist will be inside your body.
As i've said, i've done this repeatedly and i love it. However, you should know that it is not without some danger. Once upon a time, not too long ago as a matter of fact, i had to go to the ER due to some very vigorous and impatient (on both sides) fisting. He'd torn the lining of my vagina, deep inside, and the bleeding wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop. So i went to the ER where i had to tell them all about how it happened.
However, in all the times i've done this, i've only had to go to the ER once - and i play very very rough. I'm a masochist; someone not as interested in erotic pain would likely have stopped the whole thing long before such damage occurred, right?
To sum up, fisting is a rather advanced sexual technique and you need to know how to be safe while pursuing the intense pleasure available to one through this kind of lovemaking.
Be careful.
Have fun.
1. Be sure you remember that good pain and bad pain are very different things. It's *going* to stretch and cause you to moan and feel like you're walking the edge. Remember that you can always come back and try again if you want to stop this time.
2. He should, as has been said, trim and smooth his nails and/or wear gloves.
3. Use lube. Others have said that but there's no way anyone can say this enough. Use LOTS and lube. Lube in you. Lube on his hands, fingers, between them, up past his wrist. Use LOTS of lube and then, after you've used lots of lube, use some more.
4. A corollary to #2: use towels. Put towels down under you. Several layers of towels might be a good idea. All that lube? It's not just going to dissipate into the clouds, you know. Plus you'll have all your natural lubricant flowing all over the place, too.
5. Start slowly. Kissing. Stroking. Hugging. Snuggling. All the normal kinds of things that turn you on: do those for awhile. You body will be more elastic and prepared to accept something really big vaginally if you are fully aroused before the insertion of his fist begins.
6. One finger for awhile... then two... then three... watch to insure you don't begin to get scared and slow it down if/when you do... then four...
Ride those four fingers for awhile.
See if they're enough for this time.
7. He should tuck his thumb into his four fingers for that bit, making a wedge - and begin to press it into you. It will feel... incredibly, marvelously, wildly exciting. At least it does to me. And it hurts, too, the good kind of pain. The kind that makes you scream and moan and arch and beg for more harder faster more more...
8. And then his fist will be inside your body.
As i've said, i've done this repeatedly and i love it. However, you should know that it is not without some danger. Once upon a time, not too long ago as a matter of fact, i had to go to the ER due to some very vigorous and impatient (on both sides) fisting. He'd torn the lining of my vagina, deep inside, and the bleeding wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop. So i went to the ER where i had to tell them all about how it happened.
However, in all the times i've done this, i've only had to go to the ER once - and i play very very rough. I'm a masochist; someone not as interested in erotic pain would likely have stopped the whole thing long before such damage occurred, right?
To sum up, fisting is a rather advanced sexual technique and you need to know how to be safe while pursuing the intense pleasure available to one through this kind of lovemaking.
Be careful.
Have fun.
rexfelis
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Well said.
I fear I made it sound rather automatic in my post. This is a good response, since we did most of these things too. That I could insert my hand in one motion was ue to practice and experience, and she was always heavily aroused and her juices flowing, etc.
As a side note, this woman I was fisting liked it very rough, also, and she would usually come away bleeding, but that was because of the perticular techniques she wanted me to use. It was never something that we had to have medical attention for, thank God!
I fear I made it sound rather automatic in my post. This is a good response, since we did most of these things too. That I could insert my hand in one motion was ue to practice and experience, and she was always heavily aroused and her juices flowing, etc.
As a side note, this woman I was fisting liked it very rough, also, and she would usually come away bleeding, but that was because of the perticular techniques she wanted me to use. It was never something that we had to have medical attention for, thank God!
cymbidia said:I've had this done to me numerous times. I've not done it to anyone else, but i think i know *how* to, and a few tips and tricks to make the whole thing go more pleasureably for everyone involved.
1. Be sure you remember that good pain and bad pain are very different things. It's *going* to stretch and cause you to moan and feel like you're walking the edge. Remember that you can always come back and try again if you want to stop this time.
2. He should, as has been said, trim and smooth his nails and/or wear gloves.
3. Use lube. Others have said that but there's no way anyone can say this enough. Use LOTS and lube. Lube in you. Lube on his hands, fingers, between them, up past his wrist. Use LOTS of lube and then, after you've used lots of lube, use some more.
4. A corollary to #2: use towels. Put towels down under you. Several layers of towels might be a good idea. All that lube? It's not just going to dissipate into the clouds, you know. Plus you'll have all your natural lubricant flowing all over the place, too.
5. Start slowly. Kissing. Stroking. Hugging. Snuggling. All the normal kinds of things that turn you on: do those for awhile. You body will be more elastic and prepared to accept something really big vaginally if you are fully aroused before the insertion of his fist begins.
6. One finger for awhile... then two... then three... watch to insure you don't begin to get scared and slow it down if/when you do... then four...
Ride those four fingers for awhile.
See if they're enough for this time.
7. He should tuck his thumb into his four fingers for that bit, making a wedge - and begin to press it into you. It will feel... incredibly, marvelously, wildly exciting. At least it does to me. And it hurts, too, the good kind of pain. The kind that makes you scream and moan and arch and beg for more harder faster more more...
8. And then his fist will be inside your body.
As i've said, i've done this repeatedly and i love it. However, you should know that it is not without some danger. Once upon a time, not too long ago as a matter of fact, i had to go to the ER due to some very vigorous and impatient (on both sides) fisting. He'd torn the lining of my vagina, deep inside, and the bleeding wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop... wouldn't stop. So i went to the ER where i had to tell them all about how it happened.
However, in all the times i've done this, i've only had to go to the ER once - and i play very very rough. I'm a masochist; someone not as interested in erotic pain would likely have stopped the whole thing long before such damage occurred, right?
To sum up, fisting is a rather advanced sexual technique and you need to know how to be safe while pursuing the intense pleasure available to one through this kind of lovemaking.
Be careful.
Have fun.
