(first time here so (kid in candy store )) Do any of you relate to sexual humiliation

[MilwaukeeMike28]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

 

[TheEarl]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

Have you tried reading the Loving Wives category? Sounds as though it might be right up your street.

Humiliation's not hugely my thing, although I'll try anything once (several times with a gifted partner). Don't worry about posting a lot. It's nice to see enthusiasm .

The Earl

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

I've fantasized about being humiliated by an attractive lesbian couple who says that I can't eat pussy worth shit. Does that count?

Actually I think there are some folks here that can relate to your fantasy. I've seen them in other threads, but they just may not be here right now. So don't fret. you're among friends, or at least friendly acquaintances.

 

[Guest]

I'm related to a couple people who are a humiliation to both sexes.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I'm related to a couple people who are a humiliation to both sexes.

So, how close are you to George W?

[The writers and producers for this post wish to apologize at this time for interjecting a political statement into a perfectly innocent thread. We'll do our best to not let it happen again.]

 

[Guest]

So, how close are you to George W?

[The writers and producers for this post wish to apologize at this time for interjecting a political statement into a perfectly innocent thread. We'll do our best to not let it happen again.]

Apology NOT accepted.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Apology NOT accepted.

I'll go to my corner now.

 

[minsue]

I'll go to my corner now.

*waiting in the corner*

 

[lucky-E-leven]

I've fantasized about being humiliated by an attractive lesbian couple who says that I can't eat pussy worth shit. Does that count?

My interest is definitely piqued, if that makes you feel any better. I kinda doubt it, but there it is.

 

[The_Fool]

My interest is definitely piqued, if that makes you feel any better. I kinda doubt it, but there it is.

Vella would make you both pay dearly.....

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Lots of people are into humiliation. What exactly did you want to talk about?

 

[silverwhisper]

mike: much better forum for this than the general board. :>

sexual humiliation and what you're talking about is pretty much the heart of the vast majority of the loving wives category of stories as previously mentioned. head on over there if you're looking for some erotica. :>

i have a bit of a soft spot for sexual humiliation myself. :>

ed

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Vella would make you both pay dearly.....

Or would she?

~lucky

(I've missed you, Fool!)

 

[rikaaim]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

Welcome to the AH. Feel free to post all you want, as it's the only way you'll ever get your questions answered. I must admit that I love the humilation aspect. It's a little wierd for me, but I find it insanely arousing in two aspects.

1: I love to humilate my partner in some way. Just degrading a woman, sexually, can be extremely arousing for me. Knowing that I've reduced her to a primal lusting, animalistic and fucking, just like me, gets me off very quick. I like to know that nothing is taboo and all is accepted. I like to just be a fucking slut, and I like my partner to feel the same way. A lot of things get me off and humilation is one of them.

2: I like to be humilated, in some aspects. I too like the idea of my woman being freshly fucked by a huge cock and I get some sloppy seconds. I want to hear, while I'm fucking her nice open hole, that he was so much bigger than me and such a better fuck. I don't know why, but man...that really gets me going. I also like the idea of two cocks in one pussy. Me and another guy in her pussy. I love that idea of stretching her nice and wide till she takes all the meat that's being put into her.

I have never gotten into eating his cum after he's done with her though. Everything else seems to be about the same. It's just so hard to describe all the sensations going on knowing that I'm a fucking whore fucking an equally dirty whore, who's just been fucked by a bigger whore, and is now telling me that I'm a worthless whore who can't fuck because I'm not big enough. I think that sums it up fairly well.

I like the idea of driving my cock deeper into a fucked hole and trying my best to equal the guy that just filled her. I know I can never do it, but I try all the harder because of it. And I like the feel of a nice stretched pussy.

 

[The_Fool]

Or would she?

~lucky

(I've missed you, Fool!)

Missed you too, baby....

I'm sure that the tongue lashings would be frequent, direct and unrelenting.....

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Missed you too, baby....

I'm sure that the tongue lashings would be frequent, direct and unrelenting.....

She takes her work quite seriously indeed.

 

[Guest]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

I'm massively into humiliation (both of myself and of the man), and have both played out many scenes and written a lot of others, all based around the subject.

I wrote a brilliant one (in my opinion) recently, with someone else. He has many of the same fantasies as you. I'm currently editing that story and he'll post it in due course. I'll let you know when it's up!

I wrote another whopper last week (it was a confessional letter, from a slut to her lover), which I'm still debating whether or not to actually post.

I've just started writing another. Seems I'm on a roll. This one is about a couple who go to a party, and she gets horny (as she does) and he dares her to take one of the guys upstairs and suck his cock, but no more than that! Of course, she does a lot more than that and the other guy goes back downstairs and begins to drop hints to her partner that they've just fucked. This goes on all evening, with her taking different guys upstairs and the partner getting more and more embarrassed and humiliated. Eventually, some of the other women there turn on her. That's when she gets her humiliation. There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the general idea of it all.

 

[sun_lover_61]

This one is about a couple who go to a party...

Dear Tatelou,

This does indeed sound brilliant! So, write , write write!! I have my own take on these things. I like the idea of a cuckold situation going wrong. i.e. Perhaps the would be cuckold brings to realisation his perfect fantasy - only to realise the dangers in it too late. They might be - awakening an unstoppable sexuality - bringing together two soul mates, to his eternal loss - or many other possibilities.

When you talk enthusiastically about humiliation fantasies - do you contemplate making them reality?

