First time :)

[RedBabe1]

Wow ; First time tonight , after going over everything possible. My first time was amazing without all the detail. My Dom was amazing he made me feel 100 percent comfortable with everything , there is some confusion: I've always wanted this now I have it I don't know what to expect . I'm guessing tonight was an easy night and woah it kicked my ass but I loved every moment of it . What can I do or what should I do ? Am I supposed to talk to him alot or not ? Wait for him to call/text: I'm not sure . I want to please him in everyway possible . Just don't know exactly how this type of relationship actually works I never thought I'd have it seriously , help?!

 

[subwannabe]

Every relationship is different. You have to find your own way.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Wow ; First time tonight , after going over everything possible. My first time was amazing without all the detail. My Dom was amazing he made me feel 100 percent comfortable with everything , there is some confusion: I've always wanted this now I have it I don't know what to expect . I'm guessing tonight was an easy night and woah it kicked my ass but I loved every moment of it . What can I do or what should I do ? Am I supposed to talk to him alot or not ? Wait for him to call/text: I'm not sure . I want to please him in everyway possible . Just don't know exactly how this type of relationship actually works I never thought I'd have it seriously , help?!

Every relationship is different. You have to find your own way.

subwannabe is correct, in essence. Every relationship *is* different, but many questions and issues that pop up in a new relationship have likely popped up before in other people's relationships, and may well have been discussed here.

However, we almost always *do* recommend clear and open communication about both the good and the not-so-good with your partner. And Dom/sub regardless, it IS a partnership. If you want to please him in every way possible, getting him to communicate concerning what will please him is a good way to start.

You also should try to communicate *here* clearly... for example, you ask about waiting "for him to call/text." My first thought (because of the phrasing of that sentence) was, "Is this an online relationship or 'real' life?" That does make a difference, you know. If it is an LDR/online relationship, you might want to refer to a popular thread in this forum, "Distance Domination-Support Thread," which appears to have a lot of questions and responses to issues that may arise in such a relationship.

Good luck... and welcome to the BDSM Talk forum. You also might want to peruse our Library, which is stickied at the top of the page, and other threads in Talk. For discussion of (mostly) non-BDSM topics from BDSMers' points of view, try our sub-forum, the BDSM Café.

Again, welcome!

 

[submissive_fire]

Wow ; First time tonight , after going over everything possible. My first time was amazing without all the detail. My Dom was amazing he made me feel 100 percent comfortable with everything , there is some confusion: I've always wanted this now I have it I don't know what to expect . I'm guessing tonight was an easy night and woah it kicked my ass but I loved every moment of it . What can I do or what should I do ? Am I supposed to talk to him alot or not ? Wait for him to call/text: I'm not sure . I want to please him in everyway possible . Just don't know exactly how this type of relationship actually works I never thought I'd have it seriously , help?!

As subwannabe said, every relationship is different. We do not follow a rule book. I would suggest doing what feels natural/comfortable to you. I do understand your hesitation tho, it is hard to know what to do in any relationship but add in the D/s dynamic and sometimes it is just confusing. Good luck!

 

[RedBabe1]

No no no it's a real life thing but thanks I didn't see that thread I just needed help ill talk to him thank you very much

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

No no no it's a real life thing but thanks I didn't see that thread I just needed help ill talk to him thank you very much

If you liked it (and it sounds like you certainly did), then thank them!

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