first time meeting (Domme & Sub)

[timd]

hi all

i'm after a little advice for my lover and i

we are long time friends and lovers, both of whom want to experiment with female Domme and male sub "stuff"

what we would like to hear about is ideas for a first session (or parts of a session) that we could use and report back on....

the context is: meeting in a hired apartment, with all the facilites a lightly furnished home would have,

toys are: ropes, clothes pegs (clips), dildos, a strap-on, lube, blindfold, handcuffs, a flogger and a wooden spoon(!)

the limits are: no scat, kids or animals - we both are prepared to share "fluids" - and no third party at this stage (perhaps next time!)

the timing: a 2 day/ 2 night session , the first night meeting after work and her being taken to the airport 2 days later

her initial thoughts are: cbt, bondage, flogging, queening, nude service, tit torture, cum milking, a long arse fucking session and lots of oral!

we welcome any and all suggestions

Happy New Year!!!!

 

[MissTaken]

It sounds like the two of you have certainly discussed your desires and created an agenda.

Have either of you engaged in any of these behaviors?
You say that you want to "experiment".

My thoughts are, experienced or not, when we meet over a distance, and then meet in person, filling your weekend with D/s may work against a relationship rather than for it. I know that I have fallen into that trap and just wanted to offer a word of caution,

Take your time and savor every act, every chance to share D/s and be sure to enjoy some non BDSM activities as well.

I don't mean to offend, but wanted to offer my own two cents,

Best of luck and enjoy!