First time

[AppleBiter]

My husband is more of a giver than a taker, always has been. He gets off on me getting off. I think both partners should be givers to make for truly hot sex.

JMHO.

 

[Guest]

Earl, you've got it right love, the best sex comes when you concerntrate on pleasuring your partner, being selfish means you only get half (if that) the experience, youmis outon the thrill of enjoying someone elses sexual fulfillment


And i don't believe it has anything to do with the size of a mans penis either*L*

(I don't believe it does either - )

I agree with LadyJeanne - it's about giving and receiving.

 

[TheEarl]

The idea that sex is something you 'get' from someone is an immature guy view. It's not until men realize it's about giving pleasure that they become good lovers.

Well, one of the protagonists in this conversation was a woman. One guy, one girl, both saying that sex was all about getting what you wanted and doing what was necessary to get that.

<bemused>

The Earl

 

[AppleBiter]

Well, one of the protagonists in this conversation was a woman. One guy, one girl, both saying that sex was all about getting what you wanted and doing what was necessary to get that.

<bemused>

The Earl

I think sex, as in everything else, is give and take. If you're not willing to do both, you probably should stick to masturbating.

 

[Black Tulip]

Giving is very nice. At least I like giving ... umh, no. That's another story.

I wanted to say that it's also important to be able to receive.
That means you are giving your partner a chance to show their love.



Took me a loooong time to get that.