SL61

 

[AppleBiter]

I can't say I relate too much where the "watching-your-spouse-sleep-with-someone-else" thing is concerned. (I'm not knocking it, just not my thing) But, I am into other forms of humiliation. I don't know why -- I'm just a masochist at heart.

 

[Pure]

jeez lou yer onna roll--keep us posted

 

[Guest]

Dear Tatelou,

This does indeed sound brilliant! So, write , write write!! I have my own take on these things. I like the idea of a cuckold situation going wrong. i.e. Perhaps the would be cuckold brings to realisation his perfect fantasy - only to realise the dangers in it too late. They might be - awakening an unstoppable sexuality - bringing together two soul mates, to his eternal loss - or many other possibilities.

When you talk enthusiastically about humiliation fantasies - do you contemplate making them reality?

SL61

Thanks! And I have been!

The one I wrote last week was about a cuckold situation going wrong, but kind of in reverse; it went wrong for her in a nasty way (she set up a gang bang, then made him believe he initiated the whole thing - he got exluded and very embarrassed and humiliated, she got what the rest of the men thought was coming to her).

As for contemplating making humiliation fantasies a reality, I have and I do. But, I'm not going into details about any of that, cos it's personal. Some of my stories already posted here are based on actual events, but I never let on which are and which are completely made up.

jeez lou yer onna roll--keep us posted

Yep, sure am. Will do, cheers, Pure!

 

[dr_mabeuse]

The idea of getting sloppy seconds and loving it is totally foreign to me. I like to think that I can get a handle on most sexual deviations, but this one eludes me.

I could understand it as a variation of the she's-a-slut fantasy, but that doesn't seem to be it. It's not about her.

I wonder if it's like some sort of evolutionary sexual survival skill. Rather than run the risk of going head to head with the alpha male for first dibs, the second-timer is content to go after him, thus getting a shot at the brass ring without putting his ass on the line. Does that make sense? Kind of like the idea of not walking point on a military patrol.

The humiliation angle I can understand as a kind of shame-play, but that sloppy seconds thing always baffles me.

 

[Guest]

The idea of getting sloppy seconds and loving it is totally foreign to me. I like to think that I can get a handle on most sexual deviations, but this one eludes me.

I could understand it as a variation of the she's-a-slut fantasy, but that doesn't seem to be it. It's not about her.

I wonder if it's like some sort of evolutionary sexual survival skill. Rather than run the risk of going head to head with the alpha male for first dibs, the second-timer is content to go after him, thus getting a shot at the brass ring without putting his ass on the line. Does that make sense? Kind of like the idea of not walking point on a military patrol.

The humiliation angle I can understand as a kind of shame-play, but that sloppy seconds thing always baffles me.

I kind of get it, but I must admit that it used to baffle me, too.

However, after spending a lot of time talking to someone about this very subject, and him giving his detailed thoughts to me, and describing particular scenarios, it began to become more clear.

The turn on for the guy, as I understand it, is his woman being a slut. Or, taking it to another level, it's the idea of her being bullied into sex, then enjoying it, but not actually letting on she's enjoying it - playing the victim (if that makes sense?). Maybe, in that latter instance, he feels like he's the hero, comforting her after her "ordeal". But, I think those motivations are rare.

The biggest turn on seems to be the whole goading and humiliation scenario. Oh, and it's also quite important to him that the other men have bigger dicks.

From my point of view, this kind of thing comes from within someone who is very sexually confident. They feel no threat from the other men, but want to be made to feel lesser of a man than they are. They want to be told, "I just felt your woman up." Or, "Watch this, I know how to get her going." Whereas, in fact, he knows full well exactly how to get her going, he just chooses to put himself into an uncomfortable and embarrassing situation.

I think a lot of it is that she's his woman, no matter what, and he knows it, and he ultimately gets some satisfaction from the knowledge that other guys have "had a go" at her, but he's the one she always comes home to, and they could never really have her.

Oh, I don't really know, to be honest, but I know it's a turn on for me to write about, and I know how much enjoyment he gets from reading them.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Sorry for all the posts but I am like a kid in a candy store on this board. I have never come across such a place on the web. So please forgive all my posts.

So ..... do you enjoy sexual humiliation ? I love it. I find it very difficult to convey all the thoughts and feelings on this topic but I would love to have a discussion about this.

I will start by admitting one of my favorite fantasies is to have my wife after another man ( with a bigger cock ) has already had her. After he is done with her she dominates me and the fantasy almost always ends with me licking his cum out of her pussy. Mmmmm..... I love that. Can anyone relate ? Any other similar fantasies or ideas ?

Thinking back on this a bit, I remember before Penthouse folded under "the current politcal climate," that I use to read a number of stories in there about men who enjoyed this sort of thing.

I don't think it's as uncommon as some might think. It's not my cup of tea, but I don't think it's as far out there as some other things.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

I kind of get it, but I must admit that it used to baffle me, too.

However, after spending a lot of time talking to someone about this very subject, and him giving his detailed thoughts to me, and describing particular scenarios, it began to become more clear.

The turn on for the guy, as I understand it, is his woman being a slut.

Yeah, I'm familiar with the "she's-a-whore" fantasy, but why should you need male humiliation for that?

I can get off on that angle in the story you describe (which does sound pretty hot. Something about all those men filing upstairs one after another...) but nothing about the situation of the poor schmuck's who's waiting downstairs does anything for me.

It seems to me it's more similar to F/m D/s, being Dommed by a woman. That kind of play often involves male humiliation and sissification (are those the same things?) The thing that doesn't compute for me is getting off on being told you're a lousy and inadequate lover. I just don't get how that works. I'd appreciate it if someone could explain.