First Timer

[AtFirstSight]

That seems difficult to believe

You need a better imagination

 

[AtFirstSight]

I sympathize, believe me.

Bless you.

 

[Idigsoftclams]

Talking

seems there is a universal problem... although if you can get to the part were there are no clothes involved I find the communication clarifies expeditiously.

 

[EvilMcMonkey]

Why am I so pathetic when it comes to talking to the opposite sex?

You're socially shy, perhaps? You fear rejection more than you desire a positive outcome? It happens to many of us...not me so much, but I'm an ass.

 

[Caravelle]

wow beautiful body, so sexy

 

[Bigbobnc]

Nothing. Actually that's usually the problem...I do nothing

You are not alone *comfort*

 

[EndCredits]

Why am I so pathetic when it comes to talking to the opposite sex?

Oh boy, a post I can identify with!

Wait...

 

[rootsfan]

Bless you.

Bless me with your presence and we won't have to deal with this problem.

 

[friendly12]

Nice!

If I told you that you have a nice body...would you hold it against me?

 

[Paldor]

Why am I so pathetic when it comes to talking to the opposite sex?

Its definitely a universal problem, though I do admit that I find it somewhat boggling, considering how you play those of us here like a well tuned violin. (no, thats not meant to be a bad thing) But then again it is a completely different situation being a text based environment than in person. I guess its a wall you'll have to break through.

 

[AtFirstSight]

You're socially shy, perhaps? You fear rejection more than you desire a positive outcome? It happens to many of us...not me so much, but I'm an ass.

I think it's more the second one.

 

[AtFirstSight]

Its definitely a universal problem, though I do admit that I find it somewhat boggling, considering how you play those of us here like a well tuned violin. (no, thats not meant to be a bad thing) But then again it is a completely different situation being a text based environment than in person. I guess its a wall you'll have to break through.

I dont know about breaking walls...

 

[EvilMcMonkey]

I think it's more the second one.

It's hard to get past, but worth it. You just have to recognize that the worst case you imagine is the least likely outcome.

 

[Bender_Rod]

I think it's more the second one.

I view rejection as saving me from time and energy to pursue someone that does not desire me in the first place.

That or I just am self hurting.

 

[AtFirstSight]

It's hard to get past, but worth it. You just have to recognize that the worst case you imagine is the least likely outcome.

I usually tell myself that even if they reject me, I never had them before and functioned just fine, so the worst isn't actually that bad.

But I take so long to convince myself of that, that they're often gone.

 

[In Anticipation]

I usually tell myself that even if they reject me, I never had them before and functioned just fine, so the worst isn't actually that bad.

But I take so long to convince myself of that, that they're often gone.

One day you'll just be impulsive, and he'll be impulsive. Plus you'll find that your online eloquence will translate to in person eloquence, even if it's just for short bursts.

I'm not sure that you aren't doing yourself down too much and that you are most likely sparkling company in real life, in spite of what you believe. You certainly have the intellect.

I could tell you a story . . .

 

[AtFirstSight]

One day you'll just be impulsive, and he'll be impulsive. Plus you'll find that your online eloquence will translate to in person eloquence, even if it's just for short bursts.

I'm not sure that you aren't doing yourself down too much and that you are most likely sparkling company in real life, in spite of what you believe. You certainly have the intellect.

I could tell you a story . . .

Tell it.

 

[In Anticipation]

Tell it.

It's not very exciting, but long ago when the world was young (although not quite in the last century) I had an intense online relationship. Eventually I confesssed to my online paramour that I was somewhat intimidated by her intellect. You can probably guess the rest, of course the feeling was mutual . . .

Once we got that out of the way, well actually the relationship finished after much heartache, but that's a different story.

I'm sure I have the transcripts buried deep on some hard drive.

 

[trysail]

Say, AFS, how're the guinea pigs doing these days?

 

[AtFirstSight]

It's not very exciting, but long ago when the world was young (although not quite in the last century) I had an intense online relationship. Eventually I confesssed to my online paramour that I was somewhat intimidated by her intellect. You can probably guess the rest, of course the feeling was mutual . . .

Once we got that out of the way, well actually the relationship finished after much heartache, but that's a different story.

I'm sure I have the transcripts buried deep on some hard drive.

Intense online relationships ALWAYS end in heartache. At least yours and mine.

 

[AtFirstSight]

Say, AFS, how're the guinea pigs doing these days?

I actually haven't seen them since May (since i went away for the summer) but I get daily reports and by all accounts they're doing just dandy.

 

[Slave Master]

I actually haven't seen them since May (since i went away for the summer) but I get daily reports and by all accounts they're doing just dandy.

cute

Hi Gorgeous

Katie

 

[In Anticipation]

Intense online relationships ALWAYS end in heartache. At least yours and mine.

My first was so intense, nothing came up to that so I resorted to having a RL one instead . . .

Having said that I learnt all sorts of important stuff from the online one too.

I have no regrets at all though.

Maybe I should also add that my online one started on I think 19/09/2001, with someone living in Manhattan . . .

 

[MacGuffinn]

Where is that kitty?

 

[Paldor]

Intense online relationships ALWAYS end in heartache. At least yours and mine.

*raises hand* And mine