first time....please help

[Huggable_1]

Hi well i am new on here and i was wondering if any of you would be willing to give me some advise. I am a teen and still a virgin. But i am VERY much into sex. I get myself off at least once a day. I have a boyfriend and i have been wanting to lose it to him, but im kinda scared. See he has a really big dick. Its really thick that its about 9 1/2 inches long. See why im a little worried?? he he he. But if any of you would be willing to give me some advise i would really like to hear it. Thanx

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Bring protection. (A rifle is a good start)

Buy some lube.
Lots of foreplay.
Go slowly.
Ask yourself why you're doing this.
If you think you're in pain -- you are.
Diversify your portfollio rather than putting all your money into a single stock.
Use a condom.

 

[Stump]

Make sure this is the guy you want to share a once in a lifetime experience with.

Being a guy, i know how fast they can run the other way once they get what they want. Don't leave yourself open to be emotionally hurt.

Use protection, dont listen to they hurt and i dont like them. Its for your safety and it only takes once to get pregnant.

Slow and easy, tell him before you even start that when you say stop, he stops.

 

[DrTom]

Hugs....you don't mention how old you are, but do yourself a favor. Stay a virgin a while longer.

 

[Wetkittykat]

Relaxing is good, but make sure you have someone you REALLY want to do this with. Considerate of you and will get YOU off before they get themselves off. Take your time. Get comfortable. And have towels or kleenexes ready(blood). Make sure your pussy is dripping wet and the lips around are coated well, before entry. Make sure that your parner does all they can to arouse you and keep on arousing you. And don't hesitate to tell them what you like and don't like. Missionary for the first time is good(with pillow under the ass). If you feel rushed, don't continue until you are COMPLETELY ok. Don't just do and say whatever JUST to please him/her. If they truly care about you and this being your first time, they will understand. I hope this helps. Good luck!

 

[Lasher]

I have to agree with Dixon, diversify your portfolio. If you're starting with a small amount of money, you may want to think about mutual funds.

Oh, and about the sex thing, make sure your doing it for the right reasons. You only get one first time. And use protection. I recommend Hefty Steel Sack and a role of duct tape.

And keep in mind there are lots of ways to have good quality sexual fun without penetration.

 

[Bruiser]

"lots of ways to have good quality sexual fun without penetration"

I'm sure if she's knows he has a 9 1/2 inch dick she's already had some good wholesome quality sexual fun for the whole family.

 

[Lajo]

Lasher...I agree. With the market fluctuating, mutual funds are a good idea. As well as a good, solid money market account.

As for sex...the key is time, which is on your side. Make sure you have plenty of time to enjoy everything leading up to the actual act. You control everything. Missionary is good...but so is you on top. That way, you can control how quickly he pentrates and how deep inside he goes.

and above all...USE A CONDOM! Pregnancy is only one reason to have him wear one. and if he won't, then he is not the man for you.

 

[Whispersecret]

If I was miraculously made a virgin again, I would do everything differently. I hope some of this advice makes it better for you than it was for me (which isn't a difficult goal to reach, actually.)

I lost my cherry to another teen. What a waste. Just like Stump said, he fled right after he came. He didn't even get one full stroke completed before he pulled out and spilled on the bed. I felt stupid, ashamed, angry. There was no going back to retrieve what I had so unwittingly tossed away in the spirit of experimentation and the vain hope that he and I would live happily ever after in Going Steadyland.

I don't know your boyfriend, and I don't know how old you are, but my advice would be to do as DrTom said and wait. You MIGHT be mature enough to be able to realize that this is a once-in-a-lifetime gift that you can give to a Man, but I don't think so. (Please don't take this as an insult.) I remember when I was a teenager in high school and even in college, I thought I was pretty mature and wise. I think everyone thinks that. I wasn't. Not even close.

Actually, I think you might be a little anxious to finally find out what all the fuss is about. I know I was. Or you might be in teen-love, which can be glorious. But in my opinion, teen-love just isn't anywhere near the state of mind you should be in when you give away your cherry.

So, assuming that you're now older and wiser (really!) I would find an older guy with a good deal of experience and a lot of patience. He should know before he starts that you're a virgin. Don't spring it on him like a surprise. He should plan carefully what he's going to do to make it good, how he's going to distract you from the initial pain.

But most importantly, this man (not boy) should be HONORED to be the one who takes your virginity. He shouldn't be doing it just because he finally gets to fuck you. This time should be completely for you. He should be awed that you trust him with this. He should feel a heartfelt responsibility to make this a much of a wonderful and glorious experience as he can.

If you give yourself for the first time to a man like this, congratulations. I envy you.



[This message has been edited by whispersecret (edited 04-04-2000).]

 

[John1965]

1. USE A CONDOM!! You don't know where that monster has been!
2. Lube...And lot's of it unless you want to walk funny for the next month.
3. Some kind of rag or something to put in your mouth when he busts that sucker on through to the promised land.
4. After that you will not care...Have a wonderful time!

 

[DrTom]

I myself have "pulled out" of the market. Currently I have made a deal with a local bank for 6.5% and the money is liquid.

Oh and Huggy, that "prize" you have is not something you find in Cracker jacks, so hold out as long as you can.